# Once you've hooked her. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 22, 2011, 4:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452 "2011-11-22T16:38:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Septerra](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/septerra/32/196_2.png) [@Septerra](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Septerra)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 4:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/1 "2011-11-22T16:38:26Z")
Hey all, its been a while since I’ve been on here…and I do feel somewhat detached from the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) world after my hiatus. Long story short, I have been randomly using mones, but I felt that I didn’t really need them anymore once I got with a girl…(with exception of A314 for certain purposes)…and that is what this post is about; how to proceed once you’ve locked her in. I found a girl that I am so enamored with that I feel guilty even using mones around her…I don’t know why…but I do. I also am considering letting her know about them since I will still be using them in the future…mostly for business purposes and networking events. Now…granted I didn’t NEED to use mones in order to get my girl, they most certainly helped the chances…and now that I don’t want to use them around her as much…will this create a negative effect or in some way alter her view of me? Here is what I have used while being around her in the past: Max I’ve used is 2 sprays IO (1x), 2 sprays IH (1x), 2 sprays IS (2x), 2 sprays A314 1.23b…then a later application of 2 sprays IH (1x), 2 sprays IS (2x), and 3 sprays TuTH. The later application was about 6 hours after the first (when we had made it back to my house). I have made an attempt to lessen how much I wear but still wear some in order to “scale down” if that’s the correct terminology…however I am still considering if I should eliminate using them around her in total or just let her be aware of them…and deal with the possibly awkward “so you drugged me to make me like you” mentality. Any thoughts would greatly be appreciated! Oh, and I will be on here more often again…my life has taken a drastic turn since I’ve last posted…and I am quite excited to tell you all about it and get back to reporting on my mones usage! Just ordered $250 worth and I am excited to say I back in action baby 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![WalrusGumBoot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/walrusgumboot/32/1300_2.png) [@WalrusGumBoot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WalrusGumBoot)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 4:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/2 "2011-11-22T16:58:37Z")
> [@Septerra](#): > > however I am still considering if I should eliminate using them around her in total or just let her be aware of them…and deal with the possibly awkward “so you drugged me to make me like you” mentality. Under no circumstance should you tell her about them! My thought is that what you fear she would say would become reality. There is a member here that is married and had posted that his wife found his stash and is talking the D word. I think mones are a great training tool for our own self-improvement. However, I would hate for them to be a perpetual crutch for the rest of my life because I am too lazy to do some positive work on myself. They can be used as tools for a better life altogether. Now with your new girl, since she’s hooked, I would use them more strategically. Do you have a special night planned, or maybe a romantic getaway? That would be a good time for [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), TUTH, and other mones that incite sexual activity. Maybe one day you need to have a serious talk with her about something, and the thought makes you a little nervous. That is where A314, IH, IO would be appropriate. It gives you confidence to take the lead in the conversation and encourages her to open up. Just some thoughts… ---
**Author:** ![dub-st3p](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dub-st3p/32/1502_2.png) [@dub-st3p](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dub-st3p)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 5:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/3 "2011-11-22T17:31:52Z")
I would go for some slow or fast way, Fast way is - Definitely tell her about the mones, then you will see how she reacts, and still wants to be with you.. Slower way - start using less mones and products, like slowly, when you reach the point where you have none usage at all, you will the difference ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 6:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/4 "2011-11-22T18:03:34Z")
I would have to say you gotta find out where your relationship is at this point. Remember that individual relationships are unique. The current girl I’m dating, I wouldn’t be afraid to tell her that I was using the mones. Our personalities matched and I can only gather that it just helps us in what we’re feeling. She’s also an open minded person and I doubt she would really care or feel duped. ---
**Author:** ![Septerra](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/septerra/32/196_2.png) [@Septerra](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Septerra)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 6:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/5 "2011-11-22T18:21:10Z")
Thanks for the suggestions guys, this will be one of those drawn out thinking about it for a while things… [http://rrtha.org.uk/dt/images/Hitchhikers\_Guide.jpg](http://rrtha.org.uk/dt/images/Hitchhikers_Guide.jpg) And the answer might surely end up being 42. (sorry for those who don’t know hitchhiker’s guide to the galaxy haha) ---
**Author:** ![andromun](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/andromun/32/365_2.png) [@andromun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andromun)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/6 "2011-11-23T02:35:58Z")
Why say anything? Would you tell her how many girls you slept with? Big deal…all you did was grab her attention with pheros…YOU did the rest. It was your personality that eventually solidified the attraction. Keep up the good work 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 4:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/7 "2011-11-23T04:35:07Z")
I’d vote for telling her, and perhaps breaking into the conversation by giving her some [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)! ---
**Author:** ![Septerra](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/septerra/32/196_2.png) [@Septerra](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Septerra)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 6:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/8 "2011-11-23T06:09:19Z")
I didn’t think about offering her some…that would be a great way to bring her around. Thanks for that thought Xev! Although I do not think it may be necessary to tell her about all I’ve worn 😉 It may prove to be a little overbearing until she does research for herself. I know when I first started on this site I was a bit overwhelmed with the amount of mixes and such that seemed more difficult than brain surgery. Dissecting emotion…hmmm ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 10:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/9 "2011-11-23T10:50:19Z")
First you need to work on your feeling of guilt. You didnt make her do anything and neither did the mones. Mones just trigger feelings. If she had no feelings for you they would not have worked on her anyways. So suppose you threw in some teasing innuendos into conversation to get your GF in the mood ? Trigger words work in the subconscious mind. Would you feel guilt ? How about this… your working out and really getting lean and buff and it turns your GF on both visually and pheromonally. Do you feel guilty ? When she is feeling down you comfort encourage and make her smile using just your body language and kinesiology another form of communication that works in the subconscious. Do you feel guilt ? Suppose you know her favorite color and wear it often because you know it makes her feel good on a subconscious level. Colors can evoke emotions as well you know. Do you feel guilty ? Your mones are doing the same thing, they are speaking to her emotions just in another language. If your using mones that speak to her negative emotions and make her feel crappy then feel guilt. As long as you have feelings for this person and your concerned with her thoughts and feelings then there is no reason to feel guilty. Mones didnt create the attraction they just enhanced it. As far as telling her about them, I would say no dont do it. I dont discuss my underwear with my hubby even though I buy particular kinds I know will evoke a response out of him. I know if he is watching the game on TV and I strut into the LR and stare at his crotch and play with my hair it will evoke a response from him on a subconscious level. I dont tell him I know. I know if I dip my fingers in the honey I put in my tea in the morning when we are sitting reading the paper and suck it off my fingers within minutes he is turned on. I dont tell him thats why I do it. All these things are signals of communication to the subconscious designed to provoke a response and hell no I dont feel one bit of guilt. This is part of how we communicate as humans. We use all our senses. I have been married for over 20 years and a common misconception people have about relationships is you have to tell and share everything with your partner. If you want your relationship to get stale and boring go for it but to keep a relationship fresh you need to retain some mystery and excitement. Sure my husband knows I use mones. He cant miss them I have over 500 bottles LOL However he knows that while they may evoke certain emotions they dont change his core feelings for me that stem from other areas of attraction. Our values, common interests, beliefs, trust etc etc. these are the foundation. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) are just something you decorate the foundation with like underwear. Build that foundation more before you discuss mones with her. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 11:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/10 "2011-11-23T11:57:04Z")
Mones are just supplements towards your life, they are, as Tisha mentioned, in no way a trigger to force someone to love you. It also depends on how you deal with the situation, if you make it seem as if it is a big deal, it WILL be a big deal. Should it not be a big deal it will NOT be a big deal. That’s how things work. Even if she finds your stash and asks what it is, just simply say its an experimental project that you are just helping a friend or community with. Acting guilty will just raise her questions. ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 2:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/11 "2011-11-23T14:07:18Z")
It is difficult for me to imagine a normal person freaking out over [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). Then again, there are alot of strange people in the world and I like to keep my rose-colored glasses on. Still, I would bet that the freaked out wife threatening divorce had a few pre-existing problems before the phero products came along. I also recall some freaked out family members of a user who were all extremely religious and superstitous. Or I can see general jealousy occurring if she discovered, for example, that you don’t wear them around her, but douse yourself heavily when you are supposedly going out with the boys. A more believable reaction would be just total skepticism. ---
**Author:** ![WalrusGumBoot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/walrusgumboot/32/1300_2.png) [@WalrusGumBoot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WalrusGumBoot)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/12 "2011-11-23T14:40:03Z")
> [@xev](#): > > It is difficult for me to imagine a normal person freaking out over pheromone products. Then again, there are alot of strange people in the world and I like to keep my rose-colored glasses on. Still, I would bet that the freaked out wife threatening divorce had a few pre-existing problems before the phero products came along. It is really hit or miss as far as how a person will react. I think the jealousy factor is the biggest “So, you are going out to try to attract other women?” The positive spin would be that the mones would enhance passion between lovers. During stressful times in my marriage, I would occasionally experience male issues in bed, and would use supplements. My ex would get livid, saying that she should be enough to get me going. It didn’t matter if it enhanced sex and helped me improve my confidence, it became a personal insult to her that I did not find her desirable enough, even though I did. I know if I tried using mones around her, she would have had a conniption. I just quit telling her and never should have from the start. Sometimes it’s best to keep certain things to yourself. ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 3:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/13 "2011-11-23T15:58:28Z")
My gal LOVES the NPA I lavish on myself before a visit. I made some special copulins+ mixes for her to use and she accepts and welcomes them as useful supplements to our lovemaking. Previous lady friends were also accepting of my use and the creations I made for them. Avoid [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) unless you want to butt heads though. Just get comfortable together before you acknowledge the use, don’t build them up as all-powerful (since they are not), and treat them like colognes or perfumes which are well-recognized and accepted love tools. ---
**Author:** ![Septerra](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/septerra/32/196_2.png) [@Septerra](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Septerra)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 5:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/14 "2011-11-23T17:24:56Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > I know if I dip my fingers in the honey I put in my tea in the morning when we are sitting reading the paper and suck it off my fingers within minutes he is turned on. I dont tell him thats why I do it. Tisha…this made my morning. Now I remember why I love this community so much! You are **all** helpful on multiple levels of interest with a dynamic range of input from from a wide context of experience and intuition; all with a sense of wonder for natural human emotion and perception; all contributing to the greater accumulation of a somewhat clouded, yet profound field of research, while still adding a personable aspect to it with unselfish response to any level of question posed on this forum. I know…that was a mouthful…but I think this community deserves a pat on the back, especially for invoking as many thanks as I have given on this thread as I have in such a short time. So in short, I can really relate to the suggestions that the men have posed thus far because I can associate to their mindset, however the women on this thread (who are probably better influences on this subject) have allowed me to open my mind a bit to the female psyche. Kudos to you all, because everyone provided a mindset that I did not bring to the table…and that is the very essence of learning and broadening perspective! Its a good morning…if you couldn’t tell. And not just because Tisha turned all of the men on reading her post 😃 But because As I opened this thread to make a response, the order which I had made yesterday arrived on my doorstep! Yippee…I will make sure to start on my journal again with my first report on using A314 oil. Have a great day everyone. ---
**Author:** ![CMBC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@CMBC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CMBC)\ **Post date:** [November 23, 2011, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/once-youve-hooked-her/53452/15 "2011-11-23T18:58:54Z")
I only read the original post and none of the replies: My advice, don’t tell her. She will think of it as a form of you deceiving her, and therefore think she can no longer trust you and will lose a lot of attraction.