# Newbie to the 'mone world! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 11, 2011, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-to-the-mone-world/51179 "2011-07-11T19:11:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![yehCaL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/9f8e36/32.png) [@yehCaL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/yehCaL)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2011, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-to-the-mone-world/51179/1 "2011-07-11T19:11:25Z")
Hello y’all! My name is Brittany, I’m female (obviously), and I hail from the drought-stricken hellhole of Oklahoma. I’m 22, soon to be 23 in October. I’m very blunt and not afraid to speak my mind. I’m an artist and a writer, and my whole life I’ve been that “weird quiet girl” that never talks, but always listens. I was the ugly duckling growing up, and over these past few years I’ve finally come to accept that I am attractive. Maybe not beautiful, but at least good looking. Inwardly, I’m a very sexual person, but I’ve always lacked the confidence to do much about it. So, generally, I’m known as a tease and a flirt. very much a newb when it comes to this pheromone stuff. I’ve heard about it, even seen some lubricants with it, but until today I had no idea it came bottled and ready to use. Why did I find out today, you might ask? Well, because of my “situation” I guess you could say. I am happily in love to a man I’ve been with for about 2 1/2 years now. We do plan to get married eventually, already call eachother fiance. However, since we’ve been together we’ve both become people we don’t particularly like, physically. He’s gained 40 pounds, i’ve gained 30. His is far more noticeable since it all went to his stomach. Mine just filled in the places it needed to be for a growing woman, though I still wouldn’t mind getting rid of some of it, lol. So, anyway. Our sex life is pretty dull and nearly nonexistent. I don’t enjoy it anymore because of how fat he’s gotten, he just can’t do the things he used to be able to. And this probably will sound strange but his penis has grown more in width than length since we’ve been together. I feel like I’m being ripped apart for the first five minutes and I hate it. So, until he gets his ass in gear and looses some weight like I’ve been trying to do, I’ve just kind of let the chemistry die between us. This is where my problem arises. I enjoy flirting with other guys so much. There is one especially at work who, if I were single, would have easily gotten me in his bed. But since I’m not we just flirt back and forth all day. It’s almost like a game for us, and it gets us through an otherwise boring and difficult day. (we work in the Garden Center of Lowes. Miserable job in the midst of this hellish summer) I’m interested in trying out some [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) for two purposes, really. One, while I wait for my fiance to loose weight and get in shape, I think it would be fun to see what these pheromones could do for this flirting game at work. There is nothing quite so fun to me than being a horrible tease. And, my coworker is the type of guy who knows his limits, especially at work. We are smart about what we do, and I don’t see anything bad coming out of it. And Two, When my fiance is back in shape and we can hopefully do the things we were able to before, I’d like a kickstarter to rekindle the chemistry again. I think the pheromones would be ideal for that. I found a couple this morning, but I have no idea about them, if they work, if they’re a scam, or what. [Pheromones - Sex attracting colognes and perfumes, affordable and effective](http://pheromones.ws/) The one called “seduction” I’m interested in, but it’s rather expensive I think. `http://love-scent.com/essence-woman-sex-pheromones-p-35.html?p=essenceofawoman` This is the other. Much less expensive, but it requires a cover-up sent because apparently it stinks? I’m looking for something that really works, but also won’t make me go broke. Hopefully this $25 thing might help me out 😃 Thanks everyone! ---
**Author:** ![JohnnyHard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnnyhard/32/1753_2.png) [@JohnnyHard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyHard)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2011, 7:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-to-the-mone-world/51179/2 "2011-07-11T19:12:06Z")
Welcome Brittany! Nice to see you here! Wow, great and informative post! There are two great base mixes, first Instant Sexiness B (out of stock now) it makes you more sweet, many males love this stuff, pleasure reaction. It is called the Marilyn Monroe mix. But attention it’s also softener, maybe some women reacts bichty, eny reaction. On the other side MX397, some women say (it is new) it much more dominant. Alpha reaction. IH is for trust and deeper conversation. IO a social icebreaker, but alone to soft. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) a fun and mood elevator. P78 is sensual exciting and sexual. Essence of a Women (EOW) is from love-scent. Also a really good company. There are cops in it. Cops are the female sexual pheromones. It is better for the nightlife or great sex. For the daytime are things see above much better. But you can test for example Instant Sexiness B with EOW or P78 with it and the fire burns, the poor guy… 🙄😛 I think with your post you have the gift certificate: [How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) The MX series and Putative molecules are experimental mixes or single [mones](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/) … They still need users to test and report on them. Check the Women’s section with many experienced pheromone user’s, they are all glad to help you and each other out! For more informations about the girl products: > [@Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258): > > Revised for 2010/11 Ok ladies here is the start of my pheromone guide you asked for. I will be adding to it but I wanted to post something to get it started. (Mens guide located in the “Pheromone theory” sticky section) When posting about your pheromone experiences please try to add the dose on the bottle. How much you used and where you sprayed it on your body. This makes it easier for Jas and others to figure out what works and what doesnt and why. Due to Androtics no longer being able to … [What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) [How do I know if I am getting hits !!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-i-am-getting-hits/14192) [What "Unanswered" means and how to select the best answer to your questions](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-unanswered-means-and-how-to-select-the-best-answer-to-your-questions/23652) Touch wood! Johnny ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2011, 7:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-to-the-mone-world/51179/3 "2011-07-11T19:29:59Z")
Hi Brittany and a welcome to THE mone forum! Being blunt… speaking your mind… an artist _and_ a writer, being that weird quiet girl… YOU’LL FIT Right In on this forum!!! 😃 As to the sites you posted, the first looks totally scammers… I wouldn’t touch that one. Since there are a few legit sites such as the 2nd one you posted. However, I’d also suggest you take a look at AD products, which is what you’ll get a lot of support and posts about on these threads. Here is a link to the women’s togo section: > **[Social Success Pheromone - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/)** > > A314 cologne is a powerful blend of 17 pheromones that enhance your confidence and gives you amazing social experiences you will never forget As you mentioned you are a newbie to the mone world, I’d suggest you take a look at the links on my sig below, Intro to Mones as well as Tisha’s great, how do I know if they are hits?!? They’ll take you a long way in your understanding of mones, how to use them, and the effects you can expect. Well, the mones can be used, as tools, to do your bidding… that is, if you’re looking to flirt with a passion, then, IS/b, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), and IO will get you there, in different ways. Now, as a hubby myself, I’ve been gettin’ off the couch and trying to get my middle toned down. It just takes time and that greasy late night pizza is SOOOO good!!! 🙂 It takes a whole lot of self control and with your help and support, I’m sure he can lose much more than a few pounds! HE needs to be motivated and will IS/b and Instant Shine help to do that? Don’t know, likely Instant Shine and IO can help out in talking it out between you two. He needs your honest communications, likely several sessions, before he’ll get off his butt and work out! Personally like Instant Shine for others to be comfortable around me, smiles and giggles are common. Thanks for such a detailed post and wish you the best in the mones you use! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2011, 7:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-to-the-mone-world/51179/4 "2011-07-11T19:35:18Z")
Hello and welcome … to the mone world ! 1 Alpha and Johnny already gave you some great advise ! Your intro is fantastic and i´m sure once Mickaelia will fly by she will wave her magic wand and send you over your welcome GC ! I´m looking forward to hear more from you ! Have a nice time here on this fantastic board … lot´s of cool people here … Pago ---
**Author:** ![yehCaL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/9f8e36/32.png) [@yehCaL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/yehCaL)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2011, 6:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-to-the-mone-world/51179/5 "2011-07-13T06:05:46Z")
Thank you all so much for the warm welcome and great advice! With my GC I’m definitely going to try out one (or more) or these products!! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2011, 6:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-to-the-mone-world/51179/6 "2011-07-14T18:56:18Z")
Welcome to pherotalk yehCal! While I understand your situation I think flirting where it seems innocent and that nothing can happen is a bit dangerous and I wonder if you would be so calm about your boyfriend flirting with another girl because of you guys recent situation in the bedroom. From what I know about the guys I have dated his weight situation should not affect the bedroom or his performance. There are quite a few positions and things you can do to assist and working together to get you more into it and satisfied can be fun. I had a problem with getting excited and being really tight it use to hurt so what can be done is lots of foreplay where he concentrates on the areas that gets you excited and wet and once you are overly excited there should be no problem getting it in there with little to no pain. I do strongly advice you take this to the female section so all the ladies can give their opinion and advice. How about your fiance? How does he feel about the situation, is he still really attracted to you and does he initiate sex often or not at all. The problem might not only be physical as you guys maybe drifting apart and sex just one of the symptoms. I suggest IH for closeness and warmth, IS to spray both on him and yourself to give off that youthful glow so you can feel more drawn towards him. Keep us updated and am sure the more experienced women in the female section will be able to help. **Your gc was issued! 😉**