# P51Mustang's Journal **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [May 27, 2010, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913 "2010-05-27T16:50:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 58
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2011, 2:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1142 "2011-09-18T02:00:40Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > I can really get used to the awesome results I get from these P96 based mixes. > > P96 is affectionate. It is like P86 in the way that you will find things visually appealing but it works on the emotional level. P86 is like the ONS, and P96 is the LTR. I’m not saying that it will always lead to LTR but it gives it that kind of feeling. This also has to do with the self effects that I felt, and not neccesarily what the females I interacted with actually felt. > > In several of the interactions, I used a mix of P96, P74, P83. I added some TUTH to that and A314. Noted that I used UFE Revision 26 for the tests but I’ve tested it out with regular A314 (version 23) and both have worked out as well as the other. Revision 26 slightly has a better kick, but believe me it’s not something that would make that much of a bigger difference. Steve helped me with this mix, and he calls this his Instant Boyfriend mix. I tried several other variations of this mix, but this seems to be the most solid one out there. > > There is this one particular friend that I have who I am pretty close to but haven’t really kept touch with in a while. Nothing bad happened and there was no negative tension between us, when life happened we just had to prioritize what was important and our friendship took a back seat. We hung out once and caught up, actually was a really fun time. Things just didn’t seem like how they were back in the summer and maybe it’s because she found a guy, or maybe it was something else. I did notice when I wore IBF it kinda put things back the way they were. It’s hard to articulate it, but I just felt it, the way that you feel when you see someone who just makes you happy and you know you do the same with them, that was the feeling I was getting and the personal observations that I had. > > This mix was meant to sing harmoniously with each other to achieve that boyfriend effect. The amount of “well known” “heavy hitter” mones are all in there, and you would think that the effects of this would be too blatant, too OD, too much in your face, but it isn’t. This has such a natural feeling about it that I gotta venture and say, while this is product intensive, this is a viable ICM 2.0 alternative (afterall Steve came up with the mix). > > The impact of the P96 is enormous, I can tell you that it really is something that helps break a wall down. It will NEVER give you that spark when there can’t ever be anything there, but I think to why the previous theories on this have been something like a reset button, is because of latent feelings that P96 helped bring out. P96 is like IH, but with emotional intensity. > > My guess (and just on experiences) is that P96 is some variation of beta-nol. When I used these two together, it seemed to amplify both of the effects. The mix I tried for this one was IJ + P96 + BNol. I had this girl, who I met, who’s typically very reserved from what my friends were telling me was more outgoing and more playful than I’ve seen her in the past. I took the basic escalation down and scored a date. > > I’m sorry a lot of this is theory, but the details from the interactions have all mashed together since I didn’t keep a daily update on the Journal. Awesome Report 🙂 IJ is a peculiar little product. Do you feel that you can be reserved in 2 sprays? ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2011, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1143 "2011-09-18T02:17:59Z")
> [@Oasis314](#): > > Awesome Report 🙂 > > IJ is a peculiar little product. Do you feel that you can be reserved in 2 sprays? Thanks bro, In the times I’ve tested it not really. I was “wittier” if you know what I mean. I was sharper with my jokes, I do notice easier aggression if I’m introverted at the time, that’s probably as close to it as I can remember. I would have to check back in my Journal for more details to see how it affected me at two sprays. ---
**Author:** ![Joe10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/joe10/32/300_2.png) [@Joe10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Joe10)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2011, 12:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1144 "2011-09-19T12:49:33Z")
Thank you for your contribution P51 Good stuff. Now, are you dedicating all your reports on Androtics Pheromones or are you planning on posting about others. To my knowledge this company(forum) is not biased towards their own products and we can post about our experiences with others as long as we don’t link to other websites. I don’t know about the reporting user status and how valid it would be if I alternate with one week AD products and the other some other companies [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). For this week, I will be testing p83 and see what I will come up with Keep up the good work and God bless Joe ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2011, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1145 "2011-09-19T18:13:27Z")
> [@Joe10](#): > > Thank you for your contribution P51 > > Good stuff. > > Now, are you dedicating all your reports on Androtics Pheromones or are you planning on posting about others. To my knowledge this company(forum) is not biased towards their own products and we can post about our experiences with others as long as we don’t link to other websites. I don’t know about the reporting user status and how valid it would be if I alternate with one week AD products and the other some other companies pheromone products. > > For this week, I will be testing p83 and see what I will come up with > > Keep up the good work and God bless > > Joe I never felt the need to test other people’s products. Lately I’ve been really busy and I just stuck to things that work for me (Which is all AD Products). While I personally believe there are great products out there with good people that produce those products, the only company I know of that we can mention here is LoveScent. I usually err on the side of caution when I would mention anything else here. This is their forum and they’ve been respectful to me and I will be respectful to them. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2011, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1146 "2011-09-19T19:44:38Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > I have a theory on this. Remind me tomorrow, if you will, when its a little less busy So Mr. Steve, What is your theory? ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2011, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1147 "2011-09-21T19:00:05Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > I keep questioning myself on why I always get irritated when I wear P83 by itself. As chances would have it, I was cleanin out part of my desk to look for something. I saw some putatives there and an almost full bottle of P83 togo in 12.5mcg/spray. I already had on 3 drops of A314 r.23 before I applied. > > Now what really struck me is that I’m very courteous when it comes to other people who work in fields that deal with people. I would rather just suck it up than make them do anymore work than they have to. I wasn’t rude or anything, and I see this salesperson consistently that when she offered to go do extra work on my behalf, I actually agreed to this point. I know myself and I know how I do things and I just kinda realized I did. > > I think that with P83, at least for me, is the inability to act on certain impulses is maginified by the way the molecule’s self effects affect me. > > I hate/love this thing. I know what it does in mixes, but I can quite grasp this as a standalone. It’s really simple actually and I’m surprised you don’t know this already. Maybe you just didn’t connect the dots 😉. OK so here goes: Many members have been reporting that [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) dis-inhibits and to some degree they are correct. What I found is the more refined the person the more it effects them. Furthermore it effects our reptilian brains and where as you my friend might be reserved and well-meaning, P83 brings out the tiger in you. In essence its not so much as dis-inhibiting as it is impulse seeking behavior to invoke an emotional response. It causes the person to seek a release of hormones into the brain and thus you act on what will evoke the biggest emotional response. Of course free will still prevails, but in your situation it gave your internal dialogue enough leeway to make command decisions and an obvious emotional reaction or it wouldn’t have effected you enough to write about it. Basically it creates powerful emotions. Specifically giving instructions to the brain to act on impulses not typical of the person. By doing so this causes spikes in hormonal releases. The shy, reserved woman not typically involving herself with sexual escapades will go that direction. The professional always keeping his cool might become more demanding. Anyway hope that helps. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2011, 8:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1148 "2011-09-21T20:43:01Z")
This is probably going to be one of my more uncensored reports out there. Everyone here has a goal of being more attractive, successful, and happy. Many of us who have used these products to enhance what we have already know that the base of anything and everything we do related to mones is to be happy. There still are times to this day that I’ve been second guessing my intuition about the aura that you produce augmented by mones. I haven’t posted as much as I used to because I have been busy with work and socializing. When I took inventory of what’s been happening, it dawned on me that the cumulative effects take such a long lasting impact on things. I realize this more and more with A314 (Don’t worry I’m not going to try and sell you on this). I’ve added it back to my daily usage. I haven’t had too many used for putative testing right now. I’ve put that on the backburner because of what’s going on in my life right now. Consequently, the results I got were pretty frigging amazing. A few days ago I went out with a friend. We wanted to catch up with each other. I’ve been doing this a lot lately since I’ve been getting more and more time to go out. It’s been strictly platonic with her but as we hung out consecutively, I started to notice little things here in there in terms of indicators that she was attracted. I did use IBF in my mixes but the latent results had to be the product of how I’ve carried myself with her over the years. It was a beautiful night out, we were out taking a walk around the old neighborhood, there was a movie showing by the park so we took some seats near the top of the hill and plopped ourselves down. As the movie and our conversations progressed and beers kept being consumed, she was more touchy with me than I normally am used to, I just went along with it because it felt natural. She is seeing someone which is why I was a little hesitant but it didnt seem to cross any lines at that time and I didn’t want to make it seem like I was overthinking or just being too sensitive. This went on the entire time until we both got drunk and more and more kino happened. There was no escalation of kino but the volume increased. The movie ended and we decided to take a walk around the neighborhood since it was cool enough to be comfortable. We found a place where we could eat and sit down. The place was nice and casual, didn’t feel like a date but now that I looked back on it, it could have been. During our meal we started to really get in and discuss how life has been. Her life is good, things have been going in the right direction for her but she’s been busy. She asked me how I was doing with the girls I’ve been talking to and being the inquisitive person that she is, got me to spill the deal on the women I’ve been talking to. Geezes I shoulda just gave her the link to this Journal and it woulda been easier. You guys know how girls are, protective of their guy friends when it comes to women. The conversation topic lasted longer than I would have liked but again, nothing was awkward or out of the ordinary. She began to comment how I’ve dated some pretty hot girls and kept wondering why I’m single. This was probably the 4th or 5th time I’ve had to field this question in the past couple of weeks. We got into another heart to heart when I finally sobered up and drove her home. I gave her from the heart sincere advice, and even though the mood changed for a period of time when she was down, I picked her back up. When we got to her house, she looked at me, said thank you, kissed me on the cheek and went home. We still talk normal even after a few days after the fact. Nothing changed, our friendship is the same, but it was just a really interesting night. ---
**Author:** ![bestintel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bestintel/32/1883_2.png) [@bestintel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bestintel)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2011, 4:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1149 "2011-09-22T04:06:53Z")
Stang I was thinking about going on a two week A314 test. I think the long term effects could be something worth mentioning. I’m glad your doing ok Stang I was worried about you ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2011, 6:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1150 "2011-09-22T06:12:04Z")
> [@smellymen2002](#): > > Stang I was thinking about going on a two week A314 test. I think the long term effects could be something worth mentioning. > > I’m glad your doing ok Stang I was worried about you Thanks bro, just a lot of work going on and life happens. I’ve been good though. I’m just in a situation right now I really didn’t want to be in. I hung out with her again, casually, with mutual friends. Things have definitely gotten interesting. This is something I really can’t pursue. (venting here) I gotta back off. This came totally out of left field ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2011, 6:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1151 "2011-09-22T06:19:30Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > Thanks bro, just a lot of work going on and life happens. I’ve been good though. I’m just in a situation right now I really didn’t want to be in. > > I hung out with her again, casually, with mutual friends. Things have definitely gotten interesting. This is something I really can’t pursue. (venting here) I gotta back off. This came totally out of left field At the risk of sounding like a New Age Space Hippie: Remember to breathe. If only to close your eyes in the bathroom whenever and be aware of your breathing. Exhale in particular. You know the effect. I’m just saying in case you forget occasionally . . . 😃 as we all do in times of confusion and stress. And you got both, right now. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2011, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1152 "2011-09-22T06:21:33Z")
> [@Astrea](#): > > At the risk of sounding like a New Age Space Hippie: Remember to breathe. If only to close your eyes in the bathroom whenever and be aware of your breathing. Exhale in particular. You know the effect. I’m just saying in case you forget occasionally . . . 😃 as we all do in times of confusion and stress. And you got both, right now. It sucks that I actually fell for her but it wouldn’t be right to pursue anything. ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2011, 6:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1153 "2011-09-22T06:29:25Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > It sucks that I actually fell for her but it wouldn’t be right to pursue anything. I hate when that happens. I’m sorry, man. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2011, 3:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1154 "2011-09-22T15:12:57Z")
> [@Astrea](#): > > I hate when that happens. I’m sorry, man. It’s funny how things work. It doesn’t really upset me because I know that she’s in a good situation and a good place. I’m fully content and not even upset. It’s actually a good situation. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2011, 8:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1155 "2011-09-22T20:01:32Z")
A couple of days later after we went out, we got together again. It was interesting to see how it would pan out when we got together again since what happened a couple of nights before. Things became so much more comfortable, and note that I actually didn’t put any mones on that day, except the A314 I had on from the morning. We saw some mutual friends when we were bar hopping and decided to stay at that one particular place. That night she became more and more playful as time went on. Kino definitely escalated. I actually backed off because there were people there I knew and didn’t want to get asked those questions. Besides the playful joking and touches here and there, nothing really poked out at me until I walked her home. We get to her place and as I’m walking her there we just BSed for a couple of minutes, and as we say our goodbye’s she gave me a hug. It wasn’t like a hey good night type of hug, it was a pretty tight embrace. She held on pretty long and it seemed to me she didn’t want to let go. There is going to be some bias in my reporting because well I do like her but I know I can’t. I seriously think that me at my most comfortable in my skin, is really why lately I’ve attracted girls with bf’s. This is to the point I talk to them about girls I’m talking to and treat them like one of the guys and this still happens. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2011, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1156 "2011-09-24T23:47:53Z")
Damn you A314! Every time I’ve gotten into a slump. I’ve gotten in droves a crap load of attraction hits. I mean today they were insane. I can’t get into details right now but I gotta see how this pans out later on. ---
**Author:** ![The\_Hammer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/90db22/32.png) [@The\_Hammer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_Hammer)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2011, 12:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1157 "2011-09-25T00:47:15Z")
I have this strange feeling that you attract a lot more women than those who are already taken. ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2011, 1:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1158 "2011-09-25T01:53:18Z")
**Just face your own Reality!** **YOU** are now (if there was any doubt) **THAT GUY.** Use your power wisely, young Stangman. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2011, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1159 "2011-09-25T03:11:39Z")
> [@The\_Hammer](#): > > I have this strange feeling that you attract a lot more women than those who are already taken. I do, I’m still just learning how to close and escalate on a more consistent basis. A lot of what’s been going on are girls I just flirt with on a continuous basis, nothing too forward but nothing too friendly, just in the middle. Some are taken and some are not. I’m a strong believer that you should try and make friends with everyone and just be happy. It works out because you don’t understand how many times with social proofing that girls who I’m with tell me that I know everyone and everyone likes me. I knew about this, and many of the experts here do this naturally already. I have an inclination there are a lot, but I’m a modest person by nature and I don’t want to go writing about it every time someone is interested in me. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 5:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1160 "2011-09-26T05:38:12Z")
Antiquated or not. MX301 + [P75](https://a314.com/product/p75/) + A314 WORKS. You all know I respect and try to report as much as possible with what AD is doing but man if they were ever able to formulate this in an easy spray form, they will wipe any competition out. I’ve used IBF and this, and between the two, this is the most effective in general terms. If you want AMMO, this is what it should be, I know this is molecule intensive, but I would seriously pay A314 + prices for this. I’ll tell you why. Two women, both around the same age in their 20’s. One is single one is taken. They both had pretty similar reactions from this. There are more and I will elaborate more in a little. FD1 has been very shy and reserved. I went to hang out with her, she’s normally introverted, but I had some fun with her and she opened up a lot. A great amount of kino escalation, I had full reign of what was going on. We had a very fun and playful time together. She’s your typical girl next door type and while this is in the infancy of our interaction, this can definitely go somewhere fun. FD2 and I have known each other for a while. It started just with some playful flirting, nothing too serious. It finally escalated to the point where I made some subtle sexual comments, nothing dirty but I always used a play on words. We were out with a bunch of friends and since the place was pretty big, we were all doing our rounds and catching up with mutual friends. She kept hitting me on the shoulder as I made my sly comments and laughing along the way. When we would be alone (away from others) she would come and hug me, just outta nowhere. We were outside smoking and she dropped the lighter from her cigarette pack, being the gentleman that I am _big grin_ I handed her the lighter and she opened up her pack and just told me to put it in. I replied with “don’t worry I’ll be gentle when I put it back in” (sly look on my face) she laughed and hit me again and told me to behave. We went back and forth throughout the night, since it was the city, my friends and I had to go somewhere and meet up with other friends and we left them, she gave me a hug and told me it was great seeing me and that we should do it again sometime. Again someone who’s dating someone casually, but is exclusive. FD3 and FD4 came from another venue we went to. I didn’t want to go at first because I was tired and I didn’t wanna start up new sets feeling tired. It’s just not a good idea and I never had any good results from it. Anyways FD3 is an easy 9, we’ve hung out a couple of times and as things are a little rocky with the guy she’s dating. I heard that she’s just out to get away from it all, someone that’s been in something for less than a year having that many problems is never a good sign. I was going pure platonic mode this time around, my boys and I decided to let it be and just go and get tanked and go home afterwards, this woulda been our last stop before we all cabbed it home. It didn’t turn out that way. As we were hanging out things just got a little deeper in our conversation, she told me she missed hanging out with me and yet again, I get the “why are you single, you’re an awesome guy, the few out there who knows how to treat women right.” We just smiled at each other and enjoyed each other’s company. We were at a rooftop so we found a nice spot overlooking the city, which is an awesome view by the way, and just caught up. After everything was said and done, after our heart to heart, she gave me a hug and we went back to our friends. She left early with her other girlfriends she met there, but as I was talking to my friends, unexpectedly, she gave me a kiss on the cheek and a hug. She told me we should definitely catch up again. And left. FD4 has always been playful with me, for the years and years I’ve known her we’ve held a purely platonic relationship. Going back to the high school days, we were always the ones who got along so well because she was the female version of myself. I don’t know what changed, or what it was been lately, but she’s been more affectionate. This is the biggest difference with her and she’s around more wherever I am. I really do care about her, it’s just tough, she’s happy and this isn’t something I would pursue. I don’t get why these things come up and I know I’m not imagining it cause my friends told me the same thing. There were a couple of more of what I call affection hits. A lot of what I started noticing was that the more alcohol was involved, the harder these things hit. It seemed like anyone I interacted with had some sort of viable IOI (and I always second guess myself) that they showed me. There were a few that I didn’t get anything from, but I think from latent effects, a lot of past interest/feelings start surfacing when I wear this. I gotta say I never got this much of hits in the time I’ve been using mones. It seems almost surreal and I could be imagining it, but when they’re in your face, it is hard to ignore it. I don’t get why the women with some sort of relationship always hit the hardest when I use this. The single ones are more shy and reserved. I find out they have an interest in me, but they don’t show outward signs like the taken girls do. It boggles my mind why because I’d rather act on the single ones, but it’s just harder to read them. On a side note I don’t think I could ever bring myself to make someone cheat, but I’ve been scratching my head at this, and this is the first time this many have shown IOI’s ever. Just gotta live it up, and go with it. ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 6:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/1161 "2011-09-26T06:20:20Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > I gotta say I never got this much of hits in the time I’ve been using mones. It seems almost surreal and I could be imagining it, but when they’re in your face, it is hard to ignore it. **I don’t get why the women with some sort of relationship always hit the hardest when I use this. The single ones are more shy and reserved. I find out they have an interest in me, but they don’t show outward signs like the taken girls do.** It boggles my mind why because I’d rather act on the single ones, but it’s just harder to read them. > > On a side note I don’t think I could ever bring myself to make someone cheat, but I’ve been scratching my head at this, and this is the first time this many have shown IOI’s ever. > > **Just gotta live it up, and go with it.** The ‘taken’ ones have the confidence of having someone in the background if you show no interest; or brush them off. It’s the safety thing. A single girl, has more to lose. Momentary self esteem, self worth, self confidence. Guys can be quite inconsiderate of a girls feelings and perception when they’re not interested - NOT saying that you are; but they have to find out that you’re not gonna be mean. And guys in general don’t care that they’ve done damage when they laugh at, brush off or dismiss a girl going out on a limb and putting themselves forward. Admittedly, you may not perceive it as a limb, but for most girls, approaching a guy or appearing interested is doing trapeze without the net. As I’ve said before, no-one teaches a girl how to do this; and guys only care about the 8-10’s feelings. No-one cares how the girl at the edge of the venue feels when they metaphorically/literally push her off to the side to drool over something wearing a fake smile, pound of makeup and that cute dress. Also remember, just because you think she’s pretty/beautiful doesn’t mean she sees that in the mirror. Someone who’s been treated as the ugly duckling isn’t going to respond in the same manner as the fucking princess who’s been told she’s beautiful all her life - regardless of what type of person she is. Maybe take a little more time to cultivate some confidence in you with the single and shy girls. If you’re getting IOI’s and hits by the gross; go and see if you can develop something with one of the singles who’s just not so brave - because she doesn’t have a safety net. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913.md?page=57) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913.md?page=59)