# No attention from guys with Instant Shine, MX135 and others: what am I doing wrong? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 4, 2008, 6:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-attention-from-guys-with-instant-shine-mx135-and-others-what-am-i-doing-wrong/12164 "2008-05-04T06:37:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 13
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2008, 10:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-attention-from-guys-with-instant-shine-mx135-and-others-what-am-i-doing-wrong/12164/13 "2008-05-04T10:04:01Z")
I know sometimes its hard to get those mones working just right for you. Believe me when I first started out I had some trouble myself. Dont worry we will get them working. I agree with inkling, lets start over with a clean slate. Use one product at a time. I would start with IO. > [@My stupid newbie tricks](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-stupid-newbie-tricks/6369/5): > > Nope you need to do this… Use one product at a time for at least a week. Try to do a few days at each dosage in different settings. I will use a week as a example below though so you can get the general ideal Lets use shine as a example. Day 1. 1 spray to hair, Gage your self effects and any seen effects for the day. Day 2. 1 spray to hair, 1 spray to chest. Gage your results Day 3. 1 spray to hair, 1 to chest and 1 split to wrists. Gage your results Day 4. 1 spray to hair, 1 to neck ,1 t… Read this post from the mens section on how to begin testing them. I am not sure if you read this one but if not it will help you know what to expect. > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… Now be sure to try different application points on your body. Also if your wearing something like IO you have to look open to conversation. Another tip is to “set it and forget it” if you walk around all day looking for hits its like watching a pot of water until it boils. It will make you aggitated and then you start producing some negative mones of your own. So put your product on in the morning before you go out and then just try hard not to think to much about it. At the end of the day look back and jot down anything that was out of the ordinary even if your not sure it was from the mones. Sometimes you can see patterns forming this way. Now I see you mentioned you sprayed to your legs Are you wearing a skirt on those days because if your not you will need to walk around nakky. Plus legs dont really heat up good. On women hair, cleveage, neck, behind ears, back of neck, wrists, elbow, are all good. In the summer if its warm and I am wearing a half T that shows my waist I will spray right below the belly ring to. Works well there. A314 is a mens product and if your using it for attraction it dosnt work that way on a women. Its more likely to make them not respond to you or just treat you with more respect. Even if your using buffer mones with it. This could be why your not seeing reactions. I use A314 when I want people to leave me the hell alone. LOL They single molecule mones like TAA TAL and TAH you should wait to use till after you see results with the standard products. These are not ment to be used on there own even though we test them that way. They are for mixes or layering. Dont worry you will get it working 🙂 Tisha --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-attention-from-guys-with-instant-shine-mx135-and-others-what-am-i-doing-wrong/12164)._