# Newbie who needs help **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 20, 2007, 5:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-who-needs-help/2595 "2007-03-20T05:05:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![SilV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/46a35a/32.png) [@SilV](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SilV)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2007, 5:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-who-needs-help/2595/1 "2007-03-20T05:05:13Z")
Hi girls, i’m 29, female, live in NY. i have a normal and boring life until my boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago. i was really sad and depressed for the past two weeks until i found this site. i have been reading some of the advises and stories about phero. you girls are great!!! i’ve learned so much about phero in the past few days. i couldn’t wait to get some of it and get started as i really need to have a new life. i would like to get some help from you girls. the first thing i need to do is get myself out of the depressing mood. has anybody use the liquid sunshine mx136-140 yet? is it almost like the instant shine? if i request for the neroli orange scent can i still use my own perfume with it? Ail,U R great at this. i sure did learn alot from your posts including how to save when i spend 😃 i’ve read a lot about EOW and i’m planning to get some. i want to know if i can request love-scent to ramp up the copulins? if i want to mix the EOs with EOW should i mix half and half in the 10ml bottle? thank you and hope to talk to all of you soon! ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2007, 5:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-who-needs-help/2595/2 "2007-03-20T05:32:17Z")
I’m sorry to hear about your dismay, and I hope all is well. I normaly spray on some instant shine when i’m feeling a little down. I also like to use spaceland. Instant shine definately has a mood raising element to it. Welcome to the community 🙂 \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_edit You can most definately use your own parfume. The neroli is pretty light and i’ve found it mixes well with what colognes I use. I’m sure you’ve read about the Androtics fragrances, and that they come highly recomended (especialy the chocotini. I think Ail is rather fond of that one, and yes can help you with your [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) inqueries to an extreme.) good luck ---
**Author:** ![SilV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/46a35a/32.png) [@SilV](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SilV)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2007, 5:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-who-needs-help/2595/3 "2007-03-20T17:15:50Z")
Thanks for the advise. i will get the instant shine as soon as i get the $15 gift certificate! Good recommandation on the chocolatini. i will get that after i finish my fruity scent perfume. p.s you’re such a thoughtful person. tomorrow will be a better day for me! ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2007, 8:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-who-needs-help/2595/4 "2007-03-20T20:19:46Z")
…😃 ---
**Author:** ![jpballerina](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jpballerina/32/1004_2.png) [@jpballerina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpballerina)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2007, 5:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-who-needs-help/2595/5 "2007-03-21T05:00:04Z")
I personally love Instant Shine, it really cheers me up. After a few hours I had to reapply the first few days cause I experienced a low afterward, but that soon went away. As for the Essence of Woman, trust me, it doesn’t need ramping! That stuff is as serious as it gets. Before purchasing it, I would read Ali’s NEW post (up today) about what EOW is really for. It’s some potent stuff, and if you’ve never done anything with pheros before, you might want to go with some Instant Sexiness first (works sooo well, I wish I had started with that one, it would have made life a lot easier!) 😃 Trust me, you’ll get a response. EOW screams, “I want sex NOW”, while Instant Sexiness is more, “I’m the hottest, sexiest thing ever, amn’t I?” Some ladies on the forum wouldn’t dream of wearing EOW out of the house (much less at work or school). If you’re going to go with EOW though, just start out small, and get a little [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to get the conversation going (I had guys just stare. had to get Instant Honesty to get them to say something!) Hope that helps, welcome to the forum!! xoxo jp ---
**Author:** ![SilV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/46a35a/32.png) [@SilV](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SilV)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2007, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-who-needs-help/2595/6 "2007-03-21T16:41:59Z")
thank you for the help jp! i read a lot of good reviews for instant honesty and that is also in my list to get too. i know a lot of girls here love [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) especially Lor. from your detail description for both, instant sexiness is a little safer to play with for a beginner. i’m just a little curious about what kind of “attention” did you get with EOW when you first started?? Men must’ve gone crazy when Ail put on her 20x cops EOW..lol ---
**Author:** ![jpballerina](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jpballerina/32/1004_2.png) [@jpballerina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpballerina)\ **Post date:** [March 22, 2007, 2:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-who-needs-help/2595/7 "2007-03-22T02:34:09Z")
I got stares. Seriously. Stares like, “what the devil am I even supposed to say to you?” I actually thought I od’ed at first. Then, with a little [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), they started talking to me. Instant Sexiness gets me more pick-ups (especially combined with Instant Honesty) simply because I think guys look at me and think, “Hey, she’s sexy!” as opposed to, “Hey, she’s sex!” 😛 I’m all for EOW, but I don’t think anyone she underestimate the power of a little ISa. 😉 xoxo jp ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2007, 8:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-who-needs-help/2595/8 "2007-04-02T08:26:18Z")
Hi SilV. Great to have you on board 🙂 You know, I think your breakup must have been a blessing in disguise. How else would you have had the initiative to seek our crazy little community out? Soon enough, you’ll be the pied piper of men, and they will be eating out of your hands and giving you pedicures. I’ll catch you more on the Women’s forum. Just wanted to make sure you knew your gift cert has been updated and is now burning a hole in your inbox. Give me a call if you have any questions about products or usage, and I’ll make sure to tell you everything I know. 😃 Hooray!