# One Question...... **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [January 21, 2009, 3:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154 "2009-01-21T03:38:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/21 "2009-01-22T18:51:00Z")
> [@The\_Dutchess](#): > > Phatsounds, I can honestly say that never have I looked at your picture and thought of you as fat. I’ve always felt that the media portrays unhealthy and unrealistic ideas of what a “perfect” body should be. > > You mentioned that most girls would go for the skinny guy. Well add me along with msselva on the list of girls who prefer a guy with extra weight to a guy with too little. Most of the time I find myself attracted to a guy, it’s not the guy with the traditionally perfect physique. I don’t know if that helps at all, but it is me being honest. My thanks Dutchness for your honest opinion there 🙂 Well you are right about the media protraying unhealthy & unrealistic ideas of what a “perfect” body should be 🙂 but unfortunately the media & the industry here protray that a lot ☹ Yes i mentioned most girls would go for the skinny guy as it always been like that for what i think. And you surprised me there that you are like msselva & i understand what do you meant there as it has a deep meaning there 🙂 Thanks once again 🙂 > [@ariadne](#): > > Same here, Phatsounds, on all counts. I would not say you are fat at all. And I don’t care for the skeeeeny guys. 🙂 I see & thanks for your honest opinion ariadne 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 7:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/22 "2009-01-22T19:05:23Z")
> [@PhatSounds](#): > > Oh i see, well this is like kinda a weird thing because i’m trying to lose weight here while you are trying to gain weight there. Hmm, well i can understand how you feel being very fidgety even to sit down as i have seen people that suffer from it. > > Btw sewing machine leg, what do you mean by that as i don’t get it so mind explaining? Sewing machine leg… when you tap your leg up and down constantly… like if you were using a sewing machine (the old kind where the pedal went up and down with the needle) ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 7:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/23 "2009-01-22T19:33:47Z")
Hey there Phat. I would say no your not fat but remember I am American. Asian girls may have different opinions. Personally I tend to gravitate on first impression to tall slightly muscular sleek men. But that is just the first impression. What turns me on about a guy is who he is not how he looks. If your healthy and comfortable at your weight then I say embrace it. If your not then work on it. But do it for you and no one else. You wont stick with it unless its for you. Look at yourself and life as a work in progress, No one is perfect but we should always strive to improve not only our shapes but our minds. If you do that then you are perfect in who you are. If it makes you feel any better I gained 18 pounds over the holidays and have started working out to get rid of them LOL People ask me why I change my avatars so much. Its to remind me what I am shooting for cause we all change. \<\<\<\<\< Tisha’s ass is not that size currently 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/24 "2009-01-22T19:37:25Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > . > > \<\<\<\<\< Tisha’s ass is not that size currently 😉 > > Tisha [http://ts3.images.live.com/images/thumbnail.aspx?q=278706656110&id=0749265e834c8b9eb6fc9e5d77aece5c](http://ts3.images.live.com/images/thumbnail.aspx?q=278706656110&id=0749265e834c8b9eb6fc9e5d77aece5c) 😛 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/25 "2009-01-22T19:40:44Z")
> [@msselva](#): > > LOL! hahaha, yea phat, would you like to be grabbed by me? lol jk jk! I’m not going to scare you lol > > Well why not? And you did not scare me silly lol 😛 > > LOL! no prob sweetie. I don’t think that you need to stress about your weight at all. lol, yea, more meat is good, imagine sitting on his lap, and I feel his thigh bones…erk, I’d feel scared of cracking something. I remember this good looking guy in my class, but the only cons was that he was soooo skinny (even though he was fit and went to the gym) his legs were way thinner than mine and my sister’s (she’s a size 3 if it helps)…now that disturbs me! Cause then I think…omg, he looks fragile… It’s nice to have a man that is strong physically and confident (so weight doesn’t matter) > > I see, well i can’t imagine you sitting on his lap(i mean the good looking but skinny guy) & accidentally breaking his thigh bones, man that will be a scary experience as he have to go to the hospital to fix his thighs 😛 > > Fact, I had this massive, massive crush on this nurse (guy) at the hospital once, when my mom was ill at the emergency. He was the most sweetest thing ever personality-wise, I can’t describe it in words! lol, plus it helped that he was well-dressed even though he was over-weight. I’ve seen some over-weight people dress in the most tight-est and tiniest clothing in my city, and it shows lack of confidence, plus it’s not pleasant to the eye to see things popping out… but yea, the nurse was super well dressed, facially well-groomed, was incredibly sweet, so it over-took his weight issue, I didn’t think about it, until now! (he was probably overweight by 50 or 60lbs). > > Hmm, msselva having a crush on a nurse dude & he is overweight, very interesting, you really change my opinion of you there seriously 😉 And yeah overweight people wearing really damn tight clothing is unpleasant to see as you can see the things(fats) popping out 😮 > > I’ve also seen cute skinny guys, it’s not bad to be naturally skinny either. Some people just have really fast metabolism, it’s like no matter how much they eat they remain skinny for eternity. lol, it’s okay, but personality-wise he better be a keeper lol > > Yes that’s right. > > I knew it was the media…argg…them and their idealism. So ridiculous, that’s why they fu\*k up many celebrities’ lives. Lindsay lohan, mary-kate-ashley, britney spears, hell Nicole Riche. Many of them became anorexic and really not attractive when they became just skin and bones. And they even needed to go to the re-hab or whatever it’s called. Meh, I guess fame and cash always comes with a curse. > > Yes & unfortunately the media & the industry here is like that & yes i feel sorry for those celebrities as their lifes are fu\*ked up by the media & the industry but life is like that for them & they have to go through it. A lot of people say it ain’t easy to be a star. > > I don’t like most of the actors my age…many look too skinny and too pretty by the media. Yeesh, do you know Zac Efron? lol, see, I think this guy is waay tooo pretty. He’s fit, weight-wise women/girls would have a thing for him…but he’s overdone imo, sometimes he looks like a wax doll/mannequin to me. Fake in other words. > > Oh i see, well Zac Efron is a good looking dude which i guess got the “ **PLAYA** ” look & can get any girl he want but he can’t get one special girl that is you sweet msselva 😛 > > If you still want to lose weight, just make sure you do it in a healthy, safe way. > > When I used to be stupid. I used slim pills, and believe me, it’s a way of money, and you WILL gain your weight back right away, and even MORE! when you stop using them. And you can’t use them for a long time, it’s not healthy for your body, it used make me feel overly anxious. > > Slimming products like slimfast is another way to burn money. Those granola bar (meal things are good) and good exercising and healthy eatting is the best way to go. You wont see the results in a month, but then you’ll start burning that excess weight off. > > Don’t starve yourself silly! > > Oh i see, well first thing don’t call yourself stupid or used to be stupid, people used to make mistakes/errors as it is way of life. You are clever silly 😛 So slimming pills is a nono for you as you have experienced it before, i keep that in mind. > > Well i can do the healthy eating & the meal things part but the problem is like what i said to Wrlprchnx, no matter how much i exercise, i can’t lose weight & i even use slimming products with exercise with zero results. Msselva i used to exercise a lot before. > > So for now i think the healthy eating, diet, taking those meal things & taking slimming products(which i will double check this time & i’m sure there is some effective ones out there) will be my solution in losing weight. > > And not to worry, i won’t starve myself, thanks for your concern 🙂 > > LOL! Lecture is over and class is dismissed! 😛 Oh no worries, the lecture was very interesting & very insightful. Thank you Prof msselva 😃 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/26 "2009-01-22T19:44:30Z")
> [@Wrlprchnx](#): > > Sewing machine leg… when you tap your leg up and down constantly… like if you were using a sewing machine (the old kind where the pedal went up and down with the needle) Oh i see, my mum used to have one of that but it got spoiled. Well thanks for explaining 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 7:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/27 "2009-01-22T19:57:52Z")
😮 Tisha ass is not that big either 😮 Diamond I dont know whether to turn you into a salamander or spank you. I will have to ponder it 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/28 "2009-01-22T20:03:46Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hey there Phat. > > I would say no your not fat but remember I am American. Asian girls may have different opinions. Personally I tend to gravitate on first impression to tall slightly muscular sleek men. But that is just the first impression. What turns me on about a guy is who he is not how he looks. > > If your healthy and comfortable at your weight then I say embrace it. If your not then work on it. But do it for you and no one else. You wont stick with it unless its for you. > > Look at yourself and life as a work in progress, No one is perfect but we should always strive to improve not only our shapes but our minds. If your do that then you are perfect in who you are. > > If it makes you feel any better I gained 18 pounds over the holidays and have started working out to get rid of them LOL People ask me why I change my avatars so much. Its to remind me what I am shooting for cause we all change. > > \<\<\<\<\< Tisha’s ass is not that size currently > > Tisha My thanks Lady Tisha for your honest opinion 🙂 & i think in my opinion asian girls are terribly picky in their opinion on guys weight 🙄 And also thanks for your advice, i truly appreciate it 🙂 I will keep your advice as reference 🙂 Well ok so your ass is not like that but i’m sure you have a pretty looking ass Lady Tisha, that’s for sure 😉 > [@diamond](#): > > [http://ts3.images.live.com/images/thumbnail.aspx?q=278706656110&id=0749265e834c8b9eb6fc9e5d77aece5c](http://ts3.images.live.com/images/thumbnail.aspx?q=278706656110&id=0749265e834c8b9eb6fc9e5d77aece5c) Whoa diamond, what the? You give me a shock there 😮 Lady Tisha ass is not like that. I’m 100% sure of that 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/29 "2009-01-22T21:24:15Z")
> [@](#): > > Well ok so your ass is not like that but i’m sure you have a pretty looking ass Lady Tisha, that’s for sure 😉 Ahhhh Phat your so sweet, you know they say the way to a womens heart is through her … 😮 Oh wait that not right its a way to a man heart is through his stomach :o never mind. ((((((Phat )))))) Just trying to cheer you up 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/30 "2009-01-22T21:43:22Z")
> [@diamond](#): > > [http://ts3.images.live.com/images/thumbnail.aspx?q=278706656110&id=0749265e834c8b9eb6fc9e5d77aece5c](http://ts3.images.live.com/images/thumbnail.aspx?q=278706656110&id=0749265e834c8b9eb6fc9e5d77aece5c) > > 😛 sexayyyyyyyyy!!! ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2009, 12:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/31 "2009-01-24T00:39:39Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Ahhhh Phat your so sweet, you know they say the way to a womens heart is through her … 😮 Oh wait that not right its a way to a man heart is through his stomach :o never mind. > > ((((((Phat )))))) Just trying to cheer you up 😉 > > Tisha Oh i see, just kidding 😛 I know what you mean there Lady Tisha 🙂 And thanks for trying to cheer me up there 🙂 Hugs from me ((((((Lady Tisha)))))) > [@mikotorocks714](#): > > sexayyyyyyyyy!!! Are you sure mikotorocks714? You are kidding there right? ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2009, 12:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/32 "2009-01-24T00:42:46Z")
> [@PhatSounds](#): > > Oh i see, just kidding 😛 I know what you mean there Lady Tisha 🙂 And thanks for trying to cheer me up there 🙂 Hugs from me ((((((Lady Tisha)))))) > > Are you sure mikotorocks714? You are kidding there right? Ha, ha yeah I’m kidding. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2009, 1:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154/33 "2009-01-24T01:04:36Z")
> [@mikotorocks714](#): > > Ha, ha yeah I’m kidding. 😛 Oh ok then you nearly give me a shock there too like diamond 😛 Lady Tisha ass must be respected there 😉 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/one-question/25154.md?page=1)