# Ordered IO, IH, Instant Shine, IFM and A314 at once: plans to test them all in 2006

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [December 29, 2005, 4:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ordered-io-ih-instant-shine-ifm-and-a314-at-once-plans-to-test-them-all-in-2006/72 "2005-12-29T04:02:46Z")\
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**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2006, 4:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ordered-io-ih-instant-shine-ifm-and-a314-at-once-plans-to-test-them-all-in-2006/72/23 "2006-01-04T16:52:02Z")

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> [@PheroQuirk](#):
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> suppose you have an amazingly open, deep and almost intimate discussion with a girl you just met (or at least don’t know very well). what do you think goes through her mind afterwards? i mean i could imagine she could be left with a very positive impression of you and her interaction with you if she can find a way to rationalise it.
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> but if her mental map is incongruous with how she feels i suppose she might feel strange about things. so I suppose it might sometimes be important as well as behaving in a way thats congruent with your pheromonal signature to indirectly hint at potential reasons for the openness and your good rapport that will stick in her head later on when she is going over things again.
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> I don’t know. but as MHarris has pointed out I think it is key to find ways to strengthen congruence.

Congruency helps a ton, unless you’re deranged and actually want to make someone accept an incongruency. (which works wonderfully to create slaves - cults and cult like organizations know that if they can someone to accept enough things which don’t make sense, they’ll have a mushy mind to push around)

Congruency comes with practice. With being.

I’m sure you were an astronaut as a child. For a week or a day. But it is what you pretend to be for years that you “are now”.

All reality comes from make believe. We become what we practice preaching and being, it’s as simple as that.

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