# Newbie report: Instant Openness **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 7, 2008, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-report-instant-openness/17113 "2008-08-07T23:29:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2008, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-report-instant-openness/17113/1 "2008-08-07T23:29:09Z")
Well, here I go, testing out one of three Androtics products that I ordered: Instant Openness (I got some Turn Up The Heat and I got a free to-go bottle of [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) too 🙂). Basically: Wow! far-out self-effects, and a bit of food for thought with regards to how it effects others. So I applied two sprays of IO, one to the neck, and one to the wrists. It smells pretty good to me, actually. There was like an organic kind of aftertaste in my throat, unusual but not unpleasant. Anyway, I felt quite high after this, and I wondered what of this was down to the pheromones and what was auto-suggestion. But after 45 minutes of feeling this way, I figured it had to be more than auto-suggestion. I had a compelling urge to actually go out and check people out. Guys, did you ever get a restless feeling shortly after the break-up of a relationship, a compelling urge to just go somewhere? It seems like some sort of biological signal telling you to ‘Go find a new mate!!!’ after being dumped. Well, it was sort of like that, but obviously without all the other baggage that comes with a break-up. I went to a coffee shop and, well, I felt really good - this is the 45-minutes-in point where I had discounted the auto-suggestion hypothesis. While I was there, a couple of fairly unusual things happened as regards other people. Firstly, I was stared at and smiled at for about 30 seconds by this guy. When I say guy, I decided he was a guy on the balance of probabilities; he was kind of androgynous (I mean, he had like big boobs and that; I think he probably had excess oestrogen). He was with two women. One of them was actually looking in my direction for considerably longer than the typical ‘check out the people in the vicinity’ sort of thing that everyone does. She did this several times (for about 10 seconds each time), as opposed to the guy just staring at me the one time. She didn’t smile, she looked kind of…confused. Furthermore, she was pretty hot too. Then I chatted a little bit with two couples while I was there, just regular stuff. I went to the pub, and got a pint. Just the one, cos I was playing at being a scientist and all 🙂, and wanted to stay sober to observe things. So I chatted with the bar staff, who were cool, but then again they always are, and being gregarious is part of their job. I still felt amazing, and essentially I’ve at this point just been smiling all day. Four hours in, and I felt really exhausted, like my up-state has taken a lot of energy to maintain. I still felt high, but in a more mellow way… My legs actually felt like they were filled with lead as I dragged myself to a shop to get a chocolate bar. I needed a quick sugar fix. Well, the girl behind the counter, who has served me before, seemed ever-so-slightly friendlier than usual, it’s hard to say for sure… After eating the chocolate bar I struggled home. It was really weird, but I still felt excellent, and still do, as a matter of fact. Oh yeah, as regards the episode with the androgynous dude and the attractive woman who was with him: when I got their attention I was actually downwind from them (this was the outdoor seating area) but I had been upwind from them previously - they changed tables. The wind was just like a nice breeze, a 2 on the Beaufort scale I’d say. An interesting newbie outing. I certainly had fun! ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2008, 3:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-report-instant-openness/17113/2 "2008-08-08T03:05:11Z")
NTK, good job reporting, it takes awhile to figure out what is caused by the 'mones and what is just you noticing stuff. Sounds like you’re off to a good start! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2008, 4:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-report-instant-openness/17113/3 "2008-08-08T04:04:25Z")
Yep - what renny said. Keep working at it … and enjoy the fun along the way. ---
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2008, 7:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-report-instant-openness/17113/4 "2008-08-08T07:06:58Z")
Thanks for your feedback, guys. Well, I’m certainly convinced of the effectiveness of the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), just from the powerful self-effects I mentioned. And there’s no hangover afterwards 🙂 Oh yeah, I forgot, there were another two slightly unusual events at the coffee shop: one woman who works there (40s?) who I say hello to whenever I’m there, I’m sure she did a slight double take when I greeted her this time round, this was when I first rolled into the place, feeling pretty upbeat like I say. Then a girl (late teens?), who also works there, looked at me for quite a while as I got my first coffee, with somewhat of a blank look. Again, she looked slightly confused. I have pretty good peripheral vision so I spotted these incidents without having to stare back; I didn’t want to compound the poor girl’s confusion or anything! ---
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2008, 9:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-report-instant-openness/17113/5 "2008-08-08T09:05:21Z")
Another observation. This is like, when you’re with a good friend, and there’s a lull in the conversation, it doesn’t feel awkward, because you both can just chill, saying nothing, and stay in rapport. Whereas with someone who you’re only slightly acquainted with, maybe you’ll try a bit harder to keep the conversation going. Well, the former feeling, of not having to say very much at all, and being perfectly comfortable just sittting around in rapport with the other person, I got that when sitting around with one of the bar staff at the pub. The IO didn’t make me over-talkative as such, I think I was able to communicate with body language and stuff more effectively, to the extent that it felt like a kind of telepathy.