# Newbie here. question **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 3, 2010, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-question/39092 "2010-06-03T23:29:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![davyliyang](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@davyliyang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/davyliyang)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2010, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-question/39092/1 "2010-06-03T23:29:44Z")
hello. i’m age of 23. not bad looking. but have bad smile. i’m very shy. not talktive. worst of all. i’m seriously lack of confident. i have a target girl(she is asian age of 19. the kind of good girl from church).what’s the [best pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) for me? right now. i’m looking into pheromone chikara and NPA. and pherlure. i’m afraid they works only for older woman. too strong for young people.🙂. PS: i think i’m in love. i dont know how can i live without her. but she probaly think i’m too immature. i hope this pheromone thing can be my cupid’s arrow. save my life. ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2010, 11:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-question/39092/2 "2010-06-03T23:37:58Z")
Well, being 23 I would suggest you try IG & IS IG, will give you that chill cool guy vibe. [IS](https://a314.com/product/shine/) will give you that bright fresh confident vibe and it makes others around you happy., some people like myself, even get “self effects” of a big boost in happiness. Click on the links to see more about them Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2010, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-question/39092/3 "2010-06-03T23:42:51Z")
> [@davyliyang](#): > > hello. i’m age of 23. not bad looking. but have bad smile. i’m very shy. not talktive. worst of all. i’m seriously lack of confident. i have a target girl(she is asian age of 19).what’s the best pheromone for me? right now. i’m looking into pheromone chikara and NPA. and pherlure. i’m afraid they works only for older woman. too strong for young people.🙂. > > PS: i think i’m in love. i dont know how can i live without her. but she probaly think i’m too immature. i hope this pheromone thing can be my cupid’s arrow. save my life. Well for starters I would use some IO and IS for yourself to get you more upbeat. I would stay away from any -none products (AMMO, TUTH) just because she’s young and asian, probably super sensitive to -none. Remember [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) can only take you so far with attraction, you have to be a man, period. You can’t just expect to spray and go and she’ll fall in love with you. Couple of things. 1. Confidence, I don’t care if you don’t know everything and anything, be confident in what you are, your value, and what you bring to the table. If you don’t know, man up and say I don’t know and find out, it’s better than saying you know and not knowing. This could be where IG could come in for you, right now you’re new to this so I would stay away from A314. 2. Comfort, She has to be comfortable around you enough to truly let herself out. This is where IS, IO, IH comes in. This is also the order I would use this. Reason is because you need the self effects. IH takes a little mastery and IS and IO will open up those doors to let it pave the way for IH to work later. 3. Tension, you have to create some sexual tension (in a good sense) with her. By then your body should produce enough -none for the attraction to be there. If not, TUTH, highly doubt you’d need it but you need to test it out yourself, make sure she is REALLY comfortable with you first before you do anything. These will only take you so far, breathe, relax, enjoy and show her why you are high value. Don’t always give into her demands, be the “alpha”. Being a leader, knowing what you want, how you want it, when you want it, but not being arrogant or condescending to others. You want to be that person that inspires, not aspires. ---
**Author:** ![davyliyang](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@davyliyang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/davyliyang)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2010, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-question/39092/4 "2010-06-03T23:59:07Z")
great. thx guys. not just for the suggestions. also for the advices. i still have few more newbie questions. can i mix IG and IS together with my own colone. how much should i put on everyday?. how long does it last? where should i use them? neck? face? ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2010, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-question/39092/5 "2010-06-04T00:25:20Z")
> [@davyliyang](#): > > great. thx guys. not just for the suggestions. also for the advices. i still have few more newbie questions. can i mix IG and IS together with my own colone. how much should i put on everyday?. how long does it last? where should i use them? neck? face? Yeah you can…I don’t cause I love the way IG & IS smell by themselves. You just gotta see how much you fits you. Find your sweet spot as they say…try one shot of IG…go around talk to people do your normal daily routine and keep upping the sprays until you find that you’re using too much…that’s one way. Another way I did was I used waay too much at first then went backwards from there…cause I got to see what it’s like to be “ghosted” or ignored and look at me like something wrong etc…until I found for me 3 sprays of IG and 4 of IS worked great…BUT I’m 34 year old white male, so it will be different for you… Try one spray of IG and go from there…as for IS…it’s almost impossible from what I see to OD on it…there comes point to when you’re just wasting it. as for IO you can use it a lot…again reeeeal hard to OD on…use a LOT of it! like 4 sprays,. But try them out by themselves FIRST!!!..then once you know what they do..mix them…like 1 spray of IG and cover it with 3 sprays of IS and 2 of IO on your wrists for example…