# Newbie just got her order! What to do? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 29, 2015, 1:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-just-got-her-order-what-to-do/64271 "2015-04-29T01:37:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![FirstMate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ed655f/32.png) [@FirstMate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FirstMate)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2015, 1:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-just-got-her-order-what-to-do/64271/1 "2015-04-29T01:37:37Z")
Hi! I just received my first order and don’t know what to use first or what to wear together! I have instant shine, [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/), honesty, openness, p130, P96 and p109. The goal is to get my older boyfriend (50) to let down his walls and get closer to me… I want us to have deep emotional conversations. He needs a little nudge… Being a little more irresistible to him would be nice too! He’s never been married. He wants to be but he’s scared. Any advice on what and how to use these would be great!! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2015, 2:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-just-got-her-order-what-to-do/64271/2 "2015-04-29T02:03:22Z")
IH is your magic ingredient here. You can play with combining it with IS/A for increased attraction, and IO for more talking, but IH is the one that will encourage bonding and depth. Good selections you’ve got there! I’ve also seen awesome lovey-dovey results from IH + p96! Just make sure you try each product by itself first, so you can get a feel for what they do by themselves. With the possible exception of p103…that’s a disinhibitor, and if it’s not buffered, you don’t know what you could be disinhibiting (could lead to arguments or irritations). ---
**Author:** ![FirstMate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ed655f/32.png) [@FirstMate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FirstMate)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2015, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-just-got-her-order-what-to-do/64271/3 "2015-04-29T02:23:29Z")
Thank you Miss Dragon. I’m going to try something tomorrow. If I tried p103 at some point, what would I buffer it with? Also, do most people wear a perfume on top of the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/)? Thanks so much for your response! ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2015, 4:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-just-got-her-order-what-to-do/64271/4 "2015-04-30T04:44:43Z")
Male opinion here. Miss Dragon is right on with IH. It’ll encourage those deep conversations you’re looking for. I, personally, recommend IS/b, rather than IS/a. IS/b has a soft, non-threatening feel to it that goes wonderfully with IH, and should put your man at ease. (A powerful IS/a vibe may be a turn-on, but it may intimidate some men out of sharing personal stuff with you.) Also try [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/); it’s like an anti-anxiety pill, but for others instead of yourself. ---
**Author:** ![FirstMate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ed655f/32.png) [@FirstMate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FirstMate)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2015, 12:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-just-got-her-order-what-to-do/64271/5 "2015-05-01T00:59:31Z")
Thank you The Attractor!! Can anyone give some insight as to the best places to apply these and how many sprays? I feel like dousing myself LOl!!