Hi there, imaboredaussie! I´m also a newbie (onlu into mones for about 8 weeks) but i will try to give you some advice.
Now that you are a believer, you should give AD products a try. I see you free stuff, so make sure you read this thread and do something about it.https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
I´m by no means any expert, but will try to offer you someadvice.You can start by reading this, that will help you clarify what to expect and what not to expect from mones .
What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers
Right after, i suggest you to read this, and actually do it!
If you want to learn about different products, i would follow with: An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration
The Snook's big book o' pheros for rookies
Hope this helps. Talk to you soon.