# OMG - I'm too new to understand

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**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [April 6, 2007, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/omg-im-too-new-to-understand/2949 "2007-04-06T14:38:28Z")\
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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [April 9, 2007, 9:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/omg-im-too-new-to-understand/2949/11 "2007-04-09T09:19:23Z")

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Rhylee

I dont consider it sneaky. My husband knows I buy alot of perfume and lotions and things online but he dosnt know what a copulan or mone is and I am not about to tell him. He know the scents are supposed to do certain things because I am sure he has heard me and my girlfriends clamoring away about it.

I agree spicing up your marriage can by hard when you are tired and short on time. My girlfriends and I talk about this alot when we have ladies night. Mones are just one of the things I have started using and they have been great so far. I am still learning about them and how they can help but there not the only thing you should do.

Some of the things I have done over the past year with some results are..

Got my hair done different  
Went to Victoria secrets and got some goodies  
Lost 15 pounds.  
Touch more. What I mean is kiss or hug him for no reason, grab his butt when he walks by. Brush up against him alot. Hold his hand in the car when you are going somewhere.  
Go to the toy store (not toys-r-us 😮 )  
Pamper him ( I know this is hard cause your tired to) Give him a massage with a nice oil you got at the toy store.  
Make his favorite dinner and set the table pretty and eat there once in a while. Alot of people eat on the go or in front of the TV.

I used to be tired when I came home as well (still am sometimes) and I dont know if you do this but I know alot of people do. I did  
Dont change into your jammys when you get home and know your not going out anymore that night. Put something on Jeans and a low cut shirt or whatever as long as its cloths and if its real late when you get home and you really want to change into PJ’s make sure there not sweats but something pretty or sexy. Sweats and a giant t-shirt say I am tired, Silk and lace say I’m hot.

As far as enhancers go. Do you take vitimins? You both should. If you have been I have added zinc and B-complex. This is what the guys at work said to add. They also suggested something called Horny Goat weed and I thought they were teasing me but its real. I havn’t bought it but some of the guys at work swear by at. Check the mens forum I recall them talking about vitimins and enhancers.

If all else fails talk to him and just tell him how you feel. Well you should do this anyway. Just say I am spicing up this marriage so get with the program 😃

I am still working on it to, so your not alone. Girls and Guys if you have anymore suggestions please add them.

Tisha

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