# Newbie saying hello..with questions **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 19, 2009, 10:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098 "2009-01-19T22:48:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Sammy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@Sammy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sammy)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/1 "2009-01-19T22:48:44Z")
Hi everyone, i’m Samantha! I’m 27 Female - I just found this site after a friend told me about it. I want to place a first time order but have no clue what is best to start with. I would like something to attract my guy.. he seems to be losing interest. 😕 or maybe i need something to attract a new guy??!! 😛 Also, I would like to earn a bit more respect at work. They may be downsizing.. what would work best to show that I am valuable, that I can do the best job?? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/2 "2009-01-19T22:51:53Z")
Hi sammy, Welcome to the forum. To attract guys, try [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A or B. IS A will make you sexy and attractive the Angelina Jolie type. IS B will make you sexy, attracxtive and feminine the Monroe type. For work, try MX300. It makes you respected and trusted. It is the female version of A314. Have fun ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/3 "2009-01-19T22:55:54Z")
> [@Sammy](#): > > Hi everyone, i’m Samantha! I’m 27 Female - I just found this site after a friend told me about it. I want to place a first time order but have no clue what is best to start with. I would like something to attract my guy.. he seems to be losing interest. 😕 or maybe i need something to attract a new guy??!! 😛 > Also, I would like to earn a bit more respect at work. They may be downsizing.. what would work best to show that I am valuable, that I can do the best job?? 😉 Hi and welcome to the forum! Its easier for me to point you in the right direction if you tell me more about your personality…would you say you are outgoing or shy? As for attracting guys… I LOVE both Instant Sexiness A and B… IS/a is for a more confident sexy attitude, adn IS/b is more feminine sexy, a bit more mellow. Both go great with socials that help with communication & ice breaking. My personal fav’s are Instant Honesty and [Come Talk To Me](https://a314.com/product/come-talk-to-me-cttm/). Oh, and the great all rounder…Instant Shine…does what it says on the bottle…makes you shine and gives a happy, energetic vibe to you. For work…The favourite here is Mx134 (sold out at the mo) or Mx300. They are the same but differnent scents. They give you a confident, centre of attenttion, intelligent vibe…It’s also great to mix with the CTTM or IS ones Hope that helps 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/4 "2009-01-19T22:55:55Z")
Welcome to the forum, Sammy! Nice to have another lady here. I think that you’d do well with Instant Sexiness to start with. Version A gives an Angelina Jolie vibe and version B is a more kittenish Marilyn Monroe. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) would promote better communication with your man… it gives a deeper feeling of connection between people. For work, one of my favourites is MX134. It’s similar to A314 for men (respect mix, great results!) but with a sexy vibe that means you’re all business but still a woman. If you give us a bit more background on yourself (where you’re located for dosage tweaking for humidity, heat…, what you’re like: outgoing, shy…), you’ll qualify for a GC and we’ll get to know you better! **Edit** : Whoops! Just saw that MX134 was restocked as MX300, sorry for that! Hope this helps 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sammy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@Sammy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sammy)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/5 "2009-01-19T22:59:28Z")
Thanks to both of you for the fast reply! I am in northeast PA. I am a bit more shy/reserved.. although I do wish I could be a bit more outgoing, I do like to have fun. I am just the type of person that does not like to draw attention to myself. (i’m about 20lbs overweight and it makes me feel uncomfortable) I work in an office setting with 9 other women.. > [@Takhisis](#): > > Welcome to the forum, Sammy! Nice to have another lady here. > > I think that you’d do well with Instant Sexiness to start with. Version A gives an Angelina Jolie vibe and version B is a more kittenish Marilyn Monroe. > Instant Honesty would promote better communication with your man… it gives a deeper feeling of connection between people. > > For work, one of my favourites is MX134. It’s similar to A314 for men (respect mix, great results!) but with a sexy vibe that means you’re all business but still a woman. > > If you give us a bit more background on yourself (where you’re located for dosage tweaking for humidity, heat…, what you’re like: outgoing, shy…), you’ll qualify for a GC and we’ll get to know you better! > > Hope this helps 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/6 "2009-01-19T23:05:37Z")
> [@Sammy](#): > > Thanks to both of you for the fast reply! I am in northeast PA. > I am a bit more shy/reserved.. although I do wish I could be a bit more outgoing, I do like to have fun. I am just the type of person that does not like to draw attention to myself. (i’m about 20lbs overweight and it makes me feel uncomfortable) > I work in an office setting with 9 other women.. Ahaa! You hit the nail on the head…you sound like me! You kinda want to meet someone but you don’t like people looking at you 🙄 Now THAT’s exactly why I LOOOVE my IS/a and IS/b…you do get attention, but the self-effect of these two babies means that instead of the attention making me squirm, I actually like it! Even better if paired with [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) which is an over all booster of mood and confidence…and it makes you shine. The good thing about IS/b as well is that it doesn’t seem to have a negative effect on other females around you, not that I’ve noticed at least. It’s not overtly sexual so doesn’t initimidate I suppose. Instant honesty and CTTM are also great for self effect on me in terms of being more outgoing and chatty… Try them, you have nothing to loose 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sammy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@Sammy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sammy)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/7 "2009-01-19T23:22:41Z")
Thanks so much for the replies.. i think I will try out some of the TO GO sizes until I figure out what I like best… Thanks for the tips.. much appreciated! > [@Xiphoid](#): > > Ahaa! You hit the nail on the head…you sound like me! You kinda want to meet someone but you don’t like people looking at you 🙄 Now THAT’s exactly why I LOOOVE my IS/a and IS/b…you do get attention, but the self-effect of these two babies means that instead of the attention making me squirm, I actually like it! Even better if paired with Instant Shine which is an over all booster of mood and confidence…and it makes you shine. > > The good thing about IS/b as well is that it doesn’t seem to have a negative effect on other females around you, not that I’ve noticed at least. It’s not overtly sexual so doesn’t initimidate I suppose. > > Instant honesty and CTTM are also great for self effect on me in terms of being more outgoing and chatty… > > Try them, you have nothing to loose 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/8 "2009-01-20T01:58:55Z")
Hello Samantha, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 My name is Tisha and I am the resident hostess and Phero guru here ion PT. Its great to have another lady aboard. I agree with the members they have given you good advice One thing I like to clarify is that most women find that other women respond better to IS/A then IS/B. A has more of a sexy strong alpha vibe. B makes them more catty especially the single girls. They find the vibe more threatning. You wont get catty responses all the time so you should not make your desicion on that aspect but just be aware and prepared to offset it with either IO or Ishine. For your work situation MX300 and IH will do well for you. If you have questions ask **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Sammy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@Sammy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sammy)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/9 "2009-01-20T15:07:40Z")
Hi Tisha, IS = [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)?? Which one is the TO GO size? A or B? The women I work with are all attached, married or involved. My boss is female. There are 2 married guys that work there as well. I also deal with some single men that come in to the office. I will look into the MX300 as the MX134 seems to be out of stock. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, sometimes he seems to get more involved in his own problems and will avoid me a bit. He claims he does not want to add to my problems with his.. I think he has that winter depression thing actually. I know he trully loves me.. I would like to get back what we once had.. Thank you! > [@tisha23](#): > > Hello Samantha, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > > My name is Tisha and I am the resident hostess and Phero guru here ion PT. Its great to have another lady aboard. > > I agree with the members they have given you good advice > > One thing I like to clarify is that most women find that other women respond better to IS/A then IS/B. A has more of a sexy strong alpha vibe. B makes them more catty especially the single girls. They find the vibe more threatning. You wont get catty responses all the time so you should not make your desicion on that aspect but just be aware and prepared to offset it with either IO or Ishine. > > For your work situation MX300 and IH will do well for you. > > If you have questions ask > > **Your GC is on its way** 😃 > > Tisha ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2009, 2:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hello-with-questions/25098/10 "2009-01-21T02:27:59Z")
Hi Sammy, IS on its own is Instant shine IS/A and IS/B is [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). We try to edit to fix those but we miss some. IS/A comes in to-go size. > [@](#): > > I would like to get back what we once had.. Ahhh this makes me think of IH. It a communication mix. Its deep connecting, gives a feeling of closeness. Alot of people have said…" Its great, its like when we first met" You may want to check that one out to. Tisha