# Not good looking: Instant Shine, Ammo and inner game over looks **URL:** \ **Category:** Really Awesome Social Awareness Training\ **Created:** [April 15, 2007, 12:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/not-good-looking-instant-shine-ammo-and-inner-game-over-looks/23637 "2007-04-15T12:30:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 81
**Author:** ![fullmoonnow](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fullmoonnow/32/1821_2.png) [@fullmoonnow](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fullmoonnow)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2007, 9:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/not-good-looking-instant-shine-ammo-and-inner-game-over-looks/23637/81 "2007-04-22T09:21:34Z")
> [@Can pheromones make up for not being good looking?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/can-pheromones-make-up-for-not-being-good-looking/3141/74): > > I hate to say this Ms Moon, but that just ain’t so. Fidelity is mainly a question of character and values, not appearance. Guys that look like toads are just as untrue as their cute counterparts. I know plenty. I’m afraid the same can be said of women. I can’t begin to list all the unattractive housewives that have come onto me these past few years. Most were military wives whose husbands were deployed overseas. Looks have nothing to do with infidelity. I agree with you when you say that less attractive people are just as likely as attractive people to stray. When I said boring and unsexy, I meant people who don’t have that wolfish grin / alpha walk signalling high sex drive. I reckon anyone can pull off sexy as long as they have the right vibe. 😃 Just look at some of those celebrity models out there! Click [here](http://www.starsmix.com/wallpapers/picture/Devon_Aoki_321.jpg) and [here](http://static.flickr.com/47/152016795_6c7acbe9f0_o.jpg) and [here](http://www.cagefactor.com/photos/bday/adrien-brody-bday.jpg). Yeah, I think A.Brody is pretty damn average. Anyway, the point of the post is that I’ve been programmed to think that desirable = stable = boring starch-ironed oxford shirts and glasses. Which is probably why I found [this](http://www.kottke.org/plus/misc/images/new-glasses.jpg) guy hotter than this [one](http://www.davidinnes.co.uk/exotic_models.jpg). Perhaps its because of my ultra-conservative Asian upbringing. Oh yeah, and before I get slammed for digging white guys, I couldn’t find any pictures of conservative looking Asian dudes on the web… what’s with all the chiggers? Sigh. Edit: Erm, I would probably date [this](http://digital-lifestyles.info/copy_images/man-motorola-dynatec-8000x.jpg) guy if he was a sweetie and smelt nice. OKAYYYYYYY enough edits for one post. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/not-good-looking-instant-shine-ammo-and-inner-game-over-looks/23637)._