# Nice to meet you all :)

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nice-to-meet-you-all/26473>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [February 25, 2009, 10:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nice-to-meet-you-all/26473 "2009-02-25T22:23:56Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 7\
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**Author:** ![ZMaiden](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/d26b3c/32.png) [@ZMaiden](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ZMaiden)\
**Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 10:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nice-to-meet-you-all/26473/1 "2009-02-25T22:23:56Z")

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Hello, my name is Megan. I am 25 years old (soon to be 26 ::shudder:🙂 and I am female. I’m currently living in Tennessee, in the US.  
So, I don’t really know how detailed to get with describing myself 🙂 but I’ve never been shy on the internet so here goes. I’m a geek.  
I read constantly, debate philosophy with my friends, play D and D, watch foreign tv, go to conventions, write stories, and do just about any  
other geeky thing you can think of. However, I also love camping, climbing trees, playing airsoft, and fishing. I’m a bit of an odd duck. I’m so manly, my friends call me "Man"gen, but I secretly love all things cute and frilly. I’m an inherently shy person, especially around boys, but if you  
put me in a large group I turn into extrovert. I’ve only ever had one boyfriend, and he was so socially inept he never went beyond holding my hand.

I’m so intimidated by men, that I tend to only go for those guys that I feel are non-threatening, and then I discover they are _soo_ not my type.  
However, the type of guys I like are the ones that are attracted to confidence and sensuality, neither of which I have. Silly unstoppable loops.  
Being a tomboy like I am, I’ve never been comfortable with displays of sexuality. I can play the innocent girl, or the brash tomboy, but ask me to  
be sexy and I’ll feel like a buffoon.

Now, currently, I’m on this insane quest to redifine myself. I’m going for a full life makeover. Weight loss, exercise, going for big goals, and stuff like that. I just feel like having some fun with myself for once, seeing what I can do with what I have. I’d like to add a sensuality makeover as well, but since I know nothing about being a grown woman (as apposed to brash "Man"gen) I turned to the net for plans.

I’m pretty sure it was a Google-foo session that led me to this site, but I can’t tell you the specifics of the search, cause I don’t remember. I’ve looked around a little, reading a few things in the forum and trying to get to know the kind of people who come here. I’ve got to say, I love the feeling of scientific research that you guys have going on here. It makes it easier when you take the emotions out of it and just go for the  
pure science. I don’t know much about [pheromones](https://a314.com/), other than the fact that animals have them and we don’t know if humans do.

I don’t really care if they actually work, or if they just have a psychological effect, cause frankly I could use either. I’m not looking for a miracle spray that’ll make men jump into my lap 🙂. I just want men to look at me, and notice I’m female. I don’t think I’d know what to do if they _did_ jump into my lap. I just want to be the woman, that when she walks into a room heads turn. I’m looking for confidence the most, and attraction if I can get it. Honestly though, I’ll probably get just as much help from the forum as I would from the sprays. Sorry about the babble, I know I said I’m shy, but apparently only when it comes to men and sexuality. Every thing else, and I’d tell you my life’s story without so much as blushing. 🙂 Nice to meet you, in advance.

I guess the only question I have is this:  
Do you guys mind if I ask for non-pheremone related advice? I mean, it seems like the people on this forum are on the ball, and I could use a little bit of that 🙂.

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 10:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nice-to-meet-you-all/26473/2 "2009-02-25T22:35:09Z")

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Hi Megan, and welcome!!

Almost 26, OMG you are sooooo old **NOT**!

I remember when I turned 25 I thought, oh no, I am a quarter of a century old, I am sooo old. Believe me, you are just a baby with your whole life ahead of you. I am 47, and just a baby myself. You are as old as you make yourself feel you are 🙂

[Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A might be just what you need! You seem very confident, but just need an edge with the guys!

Please feel free to ask anything you want to, you have come to the right place!!

Warm regards,  
Sillykitty

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**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\
**Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 10:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nice-to-meet-you-all/26473/3 "2009-02-25T22:59:06Z")

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HI there,

Welcoe to the forum.

Thanks for the long intorduction.

I suggest you try [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/). It will make you attractive and sexy. It ccan also make you feminine like Monroe type, as what you intend to be. You will be the centre of attraction.

To counter your shyness, use Shine. It can boost your confidence socially. It will also make you and the people around you in lighter mood.

IO will also help in making men to approach you. It open up people and make them want to talk to you.

Cheers

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**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\
**Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 11:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nice-to-meet-you-all/26473/4 "2009-02-25T23:06:22Z")

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Hello ZMaiden, welcome to the forum!! Good luck on your life improvement plan, it sounds like you’re going for big things and I have no doubt you’ll succeed.

Confidence and attraction, hmm? Sounds like you need Instant Sexiness. However you’ll need to see which version fits for you (A: Angelina Jolie vibe, B: Marilyn Monroe vibe). To do this, I’d recommend trying the To Go size before you commit to a full version. 🙂

I also love [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and combining both (spraying one then the other) gives me the sexy bullet-proof feeling.

By the way, you might want to check out these threads:

> [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558):
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> A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati…

> [@How to Test and Report On Products UPDATED 12/01](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-test-and-report-on-products-updated-12-01/6297):
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> (At the bottom of this post I have included a small guide on how to find your sweet spot) It has occurred to me that alot of the new people who have reported have not given detailed reports which is something that is needed by Androtics to make new consumer products. I am guilty of this at times as well. (sorry Jas wink ) I am going to post a outline here so that new people will understand how to report so we can have some more consumer goodies faster. First off when you receive a product a…

There’s invaluable advice on pheros, which do work.

And as for non pheroadvice, I’ve asked and received really good advice. Others have too so yes. We’re here to research but also help each other grow as people. 🙂

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 10:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nice-to-meet-you-all/26473/5 "2009-02-26T10:37:40Z")

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Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂

Yes I do suggest you start with [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/).

A is more your strong dominant confident female vibe (Angelina Jolie persona)

B is your softer more girly kittenish vibe. Marilyn Monroe.

I also suggest Ishine for a uplifting warm magnetic vibe.

Both of these will really boost your confidence to.

Now MX135 is in the advanced section but has been around for a long time and is great. Centers attention on you. Sexy fun confident attractive. I would read up on this one and consider it.

If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😃

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> Do you guys mind if I ask for non-pheremone related advice? I mean, it seems like the people on this forum are on the ball, and I could use a little bit of that 🙂.

Sure you can ask whatever you like. The members are great here and we will try to help. If you a sensitive issue you can always PM me.

Tisha  
Hostess/Guide

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**Author:** ![ZMaiden](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/d26b3c/32.png) [@ZMaiden](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ZMaiden)\
**Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 12:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nice-to-meet-you-all/26473/6 "2009-03-03T00:32:11Z")

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Thanks for all the advice, to everyone who responded 🙂 I have a quick question though, as far as my first try, which of these do you think is better:  
[Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) or;  
MX135

Going out this weekend and want to test this out. Also doesn’t hurt that my ex will be coming along, and I think it’d be neat to do a before and after reaction thing.

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**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\
**Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 12:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nice-to-meet-you-all/26473/7 "2009-03-03T00:52:09Z")

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Hello ZMaiden!! It’s very nice to meet you 🙂

You remind me of myself… I tend to be very shy around guys (also a bit awkward). I would never consider myself to be naturally sexy, but more “cute” and “goofy” 🙄. When it comes to my goofy/dorkyness I sometimes wish to be different, but I have to remember that thats who I am and it’s what makes me special. What I have found to best work for me (keep in mind that we are all different and what works for me may be different then what works for you.) Is Instant Sexiness A. I love that stuff! It makes me feel confident, flirty, and yes… Sexy!! I notice I become a bit of a flirt while wearing it and thats not like me **at all**!!! I feel that Instant Sexiness A really helps to balance out my shy/kittenish personality and it really brings out my inner Angelina Jolie 😃!! I hope you find what you are looking for here. Have a happy [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) Journey and remember…  
YOU ROCK!! 😮

Much Love,

~Tiffany~
