# Newbie! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 10, 2010, 1:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871 "2010-12-10T13:13:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Gazzair](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/439d5e/32.png) [@Gazzair](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gazzair)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2010, 1:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871/1 "2010-12-10T13:13:06Z")
Hey guys and gals! Just discovered this community, and must admit I am finding it extremely fascinating. I am looking forward to diving into the forum topics and posts, whilst researching as much as possible. I am 24 years old and from the UK. I am currently working as a teaching assistant (not sure if they have them in the U.S or are called something different). However, basically, my job is easing the burden on the classroom teacher by working with and helping the children in groups or one on one. I would like to find a pheromone that can help me in my job, and help booster my career, there are different levels of teaching assistants and I would like to get to the highest as soon as possible, the highest level gets to actually control the classes and teach at certain times. Although I haven’t read about all the pheromones yet, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) seems to be one that would be of most benefit to me. The reason for this is that, aspects of the role that are extremely important, are to be dependanble to the children and give off a warmth and provide comfort. Whilst also being a role model, as a male that is extremely important to be, and will help my progress in a very female orientated career. What do you guys think? Is Instant Gentleman the right choice to go for, or would you reccomend another product? ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2010, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871/2 "2010-12-10T13:58:07Z")
Instant gentlemen is the right direction, but honestly I think A314 would be more advantageous. They contain a like mone that is erone, but A314 is a bit more in your face respect. It’s great for work and getting more respect from just about everyone. I put a lot of the reasoning for me getting my promotion to A314 actually. With that said, IG is still great but A314 would be better in my opinion. Let us know how things go! ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2010, 2:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871/3 "2010-12-10T14:43:50Z")
Hey, welcome! Well, in order for us to help you tell us about your personality and how you look? If you are shy or intimidating then IG might be better. It should give you confidence and respect either way. A314 is more alpha, demonstrates more leadership and so on. It is most recommended for works! However, it has to fit ur personality. Feel free to add. Any thoughts? ---
**Author:** ![Gazzair](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/439d5e/32.png) [@Gazzair](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gazzair)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2010, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871/4 "2010-12-10T16:50:47Z")
> [@CoolKat](#): > > Hey, welcome! > Well, in order for us to help you tell us about your personality and how you look? > If you are shy or intimidating then IG might be better. It should give you confidence and respect either way. A314 is more alpha, demonstrates more leadership and so on. It is most recommended for works! However, it has to fit ur personality. > > Feel free to add. Any thoughts? I wouldnt personally say that I was shy or intimidating. What I would say about my personailty is that I tend to be easily intimadated myself by people who I see as more ‘powerful’. Also, I’m quite a reserved person, I don’t tend to open up to people unless I know them very well and seem to click with them. I should add that I look quite young for my age, whilst I’m 24, I personally look about 19/20 shaven and 21/22 unshaven. I think maybe it would be a good idea to start off with IG, then move onto A314? Or mix the two, with a heavier dosage to IG and topped off with a spray of A314. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2010, 5:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871/5 "2010-12-10T17:13:38Z")
Hey there, welcome to the forum! You know, I’d agree with you, to start off with IG and then, when you’re comfortable with it’s affects on others, you have built up your confidence, then continue with A314. If you’re a bit more shy, you should build up your confidence with IG. As I’ve worn both mones, as have CK and empath, I’d say that A314 will give the Ultimate Alpha Is Here vibe, sort of like a Clint Eastwood. If you have others around you that are normally act in the leadership position (teachers, administative staff, etc) you’ll most likely be ‘tested’ to see if YOU are Actually in congruence with that Alpha vibe you’re sending. If you aren’t ready for it, you could actually negate that vibe by your reactions. Also, for kids, I suggest the IS. It can be layered on your skin with the IG to give off a happy to be around me vibe. Others will be relaxed and at ease with you. The good thing is that they also are in a 6% cologne strength so won’t be overbearing when you wear it! So, IG + IS would be my ‘prescription’ for you! 😃 Though, you also mention that you don’t tend to open up to people. For social interactions, besides the above ‘prescription’ I’d also recommend IO. Really, gives you and others around you an easing of conversations. Much more inclined to talk. DON’T were it in the classroom… You’ll be sorry to have a classroom full of yammering kids when it’s time to listen to the teacher!! 🙂 Hope to hear about your adventures with mones! ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2010, 5:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871/6 "2010-12-10T17:47:49Z")
> [@1Alpha](#): > > Hey there, welcome to the forum! > > You know, I’d agree with you, to start off with IG and then, when you’re comfortable with it’s affects on others, you have built up your confidence, then continue with A314. If you’re a bit more shy, you should build up your confidence with IG. > > As I’ve worn both mones, as have CK and empath, I’d say that A314 will give the Ultimate Alpha Is Here vibe, sort of like a Clint Eastwood. If you have others around you that are normally act in the leadership position (teachers, administative staff, etc) you’ll most likely be ‘tested’ to see if YOU are Actually in congruence with that Alpha vibe you’re sending. If you aren’t ready for it, you could actually negate that vibe by your reactions. > > Also, for kids, I suggest the IS. It can be layered on your skin with the IG to give off a happy to be around me vibe. Others will be relaxed and at ease with you. > > The good thing is that they also are in a 6% cologne strength so won’t be overbearing when you wear it! > > So, IG + IS would be my ‘prescription’ for you! 😃 > > Though, you also mention that you don’t tend to open up to people. For social interactions, besides the above ‘prescription’ I’d also recommend IO. Really, gives you and others around you an easing of conversations. Much more inclined to talk. DON’T were it in the classroom… You’ll be sorry to have a classroom full of yammering kids when it’s time to listen to the teacher!! 🙂 > Hope to hear about your adventures with mones! I think I kind of got shit tested today, lol ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2010, 5:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871/7 "2010-12-10T17:54:52Z")
> [@CoolKat](#): > > I think I kind of got shit tested today, lol LOL! What were u wearing? Man, I can think of a few good times when that happened to me with A314 and AMMO combo! Wat happened? ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2010, 5:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871/8 "2010-12-10T17:58:26Z")
> [@1Alpha](#): > > LOL! What were u wearing? Man, I can think of a few good times when that happened to me with A314 and AMMO combo! > > Wat happened? A314+ some A1… I had some administrative issue to deal with. The guy who was looking at the paper was complaining and getting pissed that I was being so dang pushy, lol… I was like you know sometimes people get impatient when others continue to don’t do things right. If I was being too much, I am sorry, but you have to understand my situation … He was like alright, I will try to get my secretary to get things done quickly 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/43871/9 "2010-12-13T23:09:24Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Gazzair! I see that you are really eager to try these out. The men gave you such great advice and am looking forward to seeing much detailed reports from you. Your gc was issued!