# Open Open Open **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 27, 2008, 12:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/open-open-open/23329 "2008-11-27T12:01:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![kingy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kingy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kingy)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2008, 12:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/open-open-open/23329/1 "2008-11-27T12:01:48Z")
Hey guys this is not spam and will be posting here regularaly, ive trimmed my signature which I was not aware of, Just woken up today at 10:30 am after deciding that I wanted my body clock back and to in fact see some sun / cloud during the day. I’ve been teaching for the last three nights on the trot which has been great fun and has given me a few realizations, whilst being out in field. Guys are simply not approaching enough, when im out with a student then we will tap every girl on the shoulder that walks past. Its no big deal, this has to be your mind set, I don’t care how good your online posts are or what you’ve done in the past your EGO must be removed and you must open open open to achieve fast progress. The problem with posting on online forums or reading too much material, is that your brain tells you. “I’ve invested a lot of time learning how to talk to girls, that means it must be a big deal” Hense you then get Approach Anxiety. Its no big deal, do whatever it takes when you are out to open every girl that walks past. Tap Tap Tap Hi ( I’ll soon write a post on how I removed my Approach Anxiety completely ). I view sarging the same as lifting weights, would you goto the gym and look at the weights or do you goto the gym and lift the weights as quickly as possible and get out of there. This is how you should view game go out as many nights a week as you can and do your sets quickly as possible so you can then go home if you want to. If you look at the weights in the gym do your muscles get bigger? No, it only happens when you lift them for sustained periods of time. My student last night asked me if I go out once per week and open twenty sets per night how long until I can get good. This is the wrong attitude really, its never going to be over you will never be completely happy with where you are in game or life. There is always room for improvement and continual growth so the more you go out and the more sets that you do whilest looking at the end of the night at what you did good and bad the quicker you will get. As a motivational point usually 6 months is needed with the CORRECT training and mind set to get to a good level but it really depends where you are coming from, some students I’ve given a few outergame pointers and by the end of the night they are AWESOME just as good as me. Get out there are open every girl that you see because it is no big deal, humiliate yourself completely and you will grow into an awesome Pick up artist. Peace and Love, Kingy ---
**Author:** ![AMUncensored](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/amuncensored/32/497_2.png) [@AMUncensored](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AMUncensored)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 12:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/open-open-open/23329/2 "2008-11-28T00:00:07Z")
Seems to be a logical way to ‘train’ oneself in the area. All anxieties are conquered in the same way, and it’s not medication. The way is to just do it. There aren’t any magical ways to beat it. You can either get your feet wet and ease in or you can dive in. They both work but just diving into it is much faster and much more fulfilling. Anxiety may feel painful in the moment but when you look back at it you will just laugh at yourself. ---
**Author:** ![kingy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kingy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kingy)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2008, 12:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/open-open-open/23329/3 "2008-12-02T12:39:59Z")
good point AM glad you like the post man