# Night at the bar report with some questions? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 19, 2009, 5:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075 "2009-01-19T17:53:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![JMJ18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ea924/32.png) [@JMJ18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JMJ18)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 5:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/1 "2009-01-19T17:53:41Z")
Went to small bar last night, It was really crowded so everyone was pretty much on top of each other. Wore one spray of ammo on wrist, instant instant openness on back of neck, one spray of turn up and Instant honesty on chest and one more ammo on front of neck. Night started out ok getting drinks going up to the bar and was getting some female attention. First major thing was a girl came up to me and started pulling down her shirt and said how far do I have to pull it down to get a drink. I replied take it all off and ill buy you a shot in a joking way. She laughed but didn’t seem too happy about what i said. She kind of went back to her group of friends. Was then talking with a group of girls (along w/ friends I came with) the girls seemed interested and we talked for a a while after introducing our selves. They decided to leave but one of my friends got their numbers and said to text her tomorrow if we wanted to hang out or something. After that I was pretty drunk and decided to just go up to a girl and start dancing. I saw one girl probably a 7 dancing next to her friend who was already dancing w/other guy. We started talking about couple things. Biggie song was playin and said to her, biggie gotta be the rest rapper ever and she agreed saying I just saw the movie … also made a few jokes and she laughed. Then she starts grinding up on me and she’s really into it and feeling me. I then get the cue from her and we start making out on and off. If I wanted to get make out with her for 10 mins straight she probably wouldn’t have stopped me. So then after a couple mins she says she has to leave. I then said to her ill give you my number or ill take yours. She then said to me whats my name? (her name) I forgot and she got pissed. She gave me a number and called it but i dont think her phone rang so I just assumed she gave me a b.s number. I was pretty drunk at the time and did go up to her with a beer on my hand which she took out of my hand as we started dancing. A similar thing happen to me earlier in the week met a girl maybe 7 or 8 at different bar started talking (was wearing similar phero mix) probably with each other for like half hour, made some jokes started dancing and made out a few times. Got late and she said had to go. Didn’t remember her name either but she didn’t ask me this time. I asked her for her number as she was leaving but she said tell me your full name ill look you up on face book. I knew she wouldn’t but told her anyway. What do you think I should have done differently in those situations? Do you think the fact that I was too drunk could have been an issue? Let’s say I was looking for a one stand what should I have done differently? What if I was looking for something more serious what should I have done differently? I know a kiss is not a contract and there’s plenty of time where that rule has applied. Maybe just wasn’t my night but would like to learn from my mistakes if I did make some. Other times I had similar nights with girls most of the time got their number know was real one but never really called or other times I brought them back to my place and got lucky. Thanks for reading my novel! ---
**Author:** ![So\_Musky](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/so_musky/32/290_2.png) [@So\_Musky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/So_Musky)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/2 "2009-01-19T18:12:33Z")
> [@JMJ18](#): > > She then said to me whats my name? (her name) I forgot and she got pissed. Lol… The sweetest sound to a person is the sound of their own name. Dude, burn their name into your memory. Write it on your hand if you have to. I don’t know if that was the entire problem, but it sure didn’t help. In her mind, she is probably thinking “This guy doesn’t give a damn about me, just looking for a piece of ass. He forgot my name within 20 minutes!” It has been my experience that you should not be drunker than the woman you’re pursuing. Else they end up with the impression they are babysitting you, which is more often than not, unsexy. Just some thought my friend. Good luck next time ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/3 "2009-01-19T18:30:21Z")
how cute are you? seriously, [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) are god’s gift for getting your foot in the door, but then you go take the foot and shove it into your mouth. while girls are out, they want to have a good time. they look over their choices, and either find a winner, settle for the best out of the choices, or just plain think better to have nothing here. if they are settling for the best out of their choices, you definately NOT be called. they are only making the best of a situation, _and your it_. i think you could have won any one of them if you work on making them feel like the only gal in the room. now i dont mean you cant make every gal in that bar feel that way, but if a guy is a pig (take your shirt off for a shot) or just plain ditzy (cant remember your name) you havent got shot in hell. how do i know any of this? no, not because im old (ha beat you to the punch) i have been bartending for 15 years + and i watch everything go down. the genders even confide in me, so i know who’s game is working, and who’s got no game at all. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 6:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/4 "2009-01-19T18:34:03Z")
> [@So\_Musky](#): > > Lol… The sweetest sound to a person is the sound of their own name. > > Dude, burn their name into your memory. Write it on your hand if you have to. I don’t know if that was the entire problem, but it sure didn’t help. In her mind, she is probably thinking “This guy doesn’t give a damn about me, just looking for a piece of ass. He forgot my name within 20 minutes!” > > It has been my experience that you should not be drunker than the woman you’re pursuing. Else they end up with the impression they are babysitting you, which is more often than not, unsexy. > > Just some thought my friend. Good luck next time its actually okay for alot of gals at the bar to know that you want a piece of ass. not everygirl in a bar is opposed to that! 😉 its a part of feeling sexxay, knowing that someone finds you that way! its just that you have to be super respectful, gutsy, and make her feel like she is quite the catch. even if its for the night! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![JMJ18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ea924/32.png) [@JMJ18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JMJ18)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 7:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/5 "2009-01-19T19:16:54Z")
I’m 6’2 about 180 and decent looking. The one girl who I said take your shirt for a shot, she had first asked me how low does she have to pull her shirt down to get someone to buy her a drink so I said take the whole thing off and ill buy you a drink. wasn’t really trying for her just thought it would be a little joke. When that girl I was dancing with from last night asked me what her name was I then responded I bet you don’t know my name either and she didn’t. She thought it was John or something but she said it was atleast close. I think being too drunk was atleast a factor and will try to limit the amount I drink next time and see what the results will be. I think if I was a bit more sober I would have done things a little differently but theres always a next time. ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/6 "2009-01-19T20:35:45Z")
I’ve always wanted to be a bartender. In what other job is one PAID to lower women’s inhibitions and cloud their judgment? So Musky has it right. Drunk girls get laid. Sober or slightly buzzed guys _can_ get laid. Drunk guys go home lonely. The point you should remember is you’re the predator. You need to be sharper and more on-the-ball than your prey. Women are looking for men they can look up to and respect; men have to pass tests. Does that describe any drunks you know of? ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 8:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/7 "2009-01-19T20:48:55Z")
> [@Whitehall](#): > > I’ve always wanted to be a bartender. In what other job is one PAID to lower women’s inhibitions and cloud their judgment? > > So Musky has it right. Drunk girls get laid. Sober or slightly buzzed guys _can_ get laid. Drunk guys go home lonely. The point you should remember is you’re the predator. You need to be sharper and more on-the-ball than your prey. > > Women are looking for men they can look up to and respect; men have to pass tests. Does that describe any drunks you know of? Heh… I think it sometimes depends on what kind of drunk you are - I was on occasion wildly successful at getting laid despite being 3 sheets to the wind… I think it sometimes depends on your drunk personality ---
**Author:** ![JMJ18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ea924/32.png) [@JMJ18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JMJ18)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 6:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/8 "2009-01-20T18:46:04Z")
Also had another question does it matter how far you hold the bottle from your body when you spray it? How far should you hold it? ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 7:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/9 "2009-01-20T19:42:28Z")
> [@JMJ18](#): > > Also had another question does it matter how far you hold the bottle from your body when you spray it? How far should you hold it? If you hold it too close then you end up with a very small area of application = low diffusion rates If you hold it too far then you will diffuse much better BUT you’ll end up losing some of the spray (because some of it will miss you). I tend to hold my bottle about half an arm’s length away from myself for my chest and a little less for my neck ---
**Author:** ![So\_Musky](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/so_musky/32/290_2.png) [@So\_Musky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/So_Musky)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2009, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/night-at-the-bar-report-with-some-questions/25075/10 "2009-01-21T01:21:22Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > its actually okay for alot of gals at the bar to know that you want a piece of ass. > not everygirl in a bar is opposed to that! 😉 > its a part of feeling sexxay, knowing that someone finds you that way! > > its just that you have to be super respectful, gutsy, and make her feel like she is quite the catch. > even if its for the night! > 😉 Wait, you mean women want to get laid too!? 😮 I don’t believe it! Lol, you are right of course. Thanks Lor!