# Next step... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 23, 2007, 4:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677 "2007-03-23T16:42:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ms\_McSteamy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Ms\_McSteamy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ms_McSteamy)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2007, 4:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677/1 "2007-03-23T16:42:26Z")
Ok, so I’ve been using Instant Sexiness and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)… The products work great! Makes me feel confident and all, but I think I’m ready for something that’ll make my target see me differently. Differently meaning, not just as a friend but someone to confide in, someone possibly for him to be with 😉 Anyone with recommendations? ---
**Author:** ![HotMama](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hotmama/32/1786_2.png) [@HotMama](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HotMama)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2007, 5:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677/2 "2007-03-23T17:19:16Z")
> [@Ms\_McSteamy](#): > > Ok, so I’ve been using Instant Sexiness and Instant Shine… The products work great! Makes me feel confident and all, but I think I’m ready for something that’ll make my target see me differently. Differently meaning, not just as a friend but someone to confide in, someone possibly for him to be with 😉 > > Anyone with recommendations? McSteamy!! Love that name! What you’re looking for is perhaps a little (or a lot) of [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). I’d call Jas and ask it in x4 strength (I have it x2, and I need to reorder..) so it lasts longer and you use fewer sprays… Be careful to put it where it affects the other person more than you until you know how you will be on it, read some threads about it here in the women’s forum.. Also, maybe some cops to rev up the sex appeal? I am not an _expert_ on cops.. like Dolly, Ail, Lor et al There’s a Sticky Newbie thread at the top where Ail lays it out.. That should be a good place to start! We want to hear details on your hits.. Sounds like you’re having a good time with your stash already!! HM ---
**Author:** ![HotMama](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hotmama/32/1786_2.png) [@HotMama](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HotMama)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2007, 6:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677/3 "2007-03-23T18:08:04Z")
I should probably add that when I said that “[Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) x4” lasts longer, I meant for the BOTTLE to last longer as you use less sprays than the regular or x2 strength. It lasts the same amount of time when worn. Thank you 🙂 Ail! ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2007, 6:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677/4 "2007-03-23T18:49:42Z")
the only thing i can say here is [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and double strength LAM in chocolatini. something about cops encourage HIM to be the initiator. you will know where you stand without having to wonder if he wants you “in that way”. sexiness has cops in it,too 😉 ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2007, 8:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677/5 "2007-03-23T20:47:41Z")
I echo the endorsement for IH, as strong as you can get it. The sticky also has quite a bit of info on how to use that. Quick cheat sheet: back of neck (hairline is a very warm place that’s good for application) crown of head (devil horns!) and possibly cleavage, although that’s a bit risky since you might still be affected. Stay _away_ from neck/wrist application to avoid being affected. Chocolatini adds major diffusion. Break a leg, as we say in the theater. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2007, 12:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677/6 "2007-03-24T00:24:40Z")
personally, id add honesty to everything nomatter what, simply because if your not sure where you stand they are likely to tell you 😉 im going to state that its difficult to not let it effect you, i have yet to manage that, nomatter where i spray it 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2007, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677/7 "2007-03-24T00:57:09Z")
Excellent point there, Lor. 😉 I tend to get the giggles from it, but in terms of pheros in general, I’m discovering that like Ail and Alseides, I’m not much of a self-responder. 😠 Wore a few sprays of IS/A while making a WalMart run this evening. No real attention from anyone. My cab driver on the way back was friendly and asked about the upcoming Easter/Passover break, but cab drivers are often friendly because we pay them and I think he really did need the information. ---
**Author:** ![Ms\_McSteamy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Ms\_McSteamy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ms_McSteamy)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2007, 6:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677/8 "2007-03-24T06:13:15Z")
you all are awesome 🙂 it’s nice to get a **pro’s** advice sooooo, honesty it is! i’ll probably check out the lust after me and order more of the sexiness… but honestly (speaking w/o the phermones of course 😛 ), my best friend has been using honesty and it’s been workin wonders for her!! she’s gotten people, guys in particular, to open up to her… after her endless stories, i decided to look in to it. and now after more recommendations, no dobut honesty will be in my shopping cart! does it come with any scents? and about these cops… i’ve been reading about it throughout the forum, but i have _no_ idea what they do and where to get them 😕 it must work tho cuz it’s definitely popular ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2007, 6:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/next-step/2677/9 "2007-03-24T06:26:25Z")
Sure, IH comes in all the ladies’ scents, but you have to specially request anything other than neroli and any strength greater than x2. As for cops, the sticky thread started by me has a ton of info on how to use them, thanks to Ail, one of our resident cops experts. 🙂 You can purchase EoW at Love Scent (just google that, because I don’t think I’m permitted to link to them) and you can specially request Lust After Me and [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) with ramped up cops–call Jasmin, explain your situation, and she’ll steer you.