# Newbie saying hi **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 29, 2011, 7:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hi/53949 "2011-12-29T19:42:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ronjer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6f9a4e/32.png) [@ronjer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ronjer)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2011, 7:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hi/53949/1 "2011-12-29T19:42:45Z")
Hello all, I am a complete newbie to 'mones, and just ordered some to try out and found this site linked from that site…well you’ve heard all that before, I’m sure. My name is Roger and I am 43 from WA state. I have 2 kids and love to live life large with them and my extendo-fiance’. We did it all backwards and had kids, bought a house and then after all that we’ll get married someday 😃 We like to get outdoors when we can and despite getting to be parents, we still can get down and party sometimes. We both have a good and slightly demented sense of humor, and our kiddos are little jokesters in their own age appropriate way too. We have lot’s of laughs in our family I like to brew beer at home and do some gold prospecting from time to time for the fun of it. Since we are getting older, the wife is getting into more spiritual things, which I can get into, but it is making the love life almost non-existant. It is understandable that the alot of the world is not doing well, but I try to support local charity and she does more globally. A good mix I suppose, but it overwhelms her too. I am trying to be supportive, but sometimes I believe you just have to let your hair down and blow off some steam once or twice a month. She has become very introverted and has had past life issues that still bother her. Alcohol really helps in the love/social life, but she has become mostly anti-drinking for the last couple of years (sometimes she does, like every couple of months). My goal here would be to find a stimulating way to arouse her without trying to corrupt her desire to not imbibe. Would TUTH and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) be a good combo here? I think the IS would be good for general use and maybe a spray of TUTH after the kids go to sleep?? I hope to gain some knowledge for people here and share my experiences, in a fun and engaging manor. Looking forward to chatting! ---
**Author:** ![Marihino](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marihino/32/1286_2.png) [@Marihino](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Marihino)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 12:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hi/53949/2 "2011-12-30T00:09:54Z")
hi Roger, yes, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and TUTH would make a good combo. In fact, all products from the consumer line pretty much mix very well with each other. The exception would be products based on androstenone: Instant Jerk, Ammo and TUTH. Some users still succesfully use them together, but that needs caution not to overdose. If your girl is about your age, she should be very responsive to TUTH. Maybe for everyday, allround, out-of-bedroom use, Ammo would be better. These days I use mostly A314 on its own, or together with Ammo. Anyways, good to have you here, and thanks for a good intro. I’m looking forward to reading some of your reports 🙂 Welcome to Pheromone Talk 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ronjer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6f9a4e/32.png) [@ronjer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ronjer)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 3:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hi/53949/3 "2011-12-30T03:10:22Z")
Well thanks Marihino. She is a wee bit younger (38). I ordered both of those and will hopefully get it tomorrow and give it a go. One spray IS for tomorrow and I’ll add one spray off TUTH later and see what happens. Pretty excited, like a late Christmas 😃. I will post results for sure!! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2012, 10:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hi/53949/4 "2012-01-02T22:50:17Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Ronjer! Being supportive is a really good thing right now. I suggest IH to make her feel she can open up to you and trust you even with her new venture Asking her about it and try to listen and watch for the signs. That emotional support will lead to more comfort . [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) will give out that strong , masculine vibe and let her know you are interested Tuth for when you sense she is comfortable and headed in that direction _ **Your gc was issued!🙂** _ ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2012, 3:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hi/53949/5 "2012-01-03T03:48:08Z")
Hello Roger and welcome to the forum! Read the thread in my signature block for married guys. It has a lot of thoughts from myself and others as well as strategies and products to use. If you have any questions, please ask. We are happy to help. ---
**Author:** ![ronjer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/6f9a4e/32.png) [@ronjer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ronjer)\ **Post date:** [January 11, 2012, 3:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-saying-hi/53949/6 "2012-01-11T15:20:35Z")
Thanks Bosshank…I most certainly will! I also wanted to say that my first couple of weeks testing different combos have produced very noticeable results! To any other newbs, this is quite literally a way to add some spice to your life. It isn’t for others to just smell and react, it is about how you feel about yourself just as much as it will affect others. I have tried [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), A314, and Turn Up The Heat. I also have a over the counter type I bought at the Love Season store locally (before finding this site). It is more of a colonge than I think than these products, but it seems to produce some ‘hits’ as well. I use the A314 at work, the IS at home during the evening and add some TUTH at night. The wife is really warmed up lately and making all sorts of racy jokes and comments. I notice her at night getting more touchy/feely. I think that her LMR is still kicked in, but is breaking down too…like she is starting to have fun as an adult woman again. I ordered some P79 to see if I can augment my mix for that 🙂. She has been through alot of woman oriented programs and counseling for a few years now, and I think she is starting to finally realize that all of those teachings can exist with her own personality and does not need to replace it. So…just wanted to share some info with y’all, say thanks, and mention the following to any other newbs who are maybe on the fence. As mentioned above, I believe these products are like taking a tired old family favorite recipe, and adding some new spices to liven it up…best way to describe it from a quasi-married guys perspective! Good Luck!! Roger