# Newcomer looking for suggestions **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 19, 2009, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newcomer-looking-for-suggestions/33425 "2009-10-19T23:01:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![VegasBomb](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vegasbomb/32/629_2.png) [@VegasBomb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/VegasBomb)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2009, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newcomer-looking-for-suggestions/33425/1 "2009-10-19T23:01:27Z")
Hey everyone, I’m VegasBomb. I kind of stumbled upon this forum out of curiosity, but after reaching the max number of post viewings as a guest I decided to join as a member. I’m a 24 year old male and probably about to move to Austin, TX in January. I’m looking for [pheromones](https://a314.com/) that will increase the amount of respect I get, but also draw people to me to get things started. I’m really easy going and most people enjoy hanging out with me, but I there are times when I need to be taken more serious. I also tend to have problems overcoming alpha females’ initial resistance (some call this a b\*\*\*\* shield 😃) in a club/bar scenario. Metaphorically speaking, once I get past the defensive line I’m fine and can run the ball into the endzone. I’m just looking for something to help me break through that barrier. I’ve done some reading and I could see A314, IO, IS, TUTH and others being of help, but I wanted to get some advice/suggestions from those obviously much more experienced with mones than myself. Thanks in advance, -VegasBomb ---
**Author:** ![Zansteps](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/zansteps/32/2407_2.png) [@Zansteps](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Zansteps)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2009, 11:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newcomer-looking-for-suggestions/33425/2 "2009-10-19T23:06:55Z")
HEY HEY HEY! Welcome to the club mah man 🙂 You’ve got a good mentality, but you need to keep in mind the common phrase “Pheros only do 10% of the work”. They are great for a little nudge, but mostly it you, and how you deal with the situation. Also, you should note that the product descriptions are not 100% accurate in practice. Look around the forum and especially the Men’s Journal section. Good luck and have fun, and again, welcome to our little community of Bio-chemical social scientists ^_^_🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2009, 11:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newcomer-looking-for-suggestions/33425/3 "2009-10-19T23:48:42Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. YOu have selected some great pheromones there. A314 will get you the respect you need. People will trust , respect and think you are capable. They will listen to you more. To draw people to you, try IO. It can open up people and they will like to engage in conversations with you. IH will make the conversations deeper and more personal. They will feel they have known you for long time. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newcomer-looking-for-suggestions/33425/4 "2009-10-20T00:25:14Z")
Hi Welcome to the forum, You can also consider [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) as a lighter alternitive to A314 when your just out doing your own thing Chris ---
**Author:** ![VegasBomb](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vegasbomb/32/629_2.png) [@VegasBomb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/VegasBomb)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newcomer-looking-for-suggestions/33425/5 "2009-10-20T01:16:42Z")
Thanks for the advice so far. After doing some more research I think I’m going to try IG as a base, but I’m undecided on other the social mones. If you had to choose only one between Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), and Instant Honesty for prowling/partying scenarios which would you choose and why? ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newcomer-looking-for-suggestions/33425/6 "2009-10-20T01:28:40Z")
> [@VegasBomb](#): > > Thanks for the advice so far. After doing some more research I think I’m going to try IG as a base, but I’m undecided on other the social mones. > > If you had to choose only one between Instant Shine, Instant Openness, and Instant Honesty for prowling/partying scenarios which would you choose and why? Just my 2 cents- You will read from some of us that IO is the way to go and others say IH. For me personally, I have trouble getting people to open up to me (as well as approaching) so I favor IO by a long shot since once people start talking, they seem to WANT to tell me their secrets. Other people like the bonding effect that IH gives. It is really more about whether you are good at approaching and opening people or not. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/newcomer-looking-for-suggestions/33425/7 "2009-10-20T18:44:57Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.