# Night at the bar :D **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 30, 2009, 9:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542 "2009-01-30T09:02:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/21 "2009-01-30T19:04:04Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > I know that a lot of women think it is kinder to lie, but this backfires in the language of men for the fact that it marks her as a liar and that loses respect and trust from a man very quickly. Men are very direct and blunt in their communication typically, and a thing either is or it isn’t. > > On the other hand, she’s there trying to be nice, not blow her chances, and not be assaulted verbally as being a bitch, I know. But there are better ways to handle things than to lie. not for a drunk guy. they dont hear the truth, they hear what they are already fearing. now sober,abso-freaking-lutley. ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/22 "2009-01-30T19:05:22Z")
wait…who is “so freaking hot?” lol 😛…Im lost Lor ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/23 "2009-01-30T19:07:07Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > you are so freaking hot. > > i think you need to lecture me in private messages 😃 lmao You’re hilarious, Lor. Didn’t we get into an argument last time I spanked you via PM? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/24 "2009-01-30T19:08:09Z")
btw i want to make it clear to everyone that i wasn’t that drunk…i was just a little buzzed, but fully aware of everything going on. I didnt slur, stutter, walk like a drunk etc ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/25 "2009-01-30T19:09:08Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > not for a drunk guy. > they dont hear the truth, > they hear what they are already fearing. > now sober,abso-freaking-lutley. There is certainly that to contend with… but then gain… what about guys like me, who can be unable to get off the floor, talk or do anything else resembling normalcy, but who remember everything that happened the next day? He’s gonna put two and two together eventually. Lies are baaad. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/26 "2009-01-30T19:10:00Z")
> [@revivia](#): > > btw i want to make it clear to everyone that i wasn’t that drunk…i was just a little buzzed, but fully aware of everything going on. I didnt slur, stutter, walk like a drunk etc Talk to me when you know what drunk is, buddy. Hangover = drunk. ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/27 "2009-01-30T19:10:45Z")
“i wasn’t that drunk” 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/28 "2009-01-30T19:12:38Z")
revivia: catlord makes alot of great points, and his reasoning turns me on. yeah, i get turned on intellectually 🙄 dont know you well enough to bestow you with compliments, but going on your pic and your forum attitude, it was the hotchicks loss,not yours! 😉 catlord: yes,we did. im not always going to agree with you. so there. but again, i enjoy and appreciate your opinions. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/29 "2009-01-30T19:15:20Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > revivia: > catlord makes alot of great points, and his reasoning turns me on. > yeah, i get turned on intellectually 🙄 > dont know you well enough to bestow you with compliments, but going on your pic and your forum attitude, it was the hotchicks loss,not yours! > 😉 > > catlord: > yes,we did. > im not always going to agree with you. > so there. > but again, i enjoy and appreciate your opinions. If you always agreed with me, you wouldn’t be nearly as sexy. A woman who has her own opinions and can argue her point is very attractive. I get turned in intellectually, too. 🙂 And are you sure it’s my reasoning that turned you on, or the bluntness with which I said what I think? lol ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/30 "2009-01-30T19:18:05Z")
geez i still have a headache…whoever recommended the 2 tylenol with the gatorade…im gonna take you up on that offer…be right back…keep the posts coming. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/31 "2009-01-30T19:18:47Z")
> [@revivia](#): > > she said candlelight i think the name was, Aurora, and one other one i forgot Was it Candleroom maybe? Both clubs are in a trendy, yuppy type area of Dallas, and fairly close together. I’d never heard of either one, but in looking at the locations, they suggest that they are upperscale clubs. And, the Candleroom is a private membership club. Just a hunch, but I’m thinking that she may be used to being well “taken care of”, and while she might have seen something in you, you weren’t fawning over her and spending money on her in the way that she’s used to. I could be completely off, but unless she is well off herself, that’s kinda my gut instinct. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/32 "2009-01-30T19:20:10Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > If you always agreed with me, you wouldn’t be nearly as sexy. A woman who has her own opinions and can argue her point is very attractive. I get turned in intellectually, too. 🙂 > > And are you sure it’s my reasoning that turned you on, or the bluntness with which I said what I think? lol :😔: both. guys that are honest AND blunt (especially in a respectful manner) show a confidence that is so sexy that even the women “turned off” by it (so they say) would take it as an extreme ego-boost to have their attention. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/33 "2009-01-30T19:21:09Z")
> [@revivia](#): > > “i wasn’t that drunk” 😛 That’s what any alcoholic would say! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/34 "2009-01-30T19:22:16Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > That’s what every alcoholic says! 😛 yep. take it from a bartender. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/35 "2009-01-30T19:24:26Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > :😔: > > both. > > guys that are honest AND blunt (especially in a respectful manner) show a confidence that is so sexy that even the women “turned off” by it (so they say) would take it as an extreme ego-boost to have their attention. It’s a nice little side effect, isn’t it? lol ---
**Author:** ![denec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/denec/32/1730_2.png) [@denec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/denec)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/36 "2009-01-30T19:27:29Z")
> [@chasm](#): > > 2 tylenols and gatorade, you’ll be better in 20 mins actually the old trick drink more alcohol will help cure that hangover faster LOL ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/37 "2009-01-30T19:27:30Z")
brb in 2 hrs…got a doc appointment…keep the posts coming…im loving it 😃 ---
**Author:** ![data4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/data4/32/272_2.png) [@data4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/data4)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/38 "2009-01-30T19:27:56Z")
> [@revivia](#): > > geez i still have a headache…whoever recommended the 2 tylenol with the gatorade…im gonna take you up on that offer…be right back…keep the posts coming. How to avoid a hangover, by Data4 1. Don’t get drunk. 2. If #1 is unavoidable, set a hard time limit and stick to it! Plan on partying til 3 AM? Quit drinking at midnight and just ride your drunk out. Try to drink clear liquors, like vodka, rather than bourbon or whiskey. About an hour before you plan to crash, do the Gatorade and tylenol thing and take a multivitamin. This will hydrate your body and provide a nutrient boost for sleep, when it takes over and says “Okay, we need to figure out how to clean up this mess.” Hangovers are a result of dehydration and nutrient loss so you want to give your body a little cooling off time (the time period between your last drink and when you go to sleep), plus make sure it’s equipped to handle the self repairs and maintenence your internal systems usually do while you’re sleeping. If you still wake up feeling like crap, I can GUARANTEE you it’s not as bad as it could have been. Remember to keep the hydration up with water or sports drink, and pop a tylenol or two to keep the headache at bay. One thing I like to do if I can stomach it is to have V8 juice available. It’s vitamin and mineral rich and aids in the hydration as well. Using these methods, I haven’t suffered a hangover in over 15 years. Hope that helps for next time! 😃 -D4 ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/39 "2009-01-30T19:37:37Z")
> [@denec](#): > > actually the old trick drink more alcohol will help cure that hangover faster > > LOL Hair of the dog is NOT what this fool needs! lol ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2009, 7:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542/40 "2009-01-30T19:38:50Z")
> [@revivia](#): > > geez i still have a headache…whoever recommended the 2 tylenol with the gatorade…im gonna take you up on that offer…be right back…keep the posts coming. Hey, man, I give you a hard time, but it’s all in good fun. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542.md?page=1) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-d/25542.md?page=3)