# ok wtf does this mean **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [December 16, 2006, 6:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171 "2006-12-16T06:09:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2006, 4:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171/21 "2006-12-21T04:04:48Z")
> [@BlazingAzn88](#): > > Huh? Please, explain. I kinda want to hear this. I dont mean to intrude or anything. You dont have to respond. Just curious on what happened to be deemed “heroic” or “excellent.” I can’t remember what Dex does that’s excellent - he’s a kindergarten teacher so I think it might be something to do with a little kid. It wouldn’t have to be anything huge like rescuing them from a fire … just something that takes balls, or something you’re really really good at, or that involves exercising great wisdom and maturity she didn’t know you had … do it in front of her, not to impress but just because that’s who you are and the kind of thing you do all the time … does that make sense? do it, and then withdraw. Tantalizing. She’s left thinking about you and what an amazing guy you are. (You do, of course, have to follow up _later_, after she’s had time to ponder how cool you are and how different from all the others …) Rent the movie! (or find the script online - just google the name of the movie in quotes, then SCRIPT or SCREENPLAY … you can find most any movie script that way). okay, here’s one version: [The Tao Of Steve Script - transcript from the screenplay and/or Donal Logue movie](http://www.script-o-rama.com/movie_scripts/t/tao-of-steve-script-transcript.html) ---
**Author:** ![Richelieu](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/richelieu/32/594_2.png) [@Richelieu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Richelieu)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2006, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171/22 "2006-12-21T20:28:29Z")
> [@examine](#): > > oh and another weird thing. she loves alpha males. she admitted she watches WWE to get off. yet, she’s had bad luck with ‘big’ men. im assuming its because they are too ‘aggressive’ > > im not big, so i assumed she wouldnt like me. perhaps the -none is helping out a little. =P My kinda girl! I love WWE! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2006, 5:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171/23 "2006-12-26T17:48:34Z")
> [@examine](#): > > so i went on a date with a portugese girl last week. we made out, then i text her “ **what are we, and what are we doing, or becoming** ” not exactly those words but to that extent. and she replies. > > Well i definitly want your friendship, but if something else comes out of it …then it happens, but its not something im trying to make happen! > > WTF??? thats the most confusing line ive ever heard. > > can anybody decipher this for me? 😃 😃 😃 Ha! Ha! Chuckle! Chuckle! Giggle! Giggle! 😃 😃 😃 Serves you right,E! 🆒 Never! Ever! Never! Ask those questions! 1. Sounds needy 2. You’re in a hurry 3. Wusssssssssssssssssssssssssssss You don’t want either of those resting on her thoughts. Thank God you’re good with your pheromones mixes! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Gem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Gem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gem)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2006, 9:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171/24 "2006-12-26T21:07:25Z")
Ok, that was perhaps not the most dipolomatic answer but nevertheless it is very perceptive. From what I have read I expect that girl has some issues that prevent her from giving herself fully to a relationship, they may be to do with you, but more likely they are to do with her. This is not unusual. You have to put yourself in her shoes, let us imagine, for instance, she has had her heart broken in a past relationship - and although she likes you she is very wary of entering into a new relationship with you becuase she doesn’t want to get hurt again. So she wants to take it slow and be careful - then after the 2nd date you send her a text trying to force her to qualify your relationship. - that is going to scare her. Fortunately it looks like she took it ok and didn’t freak out. The text she sent you is completely honest. She sounds cool - I like her. But you need to take it slowly, not push things, not be overbearing, relax a bit more, demonstrate that she can trust you rather than tell her. As for pheromones - I would suggest that you stay away from anything sexual - Instnat Jerk is about the last thing you want to wear around a girl who has trust issues with men. A314 is a good choice becuase it inspores trust and demonstrates stability (I suspect highly valued by this girl). and how about instant shine? you want to make her feel good whenever she is around you. Good luck with her, ---
**Author:** ![bronzie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e274bd/32.png) [@bronzie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bronzie)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2006, 10:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171/25 "2006-12-26T22:27:31Z")
hahahahahaha im enjoying reading this pseudo psychological profile based on the very little information at hand ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2006, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171/26 "2006-12-27T02:11:57Z")
> [@bronzie](#): > > hahahahahaha im enjoying reading this pseudo psychological profile based on the very little information at hand It’s like mone usage, Bronzie. 🆒 Keep guessing until you come up with something, or find the answer you’re looking for! 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Visionary7903](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/45deac/32.png) [@Visionary7903](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Visionary7903)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2006, 3:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171/27 "2006-12-27T03:41:20Z")
Examine, can you give us more info on the woman. Is she attractive and/or very desirable in other ways? What race and age? Also have you had much experience with relationships? I would say you could try less (or no) -None early in the interaction one night, and wear something with Beta-Nol like CTTM-M2 along with a bit of A314 and TAA(Shine). Get her talking private stuff and find out more about her past relationship history, etc. Maybe she is just used to the casual thing and doesn’t really do proper relationships. Maybe she just wants a ‘friends with benefits’ thing with you. Maybe she has been hurt recently. Maybe she is very inexperienced. She may even tell you directly where you stand with her and why. In any case don’t be needy at all. Anyway when you avoid -None and wear something with Beta-Nol it gives you more of a ‘friend-vibe’ and gets them comfortable with you. She will tell you everything you need to know. See how she responds without the -None. Then later in the night, you could add -None if it looks like she isn’t so keen on your new phero signature or if you want to ‘turn up the heat’. Or maybe she is just waiting for you to take things further than the make out… nothing needs to be said about whether you are ‘together or not’ just make a physical move then… you’ll find less resistance in this regard if you avoid -None and even more than 1 drop of A314. You could even try P79 instead to ‘ignite the passions’. Also if you want a relationship I get the feeling that mones like A314 and A1 are especially useful. Unfortunately I hate the way A1 makes me feel around women (kind of unconfident and needy). A314 has not worked well for me in real life in this regard (though I have seen good signs from ‘higher quality’ women). Visionary ---
**Author:** ![examine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/examine/32/1665_2.png) [@examine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/examine)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2006, 8:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171/28 "2006-12-28T08:18:24Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > 😃 😃 😃 Ha! Ha! Chuckle! Chuckle! Giggle! Giggle! 😃 😃 😃 > > Serves you right,E! 🆒 Never! Ever! Never! Ask those questions! > > 1. Sounds needy > 2. You’re in a hurry > 3. Wusssssssssssssssssssssssssssss > > You don’t want either of those resting on her thoughts. Thank God you’re good with your pheromones mixes! 😉 I was over her house yesterday, in her room/bed, watching a movie. We got pretty close… but nothing. _shrugs_ she’s sizing me up, that i can tell for sure. She always says things like “I cant read you” etc. She is in her mid 20’s, attractive but humble, HUGE ass that looks like Vida Guerras lol–she is of west european decent, (portugese) ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2006, 9:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171/29 "2006-12-28T09:07:17Z")
> [@examine](#): > > I was over her house yesterday, in her room/bed, watching a movie. We got pretty close… > > but nothing. _shrugs_ > > she’s sizing me up, that i can tell for sure. She always says things like “I cant read you” etc. > > She is in her mid 20’s, attractive but humble, HUGE ass that looks like Vida Guerras lol–she is of west european decent, (portugese) Hmmm..Visionary asked more info about the girl and you described on her ass!😃 Anyway, it looks it’s going on fine…so, best of luck to you!🙂 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ok-wtf-does-this-mean/1171.md?page=1)