# Newbie here looking for Pheromones to Improve My Game, for Attraction. M/28 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 31, 2016, 1:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547 "2016-01-31T13:57:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Dnepolash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/4491bb/32.png) [@Dnepolash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dnepolash)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2016, 1:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/1 "2016-01-31T13:57:37Z")
Hey, I’m a 28 y/o male. Kinda a sweet silly man (quite beta) looking for some tips (and a gift card!!) About what I should be aiming for. On the one hand, my ex is my best friend (and I’m her best friend) I would love to lure back into my arms but on the other I’m just looking at what’s out there to improve my game/ interpersonal connection. I think the reason we broke up was simply her feeling guilty that I was crazy about her and she just got out a relationship and couldn’t reciprocate. She is dating a new guy now but openly tells me she isn’t sure about him and wishes they could talk like me/her. Anyway, I’m not putting all my eggs in one basket and am definitely eyeing other women too so any tips on where [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) can fit into my life? And before you say “dude drop that girl” she is backburnered. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2016, 2:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/2 "2016-01-31T14:10:18Z")
Hi Dnepolash, Welcome to this forum, Here are my recommendations, Instant Shine: This will make you stand out from the crowd. People will be happier around you and it will boost your mood too, giving you a happy-go-lucky vibe. Instant Honesty: This will help induce trust and bonding with people, including that lady. This will stimulate deep conversations because you have some issues to solve if you are looking for a new long-term relationship with that person. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/): This wil make you pose as a wise and reliable guy. It will also boost your self-confidence and make you less sensible to initial rejection (should it happen). Ammo 1X regular: This will send a charming and sexy vibe, this will eventually help steer things away from the friend zone. You’ll appear more attarctive and it will boost your flirting self-esteem. This might trigger a ‘he’s my man’ vibe back in her. TUTH: To fend off last minute resistance if things are heading back to bed eventually. Please tell us more about her personality. It might affect slightly some of the recommendations above. Also, her age please. You’re the one who knows if she’s worth pursuing. Just be the one who holds the cards. This way you won’t get burned and will be able to easily move on if you see fit. You will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate by answering the simple questions above. Hope to hear from you. ---
**Author:** ![Dnepolash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/4491bb/32.png) [@Dnepolash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dnepolash)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2016, 3:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/3 "2016-01-31T15:49:17Z")
She is quite insecure/shy. I just could never figure out if she prefered sweet to a more domineering personality or vice versa. It always seemed like me being kind pushed her away, but I attributed to the guilt and fear of her hurting me. I guess she convinced herself she didn’t feel that way for me and did MANY things to create a distance between us. It’s pretty clear without the sexual tension now she has an easier time opening up and she said I was more sexual than any guy she was ever with (which may of been another part that drove her away). She had admitted that there was times just the sound of my voice turned her on (though she always played her cards VERY close to her chest). From her wordings I get the feeling she is attracted to the bad boys but smart enough to avoid them all the same. She is also a “serial monogamist”. The type of girl afraid of being alone. She told me many times she can be very “clingy” but I never really got that vibe from her. Anyway, I’ve seen first hand the lengths she will go to please a commited partner (she lives to please). If I sound confused about what she wants, I definitely am. I don’t even think she knows! 😛 And yes, the hearbreak of getting over her once means I absolutely will keep myself in check and not invest too much hope. That’s why I’m playing the field. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2016, 3:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/4 "2016-01-31T15:53:04Z")
Thanks. With a shy / insecure girl, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) will go a long way 🙂. You’ll never feel as someone who can be hurt with IG, I often use the words ‘solid as an oak tree’ to describe the self-feeling it gives me. You need Ammo to steer away from friend zone. The advice given before holds well, you can rely on it. Don’t fall into the bad boy acting trap, being insecure, she needs someone reliable. A forum moderator will drop the GC in your email when they come across your thread. It usually takes a day or two. Other users will probably give ther advice as well. If you have other questions, ask away, this is the right place and time to do so. This friendly community will do its best to get you started. ---
**Author:** ![Spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@Spectrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spectrum)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2016, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/5 "2016-01-31T16:16:06Z")
Hello, welcome to the forum. Apart from above suggestions would also recommend you to look at : p96 and mx297. Usually putative and experimental mix are for experienced user. But looking at the descriptions above would suggest you to read more about them. But they are not intended to be used together. P96 can be used with above products. And Mx297 to be used solo. Keep posting and take care ---
**Author:** ![Dnepolash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/4491bb/32.png) [@Dnepolash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dnepolash)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2016, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/6 "2016-01-31T23:19:44Z")
Thanks. I wouldn’t fall for the bad boy trap anyway since that’s not me and she definitely knows it. Instant gentleman does sound like a good fit for my personality too. She’s already called me “her rock” but having the rock solid emotional to go with it couldn’t hurt. Instant honesty seems good too as she always seemed to be holding back on what she was REALLY thinking. It seems like she is opening on that front already, but again, a [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) edge can’t hurt. Anyway!!! I’ll research my options a bit more! Thanks for the advice. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2016, 12:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/7 "2016-02-01T00:53:11Z")
Don’t forget ammo vs friendzone 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Dnepolash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/4491bb/32.png) [@Dnepolash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dnepolash)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2016, 2:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/8 "2016-02-01T02:54:57Z")
> [@Conjurator](#): > > Don’t forget ammo vs friendzone 🙂 [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) sounds like too much fun to pass up anyway. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2016, 4:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/9 "2016-02-01T04:20:02Z")
Hi dnepolash! Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 🙂 With the recommendations above, I will point you to the UPIP direction. That pack contains every best selling [pheromones for men](https://phero.com/) all in 5ml bottles. And I’m sure the $25 Intro GC I dropped into your email will come in handy. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ========= _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Newbie here looking for some tips.”** to **“Newbie here looking for Pheromones to Improve My Game, for Attraction. M/28”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2016, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/10 "2016-02-01T17:26:05Z")
Welcome Dnepolash, I think you got really good advice here and I have to go with Conjurator here. I would just make sure to read up on all the stickies at the top of this section to get the most out of your pheromones. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2017, 10:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/11 "2017-01-30T10:15:13Z")
Hi! I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC. Hope you received it all fine. 🙂 Don’t forget to share your test results my friend. You can create your own journal [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/men-s-journals/22) to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. It’s your own phero time machine. For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/men-s-pheromone-advice-tricks-and-tips/45). Expert pheromone users usually browse this area. 🙂 Also, please drop a feedback here or via PM about how the shipping goes for you. Thanks! Chat soon! ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2017, 6:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-looking-for-pheromones-to-improve-my-game-for-attraction-m-28/65547/12 "2017-02-11T18:11:15Z")
Yes, a journal would be a great idea. Please tell us about your results.