# Old post, remix (pm) **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 3, 2010, 8:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/old-post-remix-pm/42297 "2010-10-03T20:27:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![samuraitea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/samuraitea/32/1998_2.png) [@samuraitea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samuraitea)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 8:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/old-post-remix-pm/42297/1 "2010-10-03T20:27:05Z")
I really do appreciate your reply to my post a few days ago. My original post was very arrogant of me and as I stated Before, I am truly embarrassed of my post. I am in a little rough patch of my life and I took it out on bad thoughts lol if you get that. I am trying to up my game, and what you said in your first post actually really inspired me, that I DON’T have to settle, and that I do deserve what I want (in life and a woman). And I guess because of my nasty break up I just wanted to take whatever I can get since I was so use to that mentality before rolling with the punches, now that I am free again I get a fresh chance to have a clean slate and re-write what I want and who I am. After having a life changing trip to Japan this summer, I really had my life on track again, then as the summer came to an end, so did that magic spark that I had. Now I am trying to put myself back out there again. Since I am not 21 I don’t go out to bars or clubs often or at all… and being at a community college to gain my associates to transfer to a 4yr school for a bachelors, the local scene isn’t wild with social events either. I just applied and have an interview with my current boss for a marketing position for his restaurant that he just opened up this coming week (just ordered Alpha A314. Now this kind of position is a much higher position than a student with no degree should have, so I am hoping A314 gives me a more mature aura. I also wish for this more alpha or masculine figure to carry over to my female social life. Since I do consider myself to be an attractive and in very well shape, but I unfortunately hold a tiny molecule of my old fat self and the scared self from my ex, but I do my very best to hide these “ugly” piece of me as much as possible. I am incredibly respectful to women as well, I very rarely make the first move on them unless I know for 100% sure that they want me to. So that is why I picked up ammo/[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). And I have IS for just an overall positive bubble around me hehe . I am trying to make myself I guess become more approachable, but also more prone for not only others but myself to open up and take interest in me. This is my current chapter in my life right now. If you have any suggestions that would be cool! If you think I should re post this on the board I can do that too, I just felt that you have given incredibly sincere answers to people and you are a highly respected member in our community. Thank you for your time and advice ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 9:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/old-post-remix-pm/42297/2 "2010-10-03T21:48:30Z")
😕Confused about this! Is this supposed to be a Private Message? If so you do realize this is on the of the forum for all to read and respond? ---
**Author:** ![samuraitea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/samuraitea/32/1998_2.png) [@samuraitea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samuraitea)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/old-post-remix-pm/42297/3 "2010-10-03T22:25:04Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > 😕Confused about this! > > Is this supposed to be a Private Message? If so you do realize this is on the of the forum for all to read and respond? Haha yes this was sent to one of our fellow members and was advised to post it for all to read and respond! 🙂 Thank you Steve!