# Ohaiyo Gonzaimasu! from NYC **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 15, 2008, 7:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ohaiyo-gonzaimasu-from-nyc/23978 "2008-12-15T19:16:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![BettiePage](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bettiepage/32/1849_2.png) [@BettiePage](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BettiePage)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2008, 7:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ohaiyo-gonzaimasu-from-nyc/23978/1 "2008-12-15T19:16:39Z")
That’s Japanese for good morning, which is when I started reading all the cool forum threads. That was hours ago, and the more I read, the more I wanted to know! What a fascinating place. Just got off the phone with Steve-o who was a great help to me. I am so excited to try [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A and MX274. My story: Dating several guys can be fun, but what am I to do when nothing is moving forward? We will see where these magical elixirs (not even joking) take me. 😉 Hopefully towards romance of the lasting kind! ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2008, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ohaiyo-gonzaimasu-from-nyc/23978/2 "2008-12-15T19:22:51Z")
Hi Bettie, welcome to the forum! Can you give us some additional info so we can make great suggestions and you can earn your $25 GC? What is your personality like? Are you shy or outgoing? Is your only goal for dating? What about work or school maybe? Any inf owill help us here… We look forward to making suggestions for you. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![BettiePage](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bettiepage/32/1849_2.png) [@BettiePage](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BettiePage)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2008, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ohaiyo-gonzaimasu-from-nyc/23978/3 "2008-12-15T19:40:29Z")
Hey Robbie, and everybody else. I’m a classic introvert in some ways. I am outgoing and vivacious with close friends and at small gatherings, but I morph into a mouse at bigger parties. Spending too much time with people can drain me, and then I need to go home and recharge my batteries by listening to music or painting. I have trouble speaking up in school/at work unless I feel I am doing a 100% perfect job. During my formative years there was some trauma which made me absolutely terrified of men. I have always had amazing friendships but not so lucky in love. However, therapy helped with putting the past behind me. In some ways I am years ahead of my peers, but definitely a late bloomer when it comes to love (since I only started talking to boys at age 20). I have a lot to offer, but I need the confidence to pull it off. Also, I’m an artist and I know that networking + charm + friendliness can help me get my foot in the art world. You have to sell yourself to get your work known, and in terms of that, I feel that a little confidence would go a long way. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2008, 7:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ohaiyo-gonzaimasu-from-nyc/23978/4 "2008-12-15T19:58:33Z")
> [@BettiePage](#): > > Hey Robbie, and everybody else. > > I’m a classic introvert in some ways. I am outgoing and vivacious with close friends and at small gatherings, but I morph into a mouse at bigger parties. Spending too much time with people can drain me, and then I need to go home and recharge my batteries by listening to music or painting. I have trouble speaking up in school/at work unless I feel I am doing a 100% perfect job. > > During my formative years there was some trauma which made me absolutely terrified of men. I have always had amazing friendships but not so lucky in love. However, therapy helped with putting the past behind me. > > In some ways I am years ahead of my peers, but definitely a late bloomer when it comes to love (since I only started talking to boys at age 20). I have a lot to offer, but I need the confidence to pull it off. > > Also, I’m an artist and I know that networking + charm + friendliness can help me get my foot in the art world. You have to sell yourself to get your work known, and in terms of that, I feel that a little confidence would go a long way. Hi Bettie, I can identify with what you’re feeling in many ways. Don’t worry about being a late bloomer, it sounds to me like you’ve got your head on straight and I’m sure you’ll work everything out. Clearly, you can use Instant Shine, it enhances your confidence levels. Also, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) would serve you well when networking, it will encourage people to have deeper conversations with you. Instant Openess is great for getting lighter chats going, if you find yourself out and about in a social situation. Finally, there’s Instant Sexiness, which comes in versions A and B, version A is an angelina Jolie Jolie vibe, while version B is more Marilyn Monroe. Thanks for the ‘best answer’ award (woohoo!), there will be other people by to offer suggestions too. 🙂 We’ve got a great group here. Enjoy yourself! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2008, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ohaiyo-gonzaimasu-from-nyc/23978/5 "2008-12-15T20:59:33Z")
Hello Bettie and welcome back … lol. Well you have already talked to Steve so there is not much for us to add - at least until Tisha gets here. And then maybe she will have something to add. I take it Steve talked to you about IShine, CTTM2 and IO. Robbie already discussed Ishine with you and I am sure Steve talked about the relative merits of CTTM2 and IO with those inital conversations in large crowds. Anyways - welcome again. ---
**Author:** ![beeks](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/beeks/32/2444_2.png) [@beeks](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/beeks)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2008, 10:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ohaiyo-gonzaimasu-from-nyc/23978/6 "2008-12-15T22:27:00Z")
Hi Bettie! I am a NY girl too. You will have fun here, no doubt. Start with one product at a time and make a note of how each makes you feel and the effects you notice around you. Then you can build from there, mixing and matching. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 16, 2008, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ohaiyo-gonzaimasu-from-nyc/23978/7 "2008-12-16T01:16:33Z")
Hi There Betty, Welcome to Pherotalk. I see you called the hotline and talked with Steve. He’s got a sexy voice dosnt he ? 😃 Anyways Isexiness and MX274 are great. I do suggest either IO or IH to increase interaction with others. Ishine is great but MX274 is like Ishine with a sexy worship me kick. I wore it today, good stuff. It dosnt matter if you bloom late, at least your blooming thats all that counts, 😉 If you need help of have questions just let me know. I look forward to chatting with you in the forum **Your GC is on its way** Tisha