# Newbie with a Quick Question **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 11, 2011, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272 "2011-05-11T19:07:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![thodge21](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thodge21/32/1084_2.png) [@thodge21](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thodge21)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/21 "2011-05-11T21:21:43Z")
The community is part of the premium benefits of using this stuff! Helped me a million times! ---
**Author:** ![ITNerd799](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/7cd45c/32.png) [@ITNerd799](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ITNerd799)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/22 "2011-05-11T21:22:49Z")
I most definitely will start a journal, but this will be my very first experience so I will surely keep track of it then. So you say that IS when sitting around might wear off when just sitting around? I guess that makes sense so I will just touch up the IG when we return then and see if the IG and my natural Charm can go the distance lol. ---
**Author:** ![ITNerd799](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/7cd45c/32.png) [@ITNerd799](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ITNerd799)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 9:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/23 "2011-05-11T21:26:42Z")
I think I will stick with IG and IS mainly because I have gotten multiple suggestions to this and you showed some concern with mixing a314 and IG. Perhaps if all goes well the next time I will try the a314 instead and mix it up. I know I sound like a broken record but thank you all again! Thanks for the amazing assistance! I think I am going to experiment with it a few times before this weekend though naturally lol. ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 9:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/24 "2011-05-11T21:29:20Z")
> [@ITNerd799](#): > > I think I will stick with IG and IS mainly because I have gotten multiple suggestions to this and you showed some concern with mixing a314 and IG. Perhaps if all goes well the next time I will try the a314 instead and mix it up. I know I sound like a broken record but thank you all again! Thanks for the amazing assistance! I think I am going to experiment with it a few times before this weekend though naturally lol. A314 isn’t a bad idea. It just may mess with her comfort levels. The IS wearing off is more noticeable to me without distractions, is what I meant. ---
**Author:** ![ITNerd799](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/7cd45c/32.png) [@ITNerd799](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ITNerd799)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 6:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/25 "2011-05-12T18:03:06Z")
Oh okay so if there are no distractions I might notice the IS wearing off while sitting around. Okay thanks again for the assistance. I am excited for this weekend. I ordered all the stuff yesterday when I made the thread using the overnight shipping option. I hope that the order will finish processing and ship out today so I have it by tomorrow otherwise I might have to rely entirely on my natural charms lol. I am excited to try it out either way, if not this weekend, hopefully when she comes home from school the next weekend, just gotta make sure I keep her hooked this weekend at the very least! ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2011, 9:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/26 "2011-05-13T09:04:01Z")
> [@ITNerd799](#): > > Oh okay so if there are no distractions I might notice the IS wearing off while sitting around. Okay thanks again for the assistance. I am excited for this weekend. I ordered all the stuff yesterday when I made the thread using the overnight shipping option. I hope that the order will finish processing and ship out today so I have it by tomorrow otherwise I might have to rely entirely on my natural charms lol. I am excited to try it out either way, if not this weekend, hopefully when she comes home from school the next weekend, just gotta make sure I keep her hooked this weekend at the very least! Don’t over think it. Be yourself. The mones merely draw attention to your positive qualities and buffer your natural charm. You got this in the bag, as long as you stay comfortable she will be comfortable. ---
**Author:** ![ITNerd799](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/7cd45c/32.png) [@ITNerd799](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ITNerd799)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2011, 6:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/27 "2011-05-13T18:07:38Z")
Well thank you all for your help and support, the plus side I got my order in today! The downside, the girl in question sort of canceled the trip and said she was too busy getting ready to graduate and she would definitely see me when she returns back home. Oh well I did try out your suggested combination at work today just for fun and I have to say, first off IS definitely has an effect on me and everyone around me for sure. I was just so damn happy when all night last night and all day this morning til I got the package at 11 I was so damn bummed about her canceling our weekend plans. I definitely got a few hits with this combination some of the people at the office were treating me differently than usual, but in a totally good way so my faith in this product is already sealed I know without a doubt it helps to enhance my natural charisma and charm. An added effect that I had with the IS was it completely cleared my mind, for the past few days being anxious and upset about the coming weekend was slacking off at work and I couldn’t quiet my mind, after I used IS my head was so clear and I was happy and working like nothing was wrong, and I kept thinking about all that happened and it still couldn’t bring me down. That is an effect I did not expect at all and how I know this stuff is effecting me and everyone around me. Thanks again for all of your help I am sure I will be around here for a long time to come, gotta try out some more products and combinations, it is like an adventure and kind of exciting lol. ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2011, 12:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/28 "2011-05-14T12:20:04Z")
Enjoy it 🙂 And keep us updated. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2011, 9:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/29 "2011-05-14T21:53:22Z")
> [@ITNerd799](#): > > She said after the last date that **something was missing, and she didn’t understand why**. > > she is very self conscious and has said repeatedly to me that **she has no idea why I still bother** talking to her because she is nothing special. > > **Over time she has opened up to me a lot and let me in on some of her deepest darkest secrets** so I know she feels comfortable with me and trusts me fully. > > The downside, the girl in question sort of canceled the trip and said she was too busy getting ready to graduate and she would definitely see me when she returns back home. I hope you don’t mind my saying this but I would be doing some reading between the lines here. She may not put it in words but viewed in conjunction with her cancelling on you, she could also be saying that she has no idea why you bother because beyond liking your attention, you are nothing that special to her either? And the telling secrets and opening-up may also be a sign that she has become comfortable with you as that “special” trusted friend who she may well love to have around as an emotional safety valve/sponge but not see as someone she’d go any further with? Anyway, pheros can make a change here and you have been very well advised but go carefully until she demonstrates some very clear and strong signs of attraction. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ITNerd799](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/7cd45c/32.png) [@ITNerd799](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ITNerd799)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2011, 7:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/30 "2011-05-16T19:27:20Z")
I know I am treading carefully thank you for your advice. I am getting some conflicted signs from her, in the beginning she reminded me a few times that she wanted to be friends, now she says nothing about it, and has even been throwing some compliments my way for a change. Out of no where she texted me that she was watching something that said “there is nothing sexier than a sense of humor”, and followed up with “you have been known to make me smile on more than one occasion smiley face”. She even said she is looking forward to spending more time with me when she comes home. See I think she might be as confused as I am and only time will tell if we have something or not, and since I am more for there being something if an added edge helps tip the scales I am all for it. If we find there isn’t a connection I definitely still want to be friends with her so no worries I think everything will work out in the end either way! I should point out that during the time we went on our two dates she had this other guy at the school that she thought she liked, who then screwed her over and that might have corrupted her view of me in the process. Since she goes to school out of state I haven’t actually been in the same room as her since February but we have been talking on skype video every weekend for literally 5-6 hours per session which she has told me is weird because she doesn’t talk to any of her friends that long, even her best friends. But sure enough like clockwork every weekend, multiple 5-6 hour sessions we chatted on skype about everything going on in our lives. From what I gathered from her she told me she really wanted it to be good, great even, her words exactly, but she just thought it was weird to have me stay with her, she was all about breaking boundaries but she had only seen me in person twice in our entire lifetime of knowing each other. I have no idea what she could of meant by she was all about breaking boundaries, so she must have been considering it perhaps. I don’t think she will let herself feel anything for me until she spends more time with me in person. And as I said if there is an attraction between us at all both ways then I want to do everything in my power to discover this, I know mones aren’t “magic love potions” but I know from experience that they can have a positive effect that might help to clear our heads of this confusion we feel. But don’t worry I do not expect a miracle, only time will tell, but thanks again for your concern it is appreciated! ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2011, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/31 "2011-05-22T21:42:17Z")
> [@ITNerd799](#): > > Greetings all, I recently came across this site and decided I should give it a try because why the hell not. Anyway here is the story. I have this girl that I have been basically nursing a connection with over skype, we have gone out on a few dates when she was back home from school, but she is graduating soon and will be back home soon enough. She said after the last date that something was missing, and she didn’t understand why. I have been charming her, and flirting with her over skype. She has trust issues but has been opening up to me with just my words alone. I am going up to visit her at school this weekend to hang out. I am confident there is an attraction but I just want a little added edge to cement the deal, so to speak. What would work best for me to cement this attraction and help it to move forward? > > Also with that in mind I will be with her all weekend so how often should I apply said pheromone. She already said I can sleep with her, not sex, but actually share her bed while I stay there. Since I will already be sharing a bed I just want that added edge in case my charm and compliments do not take me as far as I want, something that will ensure she will go crazy with anticipation while I share a bed with her. Your help is greatly appreciated! > > Newbie I hope you and the mones work some magic for you. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![ITNerd799](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/7cd45c/32.png) [@ITNerd799](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ITNerd799)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2011, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272/32 "2011-05-23T19:20:56Z")
Thank you for the vote of confidence, it is much appreciated. I hope so too! [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie-with-a-quick-question/50272.md?page=1)