# Newbie here, TUTH curiosity. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 27, 2009, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637 "2009-10-27T18:28:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![EmpireStat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empirestat/32/1078_2.png) [@EmpireStat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmpireStat)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/1 "2009-10-27T18:28:16Z")
Thank you all for giving me the opportunity to get some insight into a world I never thought to be. As a skeptic, I have done some research, and also reading several threads and posts. I am very intrigued. I am a 27 year old newlywed male, living in the Heartland. I started looking at several ways to improve my wife’s sex drive, including OTC medications, and even consulting doctors. Then, I heard about [pheromones](https://a314.com/)… and came across a few companies I knew I couldn’t trust. Then I found you guys. I am married. She is outgoing, and so am I. She is slightly moody, I am quite relaxed and mellow. I am finding that nothing seems to get her in the mood. After reading for a few weeks, I have decided to purchase TUTH. ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 6:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/2 "2009-10-27T18:39:05Z")
Hey EmpireStat, welcome to the forums! I still believe you would qualify for a 25$ gift cirtificate so maybe you can try mixing a few to-go bottles with your TUTH. Personally I would recommend buffering the TUTH with some other social pheromone such as [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). That way it isn’t in your face as much but then again since you always have it try covering it up with some cologne she likes. At the same time keep in mind that she is already used to your signature scent, so gradual introduce the TUTH into your routine maybe before she gets tired in the evening. Also remember to behave in the right way for her to synchronize your actions with the new signature she is interpreting from you, or else she may become confused. Be sensual. If she asks whats that smell and or says she likes it continue to tell her you feel differently lately (that way she will blame the smell on that). Or you can go right out and tell her what your up to if she knows your looking for a libido solution for her. Either way Goodluck! ---
**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 6:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/3 "2009-10-27T18:39:13Z")
Hey empiresta. Welcome to the board man, That’s always a tough situation, hopefully tuth will help with that spark. Start out slow, incase she is sensitive to none containing products. Is she on any hormonal birthcontrol? that can affect it sometimes. The mrs started taking one once which killed her drive. Needless to say we got off that one asap. ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 7:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/4 "2009-10-27T19:33:27Z")
Welcome Empirestate, I’m going to chime in here as a woman. I would also give [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) a try. It should open up deeper communication between you two & maybe you can determine the reason for this. Also, has she gone to the Doctor? It may be something like low estrogen, which can be helped with medication? ---
**Author:** ![EmpireStat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empirestat/32/1078_2.png) [@EmpireStat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmpireStat)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 8:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/5 "2009-10-27T20:08:59Z")
> [@ladyofthewoods](#): > > Welcome Empirestate, > > I’m going to chime in here as a woman. I would also give Instant Honesty a try. It should open up deeper communication between you two & maybe you can determine the reason for this. Also, has she gone to the Doctor? It may be something like low estrogen, which can be helped with medication? Thanks everyone for your input. She has tried different birth controls, which the doctor recommended for her lack of sexual desire. Nothing has seemed to work yet. After reading, I’m thinking of starting out w/ one spray and covering it up w/ some cologne she already “approves” of. If this doesn’t work, I might have to try the Instant Honesty or [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), for her mood swings. However, I am still contemplating the damage it could do if she reacts negatively to the TUTH. ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/6 "2009-10-27T21:21:43Z")
I hate to be the bearer of bad news…Androtics doesn’t sell IFM anymore. Some other company holds the patent to one of the ingredients. I’m still looking for something to deal with the PMS irritability… ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 9:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/7 "2009-10-27T21:48:09Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![zodiacore](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/zodiacore/32/480_2.png) [@zodiacore](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zodiacore)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2009, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/8 "2009-10-29T19:50:02Z")
awe I know that sucks, what’s the patented ingredient in IFM? ---
**Author:** ![EmpireStat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empirestat/32/1078_2.png) [@EmpireStat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmpireStat)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2009, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/9 "2009-10-29T20:22:55Z")
It’s only been a couple days, but I’m back. First night using TUTH went very well. The wine might have helped a little. 🙂 The wife responded very well, with one spray on my hair, then rubbed on back of neck. Even I felt a little different at first. I was a little sleepy after 15 min or so, but that seemed to go away, and was followed by a long burst of energy. I walked up behind the wife, and put my arms around her… she looked at me and directly said, “Yes, after the movie” I couldn’t believe she said that to me, without me saying anything. I didn’t know whether to laugh, or really for any matter, what to think. Ended up being a “good” night. Second night, one spray of TUTH to my hair again, but no hits that I could recognize. She was very sleepy, and just went to bed immediately. Before using for the first time the other night, I started to think of why I came here in the first place, and started feeling a bit guilty. Am I wrong? Is this ok? I’m just trying to make my relationship better, no harm in that. I’m finding that there’s much more to this. I will continue to experiment with TUTH, amount of sprays, body part applications, etc. I did receive a to go bottle of IH with my order, and I’m not sure when and how to use. Do I experiment for awhile w/ only one product? Do I take a break from TUTH if I see that she is reacting negatively to it? When do I know I can start to mix the two? How early before being around her do I wait to spray for effectiveness? I read a lot of threads regarding hits, mixing, marriage, etc. How do I know when too much is too much? Just a few questions as a newbie. Thanks in advance. ---
**Author:** ![Tester5000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e99b99/32.png) [@Tester5000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tester5000)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2009, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/10 "2009-10-29T21:03:24Z")
Hey EmpireStat, ([https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmpireStat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmpireStat)) tell me, how was your sex life before you took you vows (or was it no sex before marriage?) has it changed or was it like this before? ---
**Author:** ![EmpireStat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empirestat/32/1078_2.png) [@EmpireStat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmpireStat)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 9:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/11 "2009-11-01T21:17:00Z")
> [@Tester5000](#): > > Hey EmpireStat, ([https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmpireStat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmpireStat)) > > tell me, how was your sex life before you took you vows (or was it no sex before marriage?) has it changed or was it like this before? About once every two weeks. It’s been this way since we’ve been together. Seems she has never really had a sex drive. I do agree, though, that some of it is emotional. Starting to understand a bit more after experimenting for a few days. Both positive and negative results. I think the build up from TUTH got to her after awhile. She was very angry over nothing… It was kinda weird. Took a break. Started IH after showering. She seems to be a bit more talkative and willing to open up about what’s on her mind. For now, I’m still unsure how to know when to use TUTH and for what occasion. Something I’ll have to work on. ---
**Author:** ![Pongo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/82dd89/32.png) [@Pongo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pongo)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2009, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/12 "2009-11-10T23:47:57Z")
[Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) was a lot of fun for me ~ works great when you don’t care what a woman thinks of you,… ---
**Author:** ![desirez28](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e0b2c6/32.png) [@desirez28](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desirez28)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 11:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here-tuth-curiosity/33637/13 "2009-11-11T23:51:46Z")
This is not only about pheromone at all my friend. Yes, TUTH or any products might help you get better, but the important is between you guys. You can try up to be the motivator, motivate her to be more fun when with you, but not purposely doing it, please be natural… 🙂 1. Something have to change, starting from you. Or else, don’t expect any changing in your environment. 2. Use pheromones, increase your confident. A314 + TUTH will add spicy in your life. 3. Don’t give up if you love her and you keep doing the right thing until the right time is coming for you… 4. Keep repeat 3. and you will be improve something in your life. this is only my opinion, I think this would be a reference for you, my life have to deal with a lot of girls, and I manage to improve it keep follow rules no.4. 😛 Good luck mate and try your best mix with the product from smartmone !😃