# Newbie here

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [January 11, 2010, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383 "2010-01-11T03:28:19Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 9\
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**Author:** ![BodyC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bodyc/32/644_2.png) [@BodyC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BodyC)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2010, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383/1 "2010-01-11T03:28:19Z")

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Hello Everyone,

I am female of late 30’s and would it be okay that I would not post the State where I currently live? hmmm I am not really comfortable with it and just don’t ask why hehehe. I personally don’t have any issues at all making new friends, flirting, etc. etc. I can do this pretty much easy but it has to be my own choice at the right time, at the right place. I could say that I am an attractive Asian woman-hmmm okay just a little bit I guess. But with my age some guys would think that I am in 20’s and that bothered me so much coz everytime I go to a bar, very seldom would come up to me coz they thought that I am 18. I don’t know what’s with Bar that I’m not good at it, even the bouncer would say.. enjoy kid! grrrr! I consider myself a woman not a teenager plus with being in a size 1.

So the reason I joined [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) product is to test if I would get hits next time I go to a Bar.. You see I just bought a pheromones from the other website last week and it doesn’t do anything for me and I am returning it tomorrow ☹

By the way, I ordered MX135 last night and maybe hopefully I could get a $25 gift certificate to pair it with something. Thanks for reading this post!

BodyC

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**Author:** ![Nehve1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nehve1/32/959_2.png) [@Nehve1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nehve1)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2010, 5:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383/2 "2010-01-11T05:38:48Z")

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Hi Body C

If you want to come across as more mature, maybe [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A would help. It’s supposed to produce an alpha type vibe…competent, in charge, dominating. That could possibly translate to making you seem more your age.

From what Ive read about it, Mx135 is supposed to be the popularity, life of the party type mix. I don’t know if it would make you seem more mature, though. I have mx335 (mx135 in grapefruit) but haven’t tried it out yet. 🆒

Good Luck. Look forward to seeing how things work for you!

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**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2010, 5:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383/3 "2010-01-11T05:48:35Z")

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Welcome to the forum.

My SO is an Asian lass close to your age, and she’s always getting carded. The “foreign devils” don’t seem to be able to judge her age very well.

You might consider giving ih and io a try. They tend to make people more approachable, which may be part of the issue you’re dealing with. You didn’t say what Asiatic culture you are from, but often there are approachability issues with some of the cultures.

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**Author:** ![nobrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90ced4/32.png) [@nobrain](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nobrain)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2010, 2:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383/4 "2010-01-11T14:53:57Z")

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> [@BodyC](#):
>
> Hello Everyone,
> 
> I am female of late 30’s and would it be okay that I would not post the State where I currently live? hmmm I am not really comfortable with it and just don’t ask why hehehe. I personally don’t have any issues at all making new friends, flirting, etc. etc. I can do this pretty much easy but it has to be my own choice at the right time, at the right place. I could say that I am an attractive Asian woman-hmmm okay just a little bit I guess. But with my age **some guys would think that I am in 20’s** and that bothered me so much coz everytime I go to a bar, very seldom would come up to me **coz they thought that I am 18**. I don’t know what’s with Bar that I’m not good at it, even the bouncer would say.. enjoy kid! grrrr! I consider myself a woman not a teenager plus with **being in a size 1**.
> 
> So the reason I joined pheromones product is to test if I would get hits next time I go to a Bar.. You see I just bought a pheromones from the other website last week and it doesn’t do anything for me and I am returning it tomorrow ☹
> 
> By the way, I ordered MX135 last night and maybe hopefully I could get a $25 gift certificate to pair it with something. Thanks for reading this post!
> 
> BodyC

Are you for real? _Sorry, but I cannot tell if you are serious?_ Something just seems “off” on this post to me.

Maybe it is me, but last time I checked attractive 20something (or 18, which is it?) looking Asian – a size 1 no less – didn’t have problems getting “hits” at bars. Are you looking for people on this forum to build-you-up by stating the obvious (you should be happy to look young, happy to be a size one, happy that men at bars aren’t all over you).

You say your flirting has to be at the right time/right place; maybe it should become obvious that a BAR is not the right time and right place. Are you looking for a relationship or sex? If you’re looking for a relationship, don’t try and start one at the BAR – you’re not a young-one anymore, even if you look it.

If you’re looking for sex, no need for pheromones. Just write “I’m horny, buy me a drink” on a bunch of napkins and hand them out. Or, write it on your forehead. I will bet you will get “hits”.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2010, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383/5 "2010-01-11T21:18:11Z")

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂.

I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool!

Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one.

Welcome to the forum.

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**Author:** ![BodyC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bodyc/32/644_2.png) [@BodyC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BodyC)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2010, 12:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383/6 "2010-01-12T00:11:09Z")

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@Nehve1 IS is out of stock, so yah I did requested to email me if it’s available.  
@Gonewiththewind I came from Philippines and like I said I don’t have any issues at all with meeting new people. I am very approachable, like to the point people will gather to my area and just talk or in short I could draw crowds easily or be the center of attention. Co-workers always visit to my cubicles every now and then and some would say.. why is that you have lots of visitors?? I guess I am very friendly.  
But to NoBrain…I’m gonna rephrase my line. I am 36 right now and in size 1, I’m not looking for sex, relationship or even a one night stand.. it just wonders me so much that why I could turn guys head on me whenever I go somewhere else, but when I go to a BAR nobody seems to approach me that quickly, everytime they look at me, they hesitate thinking that I am 21, a legal age to get it in and I could tell from the way they look. Yes, I am happy to look young but I just wanted men to come to me as they would look me like a “Lady”. It’s kinda weird but I could sense guys aren’t interested of me, which I don’t know why. I am more prettier than my friend but hell a guy would come up to her easily because she looks matured than me.. And yah being in size 1 doesn’t mean we’re very happy of it.. it’s not easy to be called skinny you know?

And to Mickaelia thanks for the GC.. I really appreciate it.

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**Author:** ![nobrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90ced4/32.png) [@nobrain](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nobrain)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2010, 12:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383/7 "2010-01-12T00:35:11Z")

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> [@BodyC](#):
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> But to NoBrain…I’m gonna rephrase my line. I am 36 right now and in size 1, I’m not looking for sex, relationship or even a one night stand.. it just wonders me so much that why I could turn guys head on me whenever I go somewhere else, but when I go to a BAR nobody seems to approach me that quickly, everytime they look at me, they hesitate thinking that I am 21, a legal age to get it in and I could tell from the way they look. Yes, I am happy to look young but I just wanted men to come to me as they would look me like a “Lady”. It’s kinda weird but I could sense guys aren’t interested of me, which I don’t know why. I am more prettier than my friend but hell a guy would come up to her easily because she looks matured than me.. And yah being in size 1 doesn’t mean we’re very happy of it.. it’s not easy to be called skinny you know?
> 
> And to Mickaelia thanks for the GC.. I really appreciate it.

So guys turn their head for you everywhere but the bar and you want to remedy that? To each his/her own but maybe the guys at the bar avoid you because they feel you are too classy for them. Maybe they are intimidated by you. Maybe your friend seems more “easily caught”. Most men in bars who talk to you (or your friend) have more intentions than to just say hello. If you are not looking for sex, a relationship, or even a one night stand - perhaps that is why the guys stay away. Most of them want sex, a relationship, or a one night stand. This is a BAR, not church.

“it’s not easy to be called skinny you know?” – yeah, say that to a fat lady.

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**Author:** ![BodyC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bodyc/32/644_2.png) [@BodyC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BodyC)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2010, 12:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383/8 "2010-01-12T00:49:28Z")

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OMG NoBrain! can’t help laughing here…hahahah you made my day!

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**Author:** ![nobrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90ced4/32.png) [@nobrain](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nobrain)\
**Post date:** [January 12, 2010, 12:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-here/35383/9 "2010-01-12T00:52:51Z")

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> [@BodyC](#):
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> OMG NoBrain! can’t help laughing here…hahahah you made my day!

Glad to hear. Have a fun filled week!
