# Noob question here **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 16, 2012, 6:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045 "2012-10-16T06:36:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![sweet\_chloe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@sweet\_chloe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweet_chloe)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 6:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/1 "2012-10-16T06:36:54Z")
Hello, I just want to share my story. I have an ex which as of the moment is one of my friends. We catch up sometimes but it’s so seldom when we talk. When we were still together way back then, he’s so cuddly and stuff but as of the moment he’s quite serious (but sometimes he throws a joke). Whenever I asked him if it’s awkward for him that we’re friends as of the moment, he told me that it’s not. I somehow still have feelings for him but I don’t want to tell him and I don’t know he feels the same way too. I just want to ask if what product shall I use for him to be more talkative and cuddly whenever we’re together? Also if there’s such a product exist that will make him wanting me more (I mean he always wants to be with me always) and to bring the spark back? And like how many days or hours will the product take effect and how must he exposed to that to take the effect? Thank you for those who will answer! =) ---
**Author:** ![JohnM](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/848f3c/32.png) [@JohnM](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnM)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2012, 1:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/2 "2012-10-18T13:41:12Z")
> [@](#): > > I have an ex which as of the moment is one of my friends. Why did the relationship end? ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2012, 1:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/3 "2012-10-18T13:50:05Z")
> [@sweet\_chloe](#): > > Hello, > > I just want to share my story. I have an ex which as of the moment is one of my friends. We catch up sometimes but it’s so seldom when we talk. When we were still together way back then, he’s so cuddly and stuff but as of the moment he’s quite serious (but sometimes he throws a joke). Whenever I asked him if it’s awkward for him that we’re friends as of the moment, he told me that it’s not. I somehow still have feelings for him but I don’t want to tell him and I don’t know he feels the same way too. > > I just want to ask if what product shall I use for him to be more talkative and cuddly whenever we’re together? Also if there’s such a product exist that will make him wanting me more (I mean he always wants to be with me always) and to bring the spark back? And like how many days or hours will the product take effect and how must he exposed to that to take the effect? > > Thank you for those who will answer! =) Generally they will work immediately but if it is someone that you have been around a lot it could take them a little longer to get used to the new pheromone signature that you are putting out. In the case of an ex or a friend you like repeated exposure to the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) are going to give you the best effect. ---
**Author:** ![sweet\_chloe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@sweet\_chloe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweet_chloe)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2012, 3:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/4 "2012-10-18T15:31:34Z")
> [@JohnM](#): > > Why did the relationship end? Because I focused more on my career as a varsity member rather than hanging out with him. ---
**Author:** ![sweet\_chloe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@sweet\_chloe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweet_chloe)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2012, 3:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/5 "2012-10-18T15:35:39Z")
> [@ballzan](#): > > Generally they will work immediately but if it is someone that you have been around a lot it could take them a little longer to get used to the new pheromone signature that you are putting out. In the case of an ex or a friend you like repeated exposure to the pheromones are going to give you the best effect. Like days? Because I just wanted him to keep on hanging out with me and cuddle up with me everytime we’re together just to bring the spark back. ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2012, 3:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/6 "2012-10-18T15:50:57Z")
> [@sweet\_chloe](#): > > Like days? Because I just wanted him to keep on hanging out with me and cuddle up with me everytime we’re together just to bring the spark back. It really depends, every individual is different. It could take a few days or even up to a week or 2. Chances are he will react right away or within a few days. And I have actually had a relationship that didn’t workout for the same reason but that doesn’t mean I don’t like her and wouldn’t try again if I got the chance so you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. ---
**Author:** ![sweet\_chloe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@sweet\_chloe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweet_chloe)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2012, 3:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/7 "2012-10-18T15:55:57Z")
> [@ballzan](#): > > It really depends, every individual is different. It could take a few days or even up to a week or 2. Chances are he will react right away or within a few days. And I have actually had a relationship that didn’t workout for the same reason but that doesn’t mean I don’t like her and wouldn’t try again if I got the chance so you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. Can just single day exposure to pheromones can make him react from it? Or should I need to wear it every now and then whenever we’re together ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [October 18, 2012, 4:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/8 "2012-10-18T16:06:36Z")
Well if you are seeing him on a daily basis then yes. I get reactions from just walking by girls in the mall but again the don’t know my natural phero signature. As long as he is in range to smell it your fine. What I mean by this is he doesn’t have to be cuddling up to you for them to effect him, even if he is within 3-5 feet of you inside a building or house or something like that then he should react. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2012, 1:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/9 "2012-10-19T01:35:11Z")
First let me point out it most cases pheromones can not fix broken relationships. The issue is not that he was not attracted to you, obviously he was because he was your BF, it was that you didnt fill a need he had (spending time with him). > [@](#): > > Like days? Because I just wanted him to keep on hanging out with me and cuddle up with me everytime we’re together just to bring the spark back. It depends, generally with strangers pheromones can cause a reaction within minutes because people dont know you well and dont have preconceived notions about you. With those closer to us, people who know us well and know our natural mone signatures it can take days simply because you have to reprogram those notions. Your hoping he will open up and talk more. I suggest IH for that. It opens people up on a deeper level. I also suggest [Instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/). Your probably more of a A type naturally but he broke up with you because of your career drive and not spending time. My guess there was a little more to that emotionally for him he didnt express to you which is why I am not suggesting something like copulins which increase the sexual side of things. Men need to feel like men, the alphas. Its instinctual and there place in the natural order of things that they protect, provide and take care of you. Obviously the world has changed in the last 100 years and women dont need men to take care of them but that doesn’t mean men dont need to feel like they do. Now I am not saying to let him actually take care of you financially or to make decisions for you. But you do need to create feelings in him of being needed. Instant sexiness B will help with that. A little side note story and it may seem silly but I have been married a long long time and it works. When I was little my mother would always have my dad open jars for her. I knew damn well she could open them herself I saw her do it all the time and it was rare she came across one she could not open but if Dad was around she always asked him to open them. Flash forward 10 year when I first got married and had them over for dinner… My mother is a strong alpha female and so am I so she knows me quite well and knows I can do pretty much anything for myself. We were in the kitchen and I go to open the jar and she grabs it from me and tells me to have my husband open it. I was like …“why I can do it” She told me I know you can but having him do it makes him feel like a man, the protector, the provider… LOL At first I thought it was the most ridiculous thing I ever heard, I dont need protection from a jar, but I went along. After all she was married to my Dad for 60 years before his passing so she had to be doing something right. What I learned over the years is having them do those little things for us like opening a jar, picking up heavy things, killing that deadly spider in the bathroom, holding your hand when you jump over a big puddle. Those tiny little things that seem so inconsequential engage emotions in them that make them feel needed, important and secure. There instinctual place in the hierarchy is still in tact. Its not about you not being able to do it because we both know you can, its about him feeling you need him. Men need to be needed to just as much as women. Strong driven women tend to threaten those feelings in them in a relationship. It threatens there place. We communicate in our relationships in so many ways. Verbally, pheromonally, with body language and with our actions. Having them do those little things for us may sound silly and unimportant but it communicates a message to them on a subconsious level. Women tend to think all men need is that sexual spark and they are instinctually sexual beings but under all those instinctual urges to procreate there are other emotions that you need to be attentive to. One last pheromone I would suggest is EST but you cant get it here. Try liquid alchemy labs. Just goggle it. EST engages those feelings in men to “protect and care for”. Your job is to let him do it. 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![sweet\_chloe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@sweet\_chloe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweet_chloe)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2012, 7:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/10 "2012-10-20T07:36:50Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Your hoping he will open up and talk more. I suggest IH for that. It opens people up on a deeper level. > > Tisha Hello just want to ask if this IH can have same effect with woman? Because I want to get closer with my friend’s mom (not my ex’s). It seems like she doesn’t like me so I want to ask if there’s a [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) which can make my friend’s mom get close with me? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2012, 9:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/11 "2012-10-20T09:32:44Z")
> [@sweet\_chloe](#): > > Hello just want to ask if this IH can have same effect with woman? Because I want to get closer with my friend’s mom (not my ex’s). It seems like she doesn’t like me so I want to ask if there’s a pheromone which can make my friend’s mom get close with me? I would choose three different mones for that but you can try them single if you cant get all three. IH Ishine and [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/). Oh and yes IH has the same effect on women. Its got a best friend vibe with those you would never be sexually attracted to like straight same gender people or your siblings. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![sweet\_chloe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@sweet\_chloe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweet_chloe)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2012, 12:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/12 "2012-10-24T00:20:47Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > I would choose three different mones for that but you can try them single if you cant get all three. > > IH Ishine and P74. > > Oh and yes IH has the same effect on women. Its got a best friend vibe with those you would never be sexually attracted to like straight same gender people or your siblings. > > Tisha Sorry for the late response. So wearing those 3 mones you’ve just suggested will give me big hits to my friend’s mom? Like for example I’ll wear those three, how many minutes shall I wait prior putting the other mones? And can I use another perfume while wearing those pheros? ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2012, 5:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/13 "2012-10-24T05:10:32Z")
> [@sweet\_chloe](#): > > Sorry for the late response. So wearing those 3 mones you’ve just suggested will give me big hits to my friend’s mom? Like for example I’ll wear those three, how many minutes shall I wait prior putting the other mones? And can I use another perfume while wearing those pheros? Well it really depends, if you aren’t applying all three to the same spot then you don’t have to wait. For example if you spray one on the front of your neck and then with the other 2 one on each side you don’t have to wait. However if you want to apply all three on top of eachother I usually give them a good 5-10min to dry down before applying the next phero. As far as perfume you should be fine wearing it over the pheromones but i’m not 100% sure, im sure tisha will chime in if I am wrong. ---
**Author:** ![rapper482](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@rapper482](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rapper482)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2012, 6:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/14 "2012-10-24T06:38:40Z")
Hey Sweet Chloe, I hope you are doing well with your mones. I completely understand how you feel about your Ex coz when I first came here, I had similar intentions & hopes. Once I went through the posts & Journals, I realized its always going to be difficult. Mones will get you all the attraction from him, but there is a mental block coz of what happened before. Even if he is attracted, it will hold him back. I think you should make the right environment with mones & then work on your relation to take things forward. Relying solely on mones will not get the best results. Good Luck! Cheers! Roy My Journal - [Pherowizardry at work!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherowizardry-at-work/56944) ---
**Author:** ![sweet\_chloe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@sweet\_chloe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sweet_chloe)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2012, 5:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/noob-question-here/57045/15 "2012-11-11T05:00:01Z")
> [@rapper482](#): > > Hey Sweet Chloe, > > I hope you are doing well with your mones. I completely understand how you feel about your Ex coz when I first came here, I had similar intentions & hopes. Once I went through the posts & Journals, I realized its always going to be difficult. > > Mones will get you all the attraction from him, but there is a mental block coz of what happened before. Even if he is attracted, it will hold him back. I think you should make the right environment with mones & then work on your relation to take things forward. Relying solely on mones will not get the best results. > > Good Luck! > > Cheers! > > Roy > > My Journal -[https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherowizardry-at-work/56944](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherowizardry-at-work/56944) Well I haven’t bought mones yet but I will soon. I hope it will work. Thanks! =)