# Oops, I mean Gold Digger. **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 22, 2008, 6:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332 "2008-02-22T06:46:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![sugarspice](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarspice/32/1772_2.png) [@sugarspice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarspice)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 6:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/1 "2008-02-22T06:46:13Z")
I think someone should come up with a perfume called Gold Digger. Ok, here’s my problem other than being a hopeful gold digger…😃 The men I don’t like buy me everything. The men I do like (hot) are cheap. How can I get a hot guy to spend money on me… I mean not just dinners… but trips… cruises… diamond rings… and tons of stuff. Problem with hot guys is that they are pushy, and they know they are hot and can get away with it. Some guys after sex spoil you, others are still cheap. I’m sick of cheap dudes. I need a phero lube to grease up the wallet flicking wrist. 😃 . Where can mama get some? Anyways, so I got a phero to turn a guy into a cuddler, a phero to make him honest, a mix of pheros to make him hotter, now the missing peice…the moola. I’m from the bay area and lots man here, though makes a lot of money, are cheap. I don’t want an “equal partner” everyone has one of those, I want a spoiler… I want to have fun with men’s money the way they have fun with multiple women’s bodies. Is that too much to ask? ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 8:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/2 "2008-02-22T08:33:58Z")
You gotta quit dating men near your age. As we mature, we automatically become more generous with the womenfolk. What SugarSpice needs is a vintage SugarDaddy. He’s buy ya a Beamer, tour ya cross Europe and cross yo’ heart with diamonds. And with Viagra, you can have your cake and eat it too! ---
**Author:** ![Ryan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryan/32/1528_2.png) [@Ryan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ryan)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 9:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/3 "2008-02-22T09:09:42Z")
2 points for your honesty 😉 I can’t help you, but if you find your ‘gold digger’ perfume - ask if they have a ‘Hue Hefner’ cologne 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 10:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/4 "2008-02-22T10:18:59Z")
> [@sugarspice](#): > > I think someone should come up with a perfume called Gold Digger. Ok, here’s my problem other than being a hopeful gold digger…? 😮 > [@sugarspice](#): > > I need a phero lube to grease up the wallet flicking wrist. 😃 . Where can mama get some? LOL - IS/A. If Angelina Jolie weren’t rich, she still wouldn’t be paying for diddly squat. > [@sugarspice](#): > > I’m from the bay area and lots man here, though makes a lot of money, are cheap. We are like that … > [@sugarspice](#): > > I don’t want an “equal partner” everyone has one of those, I want a spoiler… Like Gegogi said, you need to look for an older Sugar Daddy. Someone willing to take on that role in exchange for the favors of a young attractive woman. Of course you gotta find a generous RICH one. Finding me if I were single would not help you one bit - lol. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 11:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/5 "2008-02-22T11:26:36Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > You gotta quit dating men near your age. As we mature, we automatically become more generous with the womenfolk. _ **What SugarSpice needs is a vintage SugarDaddy.** _ He’s buy ya a Beamer, tour ya cross Europe and cross yo’ heart with diamonds. And with Viagra, _ **you can have your cake and eat it too!** _ Mmmmmmmm…\*\*_sounds_ _goood. I hope you really looove his money, sugsrspicesugar…‘cause you sure as hell…gonna hate chokin’ on his dried up 'ol cake…take small bites. 🙄 Trust me. Oh, have you met Felicity? Now there’s_ a gal who can _really_ give you some pointers!..gonna hook you two up when she gets back. > [@bosshank](#): > > _ **If Angelina Jolie weren’t rich, she still wouldn’t be paying for diddly squat** _.. …and _ **she** _ wouldn’t _ **need** _ [pheromones](https://a314.com/) to do it! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 11:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/6 "2008-02-22T11:52:23Z")
> [@Bella](#): > > ‘cause you sure as hell…gonna hate chokin’ on his dried up 'ol cake…take small bites. 🙄 Trust me. 😮 I don’t remember reading about this in certain journal. Care to elaborate any further? > [@Bella](#): > > …and _ **she** _ wouldn’t _ **need** _ pheromones to do it! 😛 Heck Bella - you never know who may be on Jasmin’s customer list. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 12:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/7 "2008-02-22T12:56:03Z")
sug, I forgot to mention, this is important…_don’t get old_…or he’ll find himself _another_ cupcake! > [@bosshank](#): > > 😮 _ **I don’t remember reading about this in certain journal. Care to elaobrate any further?** _. LOL. What I was saaaaying…was…that kind of relationship is bound to leave a bad taste…in more ways than one. Trust me. No, Mr. bossdaddy… when I was sugars age…I didn’t like old cake…and\*\*\* I\*\*\* ain’t \ ***no** bodys \*cupcake…'cept Wolfie’s, of course! 😉 > [@bosshank](#): > > _ **Heck Bella - you never know who may be on Jasmin’s customer list** _. Angelina Jolie doesn’t need to _buy_ pheromones. She\* is\* a pheromone. Androtics bottled her…or haven’t _you_ heard? 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 1:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/8 "2008-02-22T13:27:29Z")
> [@sugarspice](#): > > I think someone should come up with a perfume called Gold Digger. Ok, here’s my problem other than being a hopeful gold digger…😃 > > The men I don’t like buy me everything. The men I do like (hot) are cheap. How can I get a hot guy to spend money on me… I mean not just dinners… but trips… cruises… diamond rings… and tons of stuff. > > Problem with hot guys is that they are pushy, and they know they are hot and can get away with it. Some guys after sex spoil you, others are still cheap. I’m sick of cheap dudes. I need a phero lube to grease up the wallet flicking wrist. 😃 . Where can mama get some? > > Anyways, so I got a phero to turn a guy into a cuddler, a phero to make him honest, a mix of pheros to make him hotter, now the missing peice…the moola. I’m from the bay area and lots man here, though makes a lot of money, are cheap. I don’t want an “equal partner” everyone has one of those, I want a spoiler… I want to have fun with men’s money the way they have fun with multiple women’s bodies. Is that too much to ask? He he he … Menwhile on all the men’s forums the guys are saying to each other: “when I was nice and gave women lots of presents they treated me like a friend. Now that I’ve followed the PUA advice, stopped spending my money so freely, and stopped treating them so nicely, lots of them think I’m hot.” (imaginary quote based on lots of real ones to similar effect) ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 2:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/9 "2008-02-22T14:48:59Z")
I would be more inclined to spend money on a cute Marilyn Monroe type woman without her even asking rather than a bossy domineering Angelina Jolie type woman (I would expect Angelina Jolie to fend for herself and I might even get worried about offending her or turning her off by buying expensive gifts). So for me a woman wearing MX135/ISb/TAH with heaps of Est and Copulins would make me want to buy her gifts. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 3:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/10 "2008-02-22T15:20:03Z")
> [@nbully79](#): > > I would be more inclined to spend money on a cute Marilyn Monroe type woman without her even asking rather than a bossy domineering Angelina Jolie type woman (I would expect Angelina Jolie to fend for herself and I might even get worried about offending her or turning her off by buying expensive gifts). > > So for me a woman wearing MX135/ISb/TAH with heaps of Est and Copulins would make me want to buy her gifts. 😉 This sounds right on to me. If you don’t want to be an equal partner but instead get spoiled, then stay away from dominant female stuff like TAL, IS/A, MX134 etc, go for the soft and fluffy **pink** femmy [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) mixes. Don’t even THINK about Angelina Jolie … ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 3:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/11 "2008-02-22T15:21:56Z")
Sugarspice…the main problem with finding a “sugar daddy”, or even a younger guy who spends a lot of money on you is that, most of them, after they do that, think that they own you. Trust me. Been there, done that. It’s not pretty… ---
**Author:** ![sugarspice](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarspice/32/1772_2.png) [@sugarspice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarspice)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/12 "2008-02-22T16:50:36Z")
> [@dolly](#): > > Sugarspice…the main problem with finding a “sugar daddy”, or even a younger guy who spends a lot of money on you is that, most of them, after they do that, think that they own you. Trust me. Been there, done that. It’s not pretty… Ermmm…they can think what they want. 😃 . If he spend the money, I’m incline to “LET” him believe what makes him happy. Though if I wasn’t attracted to him I can see how running like the wind is a natural inclination. > [@Ryan](#): > > 2 points for your honesty 😉 > I can’t help you, but if you find your ‘gold digger’ perfume - ask if they have a ‘Hue Hefner’ cologne 🙂 They do, it’s call “Benjamins.” You can find some at your nearest bank. …hehe. Rub some on you sure to have real gold diggers flocking. If you can pay for her and her momma’s plastic surgery and everything in between…you can be Hugh Hefner. > [@Bella](#): > > LOL. What I was saaaaying…was…that kind of relationship is bound to leave a bad taste…in more ways than one. Man, thanks for clearing that up. I was beginning to think of all sorts of visuals. 😕 Yikes.🙄 > [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](#): > > He he he … > Menwhile on all the men’s forums the guys are saying to each other: > > “when I was nice and gave women lots of presents they treated me like a friend. Now that I’ve followed the PUA advice, stopped spending my money so freely, and stopped treating them so nicely, lots of them think I’m hot.” Men are like this…ahem… They see what they want to see. Plenty of times in a movie, we’ll see the guy acting like an ass and the girl is quite netural or irritated with him. As the film developes he changes into a nice guy and helps her finally and she starts to fall in love with him. Men see…he was an asshole and still got the girl. 🙄 . No. No. Try again. If he doesnt know how and when to spend money, he can make himself look really needy and controlling. The best way to spend money is as a gesture of romance. Like “oh I love you, let me spoil you. Let me heighten this adventure to the next level.” That kind of money spending is appreciated,and only leads to better romance and addictions. Versus, “If I spend $20-$200 maybe I can get into her pants, and then stop, because I bagged her.” No one wants none of that. > [@nbully79](#): > > So for me a woman wearing MX135/ISb/TAH with heaps of Est and Copulins would make me want to buy her gifts. 😉 So Nbully, whatcha doing for dinner? 😃 . Hahaha. Sorry, bad habit. I’m going to try this and report on it. ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 5:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/13 "2008-02-22T17:14:04Z")
> [@sugarspice](#): > > So Nbully, whatcha doing for dinner? 😃 . Hahaha. Sorry, bad habit. I’m going to try this and report on it. That depends on what you are wearing…😉 you know… pheromone wise 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/14 "2008-02-22T22:33:29Z")
> [@nbully79](#): > > I would be more inclined to spend money on a cute Marilyn Monroe type woman without her even asking rather than a bossy domineering Angelina Jolie type woman (I would expect Angelina Jolie to fend for herself and I might even get worried about offending her or turning her off by buying expensive gifts). > > _ **So for me awoman wearing MX135/ISb/TAH with heaps of Est and Copulins would make me want to buy her gifts.** _ 😉 A woman can be soft and feminine _and_ have her own money. _Trust me._ LOL BTW I’ve had _many_ opportunities …but I _like_ being able to carry my own weight. Though it sure is _niiiice_ being picked up and swung around _once in a while_…especially by a big 'ol MX135 ,TAH and cop struck man! 'Jus 'cause I like pulling my own doesn’t mean I don’t like being spoiled…and believe me _I am…very spoiled!_ nbully’s right most men just loove a soft sexy gal. Frankly I don’t know too many guys who would really want to date Lara Croft. Well I guess if you’re _into_ doms. What’s sexy on screen? In _real_ life notsomuch. Gotta know your target… Trick is to know _when to pull which rabbit out of your hat. That my dear, sugsrspicesugar, is an acquired talent. For some it’s inate. I like_ being a cupcake…on my _own_ terms..very TAL like of me dontcha think? Contrary to the comparison we always make to describe Angelina Jolie/TAL she strikes me as a good _balance_ of TAH and TAL. The TAH in her heart is evident in her humanitarian work. It’s the TAL in her marrow that enables her to stand up, rather feminiinely I’d say, to the bureaucracy to do something about it. Renny’s right, a lot of little ladies are _both…_.like me. 😉 Sometimes you have to dig a little deeper to find the real treasure. 'Course other times you just hit rocks. 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 11:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/15 "2008-02-22T23:00:05Z")
When I was 22yrs. old I was engaged to a _very_ successful older man. Some of you guys know him…_if_ you ever listened to talk radio in Pittsburg. “Our Fox talks!” Sitting around one afternoon with my Auntie we were talking about my engagement…when Auntie says to me, “Bella, don’t be a piece of furniture.” Ah…oh…🙄 Personally I don’t care for being sat on…not in _that_ way. 😃 Kinda _chokes_ the life outta ya…if you know what I mean. ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 11:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/16 "2008-02-22T23:02:57Z")
> [@Bella](#): > > A woman can be soft and feminine _and_ have her own money. _Trust me._ LOL Totally agree Bella! My response to such a woman though would have nothing to do with if she had money or not. I would still want to buy her gifts and spoil her. It may not even mean much to her but the _response_ of a girly woman on receiving gifts is much more endearing/pleasurable. ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/17 "2008-02-22T23:10:16Z")
I have to say, though, TAL is feminine enough that the real Angelina Jolie–not Lara Croft–is a good way of describing it. Plus, don’t forget that IS/A _does_ have a dash of TAH. ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 4:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/18 "2008-02-23T16:40:48Z")
> [@LaurieNY](#): > > I have to say, though, TAL is feminine enough that the real Angelina Jolie–not Lara Croft–is a good way of describing it. Plus, don’t forget that IS/A _does_ have a dash of TAH. I agree with my friend, the lovely Laurie…😉 I am a full-on TAL girl…not prissy, not frilly…but VERY feminine in a strong sort of way…my man is one of those who is a strong man, but wants his woman to be as strong and assertive as he is…AND, I have found over the years that there are a LOT of men like that out there. I have been “spoiled” by many of them…😃 > [@nbully](#): > > I would be more inclined to spend money on a cute Marilyn Monroe type woman without her even asking rather than a bossy domineering Angelina Jolie type woman With all due respect, hun…there is a difference between strong/assertive and bossy/domineering. If you were to experience the two different types, you would recognize it immediately…😉 I AM assertive. I know what I want, and I go after it. But, I do not try to dominate nor boss anybody around. And, Laurie is also right about IS/A…it contains BOTH TAL and TAH. But the TAL is more dominant. IS/B also contains both, but TAH is more prominent. ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 4:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/19 "2008-02-23T16:44:45Z")
> [@nbully79](#): > > Totally agree Bella! My response to such a woman though would have nothing to do with if she had money or not. I would still want to buy her gifts and spoil her. It may not even mean much to her but the _response_ of a girly woman on receiving gifts is much more endearing/pleasurable. Oh, honey…I am not a “girly” (prissy) woman, but my REACTION to the gifts is why I have had many men who love spoiling me…they receive sincere gratitude and appreciation, trust me…I show them what it is like to be appreciated by a real, strong woman. ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 5:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332/20 "2008-02-23T17:01:34Z")
> [@dolly](#): > > Oh, honey…I am not a “girly” (prissy) woman, but my REACTION to the gifts is why I have had many men who love spoiling me…they receive sincere gratitude and appreciation, trust me…I show them what it is like to be appreciated by a real, strong woman. yeah, ofcourse! I have to admit I don’t have experience with all the different types of women that are out there, nor do I know what every other man wants! So, about the pheromone question, what would you suggest to sugarspice?🙂 [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/oops-i-mean-gold-digger/9332.md?page=2)