# Not good looking: Instant Shine, Ammo and inner game over looks

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**Category:** Really Awesome Social Awareness Training\
**Created:** [April 15, 2007, 12:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/not-good-looking-instant-shine-ammo-and-inner-game-over-looks/23637 "2007-04-15T12:30:02Z")\
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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [April 16, 2007, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/not-good-looking-instant-shine-ammo-and-inner-game-over-looks/23637/22 "2007-04-16T00:57:40Z")

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> [@Can pheromones make up for not being good looking?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-make-up-for-not-being-good-looking/3141/21):
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> Women (people in general) are drawn to people people who can excite them emotionally, physically and spiritually. One could argue that SOME women are drawn to men who treat them like dirt because for better or worse, this particular person makes them feel alive with emotion.
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> But it really is misguided to think that women (in a very general sense) love being treated like dirt. Women are drawn to men who can give them an experience that is significant to them…you can give a woman a feeling of significance without treating her like dirt.

I agree with you completely. I know of no women like that to be treated like dirt. There is a difference in following ones emotions and going for the bad boy attitude, but by no means does this mean treat them badly.

I could be completely wrong though as I have never treated a woman like dirt before. I guess I’ll never know if you are right.

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