# Newbie! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 14, 2012, 11:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/54220 "2012-01-14T23:15:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![zowie5752](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/aeb1de/32.png) [@zowie5752](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zowie5752)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2012, 11:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/54220/1 "2012-01-14T23:15:59Z")
Hi! I am just getting started in the world of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)! There is so much to think about and so many different options. I’m a college female looking to get into a relationship! Any product recommendations? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2012, 11:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/54220/2 "2012-01-14T23:20:02Z")
Hi Zowie - Welcome to Pherotalk. I can’t be very helpful about the womens products but until those who can get here, it would help us all if you have a read of this thread and give a bit more info about yourself and your situation: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) That way, we get something to offer better advice on and you earn the GC to start trying things out. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2012, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/54220/3 "2012-01-14T23:46:59Z")
Hello Zowie and welcome to the forum. Like Mobo said - a little more info frm you and we will be able to help you with some good recommendations plus you can score a gift certificate to purchase those products. The thing to remember is that these products are not magic. There may be boys in trees but they will not be falling out of them. Well, for women it _is_ a little easier. Well to meet someone. To meet that quality someone you actually _want_ to date … well even pheros cannot guarantee _that_. Looking forward to your response. ---
**Author:** ![zowie5752](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/aeb1de/32.png) [@zowie5752](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zowie5752)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2012, 11:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/54220/4 "2012-01-14T23:49:11Z")
Sorry! HEre is some more info! HI everyone, my name is Kara, I am a 22 year old female and I live in Philly. I am a very fun, outgoing, openminded, and funny person when it comes to the people I know, and they all seem to love me!! But, when it comes to strange crowds of people, I tend to clam up! I am a pretty girl but self conscious, and have a hard time meeting guys, partly due to being a little insecure.A friend of mine swears by this stuff so it caught my attention and interest. So, when I got home, I googled pheromones and found this site. I want to learn a little more about how they work, and where to find sprays that really work, should I get scented or unscented? Which ones tend to work better? I was thinking of instant shine and [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)? ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2012, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/54220/5 "2012-01-14T23:58:52Z")
Hello Kara. We have had several female phero users from Philly. You ladies ought to get together for a Ladies Philly Phero Crawl. The products here really work as long as you are not expecting magic. IS/b is a good choice. It is a low key sex mix. For something to help those conversations with people you do not know IO would be a big help. The Ishine would also help in that field to as you seem to be aware. Do not forget IH. That helps create feelings of connection which often leads to deeper conversations. This might be something to help with you current friends. The social products: IO, IH and IShine all come with a light neroli scent. Not sure about the IS/b but you do want some kind of scent - even if it is only neroli. Pheros without any cover scent can be … stinky. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2012, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newbie/54220/6 "2012-01-24T23:58:22Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Zowie! When thinking about getting into a relationship esp in college you need to remember that most guys are just looking to get laid as you can read by going to the men section. Guys will do anything and I mean anything to get those panties , even if is having going through loops and tests until you give up the couchie. The social products are great because you want to connect because once you guys connect in the right ways , eventually even if sex comes then you have something more than just that. _ **Your gc was issued!🙂** _