# No results yet from EoW, Edge and Eros with my partner: what to try next? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 22, 2007, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-results-yet-from-eow-edge-and-eros-with-my-partner-what-to-try-next/3263 "2007-04-22T03:06:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Oldman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/b2d939/32.png) [@Oldman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oldman)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2007, 3:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-results-yet-from-eow-edge-and-eros-with-my-partner-what-to-try-next/3263/21 "2007-04-24T03:57:43Z")
The fact that an individual thinks their relationship or marriage needs to be “spiced up” indicates that there is a problem. Based on what I have read in rhylee’s posts, her husband does not think there is a problem. Anyone reading the posts relative to this specific situation can take it from there and fill in the blanks. If an individual thinks the relationship or marriage they are involved in needs “spicing up”, that individual is in a relationship that is in trouble…or the person wanting to add “spice” or excitement to their marriage or relationship rather than just being themselves and doing the things that both individuals enjoy doing…together…is bored or does not enough to do during their day to day life. I am retired, I’ve been retired since 1995; the daily happenings in my life and in each individual’s life within my immediate family provides each of us more spice and excitement than we can enjoy…it fills our day, every day. Our spice usually bleeds over into the next day…every day. If a relationship is not spicy enough for an individual within that relationship, yet the other individual in the relationship sees no problem, the individual desiring more “spice” is bored. relationships and marriages settle into a routine…and become comfortable…it’s called real life…a marriage…a job…bills…etc..An individual desiring to maintain the “spice” within a relationship and works to towards the goal of injecting “spice” into their relationship is not in touch with reality…of course…I am not a woman…maybe that’s how women think…I don’t think like that…If I am not spicing enough for my wife…she can go find someone else…TA-DA…problem solved…I’ll go fishing and camping with all the other guys that are not spicy or married. An individual desiring to maintain the excitement and “spice” they had when a relationship was new is fooling themselves…to get that kind of excitement or “spice”, an individual will have to break off their current relationship and start a new one about every 24 to 30 months…that’s not realistic. It’s ok to want more spice in your life…just don’t expect your spouse to provide the spice for you…you have to make the effort and do it yourself…Pheromones that can be purchased and sprayed on your body are not the answer…whether they actually work or not… By all means rhylee, PM anyone you think may help you on this site…just watch your pocket book…if whomever you begin speaking with concerning your situation begins suggesting that you try out a new or different product (i.e. purchase more Pheromones…or some other product) you should probably consider what I have said in my post more seriously. ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2007, 10:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-results-yet-from-eow-edge-and-eros-with-my-partner-what-to-try-next/3263/22 "2007-04-24T10:59:12Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Rhylee there is absolutly nothing wrong with wanting to spice up your marriage. I started out buying mones for the very same reason you are. If you want to talk and dont feel comfortable on the open forum you can PM me anytime. > > Tisha Rhylee…I agree **wholeheartedly** with my buddy Tisha…that was why I started with pheromones myself…to spice up a relationship. And, I am also available by PM, if you need an extra ear.😃 ---
**Author:** ![Oldman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/b2d939/32.png) [@Oldman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oldman)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2007, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-results-yet-from-eow-edge-and-eros-with-my-partner-what-to-try-next/3263/23 "2007-04-24T18:45:38Z")
The women in my relationships use to put music on and light candles to set the mood and “spice” things up I suppose…until they realized that the music was drowned out by our gruntingand heavy breathing and the smell of the candles was overwhelmed by the smell of sex…now we just fuck and to hell with the candles and shit. ---
**Author:** ![jpballerina](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jpballerina/32/1004_2.png) [@jpballerina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpballerina)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2007, 9:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-results-yet-from-eow-edge-and-eros-with-my-partner-what-to-try-next/3263/24 "2007-04-25T09:38:44Z")
I personally never wear EOW without a little [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) or Instant Shine to lighten to mood. Trust me, no one here is trying to sell you something when we say that you should check into the androtics products—for those of us planted here, it’s cause they work. I do love my EOW, but like I said, I don’t ever use it without another pheromone to back it up. Otherwise, I get no response. With something, it’s gold (my fav is IHonesty, like I said). I said this earlier in another forum, but the other thing to keep in mind is that pheros are to give a nudge in the right direction: they cannot raise the dead (well, maybe Dolly or Lor can, but I wouldn’t try it. 😉). Your lover may need a little outside help, as others have suggested. I’m sorry this is so hard!! I wish you the best of luck—trust me, all of us here want you to succeed. Even if you give up on phero’s, don’t give up on your hubby, he’ll come around. Love love love! xoxo jp ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2007, 9:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-results-yet-from-eow-edge-and-eros-with-my-partner-what-to-try-next/3263/25 "2007-04-26T09:01:48Z")
> [@Oldman](#): > > The fact that an individual thinks their relationship or marriage needs to be “spiced up” indicates that there is a problem. Based on what I have read in rhylee’s posts, her husband does not think there is a problem. Anyone reading the posts relative to this specific situation can take it from there and fill in the blanks. > > If an individual thinks the relationship or marriage they are involved in needs “spicing up”, that individual is in a relationship that is in trouble…or the person wanting to add “spice” or excitement to their marriage or relationship rather than just being themselves and doing the things that both individuals enjoy doing…together…is bored or does not enough to do during their day to day life. > > I am retired, I’ve been retired since 1995; the daily happenings in my life and in each individual’s life within my immediate family provides each of us more spice and excitement than we can enjoy…it fills our day, every day. Our spice usually bleeds over into the next day…every day. If a relationship is not spicy enough for an individual within that relationship, yet the other individual in the relationship sees no problem, the individual desiring more “spice” is bored. > > relationships and marriages settle into a routine…and become comfortable…it’s called real life…a marriage…a job…bills…etc..An individual desiring to maintain the “spice” within a relationship and works to towards the goal of injecting “spice” into their relationship is not in touch with reality…of course…I am not a woman…maybe that’s how women think…I don’t think like that…If I am not spicing enough for my wife…she can go find someone else…TA-DA…problem solved…I’ll go fishing and camping with all the other guys that are not spicy or married. > > An individual desiring to maintain the excitement and “spice” they had when a relationship was new is fooling themselves…to get that kind of excitement or “spice”, an individual will have to break off their current relationship and start a new one about every 24 to 30 months…that’s not realistic. > > It’s ok to want more spice in your life…just don’t expect your spouse to provide the spice for you…you have to make the effort and do it yourself…Pheromones that can be purchased and sprayed on your body are not the answer…whether they actually work or not… > > By all means rhylee, PM anyone you think may help you on this site…just watch your pocket book…if whomever you begin speaking with concerning your situation begins suggesting that you try out a new or different product (i.e. purchase more Pheromones…or some other product) you should probably consider what I have said in my post more seriously. Well Oldman I repectfully disagree with you. As I stated before she already bought the mones and she may as well use them. No one is trying to sell her anything. This forum is however for people who want to use mones and need advice on what is good. We also gave her a ton of other advice to use that has nothing to do with mones in her first post. Just for the record I have been married for 21 years living the “real life and paying bills” and I started out here wanting to spice up my marriage. There is absolutely nothing wrong with my marriage. I am not bored and we get along great. I am glad that your happy and content with yours but every relationship is different. Tisha [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/no-results-yet-from-eow-edge-and-eros-with-my-partner-what-to-try-next/3263.md?page=1)