# Newbie with a few questions **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 11, 2017, 9:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-few-questions/67270 "2017-07-11T21:29:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Zooglz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/b5e925/32.png) [@Zooglz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Zooglz)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2017, 9:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-few-questions/67270/1 "2017-07-11T21:29:39Z")
So I will start with setting the scene. 34, single and sexless for waaaaay too long, so been out of the game for a while. Been told regularly that I am pretty handsome, but I am also quite overweight (broken leg helped me stack on some weight a little while ago) I am back on the exercise train so am losing weight pretty quickly, but still got a bit to go. So my first question is, does looks or weight make a difference on what you should use? Second question, is there a search feature for posts to easier find posts that relate to your question? So I have a lot of single female friends, some who seem a bit flirty, and others who are just good friends. I was going to try out some mones on the flirty friends and see if anything transpires. The bonus with this is I can play the long game with a few people. The first one I was going to try with is a bit younger than me, the signs have already shown she is interested at least a little bit, but as she is friends of a friend nothing has really transpired. We have only hung out a few times on our own since they other friend is usually around, and as the other friend is quite touchy freely with me and we know each other better, she inadvertently cock blocks me. Sometimes I am not even sure it is inadvertent since she might be scared what would happen if things go pear shaped since neither girls have a lot of friends they can trust, so not wanting to make things awakward for the future. Annnnyway, I have ordered the starter pack but have been reading through the posts and was wondering what other ones I should try. From what I can gather P86 and p83(I think it’s these ones, I’m on the iPad and was just reading a post but forgot which ones they were but will check before I buy) would be good to start with with maybe some IS thrown in to drop my age a bit. Then move into the AMMO and TUTH if things start going well. I have also ordered some 1 million to hide the scents a bit, but have been reading about hedione as well, is there a different aftershave I should buy, or will this do? Or just buy some hedione from here? Is there a different game plan people would use? Something I am missing? I’m in Australia so it might take a little bit to get my order in, what should I use of the starter pack while I wait for some of these other ones to arrive? I’m thinking IS IO AND IH. Also we have different catch ups planned for the near future, one is playing basketball, going out to dinner(it’s her bday soon and I am taking her out), but often it’s just chilling at her place(she lives with my other friend) and maybe some drinks and stuff. Any suggestions on what mones to use in the different setting? Also looking for some tips on how to buffer the mones on my friend. I assume since our friendship isn’t like that she shouldn’t be affected the same, but would you play up the jealousy/competitiveness between the two if it did? If someone isn’t interested in you that way, could it have negative effects? I probably should have put this in my hello post, but just learning a bit more about everything I am more informed so have more questions. ---
**Author:** ![Zooglz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/b5e925/32.png) [@Zooglz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Zooglz)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2017, 9:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-few-questions/67270/2 "2017-07-11T21:30:45Z")
Aaaand I just found the search feature. Too busy looking at the posts to notice. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2017, 10:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-few-questions/67270/3 "2017-07-11T22:53:12Z")
As putatives, you would be better to keep the P86 and P83 for when you have got to grips with the main products. They are both very useful secondaries/steering but can be trickier to use effectively. Don’t start by using too many products at once or you will make finding the dosing needlessly difficult. Use - the more general/daytime/formal situations will probably demand a less overtly sexual mix compared to informal/uninhibited/raunchy environments - where you can use overt sexuals most easily/effectively. Cover scents - if you are using Ammo, then you won’t need them as it has an effective scent but the rest in Neroli, yes, use a good cologne, or Ammo. Try each product singly first then add-in maybe one other product till you have an idea of how they interact. Although saying that, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) goes well with just about anything and is about the easiest of all to learn. Reading the Stickies at the top of this forum will give you a great deal of the basic info you need to get going and questions are fairly welcome here - but please don’t ask about IFM or what mones do in the heat as we have answered those too many times. Search! 😃