# Observations (First Day New User) **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 18, 2009, 2:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/observations-first-day-new-user/29967 "2009-06-18T02:08:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![humblemr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/439d5e/32.png) [@humblemr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/humblemr)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2009, 2:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/observations-first-day-new-user/29967/1 "2009-06-18T02:08:20Z")
The following information will be presented as objectively as such details can be related, in order that the account can shine a honest light on the effects (or lack of effects) of pheromones. On Sunday, after returning home from a college graduation, I purchased a To Go 2x strength spray bottle of Instant Openness and yesterday it arrived along with a completely free To Go 1x strength spray bottle of Instant Shine. Thank you to the company, as they have been extremely friendly to this new customer. Now, I do not have any notions that pheromones will have a large impact on my life and therefore have been carrying out observations on my own behavior in order to determine what can be ascribed to me (or the pheros). Yet I also understand that I need to play a part in using the power of the pheromones, so I will be noting my own behavioral changes. During my lunch break, I stopped by the house and picked up the order. I sprayed two sprays of Instant Shine onto my body: one on the front part of my hair and another on both wrists. My wife noticed the scent quickly. She did not have an apparent reaction, as we were already both in cheerful moods. I made sure to get close to her while in the car (a confined location), and placed my wrist near her face while I kissed her as she left the car for work. She was smiling, beaming, but this was likely due to the sweetness of the moment. I then took a minute to spray myself with the Instant Openness on the back of my neck. I arrived at the office (my place of employment) ten minutes later, and sat back at my desk. My work area has to be at least five feet from my nearest co-worker so I made sure to pass by a number of times while performing various duties. Ms. F (my nearest co-worker) and I chatted for a few moments, more so than usual but I believe this was because I was being friendlier than usual. I walked by one of the younger girls in the office a moment or two later, and we chatted, but this again was because I pursued the conversation. All of these conversations could have occurred on a non-pheromone day. Therefore, I have concluded that I obtained zero confirmed reactions at work. The next place I went was the gym. I had headphones on the entire time and therefore no one was likely to approach. Noticed no abnormal happenings and this continued pretty much as I went through the rest of my time, which I spent by myself. Now I was under the impression that the wife and I were going to go out for the night with a few of her co-workers so I did the whole “getting fixed up” thing. However, we ended up staying home so I never tested the products with people I did not know. Strangely, my sister-in-law, whom we live with, ended up hanging around our room and talking with my wife in the night. She and my wife were having a talk about the future, and talked for a while. Perhaps this could be the effect of Instant Openness? There is no conclusive way to deter this to be true. I am going to try again tomorrow at work, and see if I can get some results. I have ordered [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) and will attempt that with the wife. Not alot of human interaction so I cannot deter anything about the pheros. I will post new results tomorrow. ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2009, 4:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/observations-first-day-new-user/29967/2 "2009-06-18T04:23:27Z")
Hi humblemr, you seemed too eager to see the result just like me when I first get the products. Actually you should try to find your sweet spot of each product to make it most effective for you. Read on the post listed in my signature for the know-how of this. Remember everyone’s chemistry is different, so the amount of sprays which works for one might not work for others. ---
**Author:** ![Experimator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/experimator/32/1015_2.png) [@Experimator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Experimator)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2009, 5:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/observations-first-day-new-user/29967/3 "2009-06-18T17:28:25Z")
Sometimes the effects are so smooth that one doesn’t even notice it. Once I had sprayed [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and sat with my wife and her friend chatting about casual stuff. Then I lied down on the nearby easychair and closed my eyes but was listening to what they were talking. They kept talking for 2 hours about useless stuff like where they keep the dishwashing liquid (on the left or on the right of the dishwasher). It was hilarious to listen to them just go on and on. Then finally when I had had my fun I softly said, “its 2 am now”. they immediatly got up and went to bed to sleep. theory - they continued to talk until someone stopped their chain of thought. if i had not stopped them they would have talked and talked more. I have seen these kind of instances often with _IO._ Perhaps the reason you did not notice the effect is beacause you were very cautious and deliberate about expecting something. I know its difficult but next time try to just put on the pheros and dont expect anything. Spend your day and analyse it while going to bed. I am sure you’ll notice something out of ordinary. If you really want to prove to yourself then try spraying 4-6 sprys of instant openness on your wrists and neck and then talk to your friends. They’ll hopefully talk to you until your ears start to hurt.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Astrocyte](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e47774/32.png) [@Astrocyte](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrocyte)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2009, 1:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/observations-first-day-new-user/29967/4 "2009-06-19T01:37:20Z")
Today was my first day using also. I used 1 spray of IS to my neck, and left for work. To tell the truth I forgot the that I had anything on (I get very busy at work). Then certain things started to happen during the day. One of my co-workers who is really shy actually started a conversation with me (which is incredibly rare). We had a birthday party at work, and I ended up being in the focus of the attention. What are normally quiet parties turned into 30 minutes of joking and good times. To top it all off one of my managers that I was working with all day sent an e-mail out that was praising me for my work. She even CC’d my current boss, and his boss. Overall it was a great day, how much of this was actual attributable to the IS? I need more samples before I can draw a final conclusion, but I am very optimistic right now in the potential. I don’t expect more blockbuster days like this, but I will keep an eye out for hits.