# P51Mustang's Journal **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [May 27, 2010, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913 "2010-05-27T16:50:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 9
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2010, 4:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/162 "2010-09-23T16:59:00Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > Thanks I appreciate that. > > As for the MX301, I didn’t notice that as much. I have to look at my notes from it again but I don’t remember. Good thing you brought that up and I’ll put that one up on the re testing block when I get a chance. > > I can’t say conclusively if its very close to MX301, but if I had to guess based on what you told, me, it might have **some components** of MX301 (pbviously -none). I will definitely look into it next time I go out and try to compare the results. Great, I’m looking foward to your comparison. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2010, 7:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/163 "2010-09-23T19:38:32Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > Been really busy lately and running around for work all over the place so please excuse one liner updates on this Journal, this is the only way I can keep track without forgetting the details of applications > > Base mix today at A314 2x, P75 2.5mcg > > Just added now 2x of 12.5mcg P130 > > Edit 12:55 PM… > > I get the whole calm and collected feelings that users here have described. When put into somewhat awkward situations, I typically get the anxiety feeling. Just now I has a couple of interactions that would normally get me like that, but I didn’t get that feeling as hard as I normally would. I don’t want to say its completely gone, but it’s definitely a huge improvement on it. Great minds think alike, I wore that exact mix today lol. I loved it btw. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2010, 7:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/164 "2010-09-23T19:41:35Z")
> [@Maidenfan01](#): > > Great minds think alike, I wore that exact mix today lol. I loved it btw. How’d it work out for you? I was able to close business pretty quickly. For some reason it was like Instant Trust. It was really really mind boggling. I have to test this out more. Could have a lot of potential. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2010, 7:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/165 "2010-09-23T19:49:48Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > How’d it work out for you? > > I was able to close business pretty quickly. For some reason it was like Instant Trust. It was really really mind boggling. I have to test this out more. > > Could have a lot of potential. Its in my journal. I like it alot, and Instant Trust is a great way to put it. ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2010, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/166 "2010-09-23T19:50:38Z")
> [@Maidenfan01](#): > > Great minds think alike, I wore that exact mix today lol. I loved it btw. > [@P51Mustang](#): > > How’d it work out for you? > > I was able to close business pretty quickly. For some reason it was like Instant Trust. It was really really mind boggling. I have to test this out more. > > Could have a lot of potential. I really have to say I’m jealous. Why cant I have a psychic connection with another user in here 😮 ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2010, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/167 "2010-09-23T19:51:40Z")
> [@Olfact\_Amorous](#): > > I really have to say I’m jealous. Why cant I have a psychic connection with another user in here 😮 Maybe they just don’t post. Who knows you may be connected with the likes of Dancing Joker, tacitus, catlord, Steve. But they’re just not posting their results. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 9:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/168 "2010-09-24T21:56:58Z")
Alright so I went out last night to grab some drinks. I had a long day at work and I grabbed one of my buddies and we ended up going to the local watering hole. Now this is like 8ish and all my pheros I put on that day are pretty much gone, not that they would have done anything in the attraction stages anyway cause I just had A314, P75 and some sprays of [P130](https://a314.com/product/p130/). So I get there, I’m like crap, I have no pheros on. (practice what you preach asshole, don’t go thinking without pheros you have no shot). SO anyways I reach in and look into my center console in my car, hmm an empty bottle of P79, IS, IH4x, and P130 in my pocket. So what the heck, at least these are good socials. So I spritz on 1x of the IH4x, 4x of IS, and 25mcgs of P130 and went off on my merry way. I go there enough that the bartenders know me, and most of the staff have seen me around. It was my friend’s first time there and he liked the place, so what went from 2 drinks became a $140+ tab. FOR TWO PEOPLE! You guys know, for those who have been reading I go there because it’s got great beer, sports on, and eye candy. But for some reason last night, it turned into a “Cheers” type of venue. For those who aren’t old enough to remember, its that show about a bar, where everybody knows your name. I had a lot of fun, it was like everyone rode the vibe my friend and I were having, from the bartenders, to the server staff, to even friends that came by afterwards. Lesson of the story is this. My friend ended up meeting someone there, who was cool and he went totally out of character and was confident for once. I was even surprised when he told me the story. It all comes down to the fact that yes, socials can give you a vibe that’s attractive and sexy at the same time. My friend was part of that aura, no Androstenone, no vaunted P series molecules, but just some good ol fun. No matter where you go and who you interact with, as long as you’re being comfortable in your own skin, as long as you’re having fun, it will take you farther and leave a better lasting impression than a quick hitting -none mix, or elaborate formulas. Remember kiddies, this is just IS IH and P130 (Unless this has panty removing properties I don’t know about) Let’s not forget how great these things, AND YOU! Can really liven up an interaction. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 10:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/169 "2010-09-24T22:02:25Z")
That cheers vibe is what I think I get from [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/). Good report, more proof that sometimes socials are all you need. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 1:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/170 "2010-09-25T01:09:29Z")
DAMNIT DAMNIT DAMNIT I think I lost my nol and none test packs FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 2:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/171 "2010-09-25T02:02:32Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > DAMNIT DAMNIT DAMNIT > > I think I lost my nol and none test packs > > FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK How the FAAAAAAAAAAAAAACCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKK did that happen ☹ ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/172 "2010-09-25T02:11:31Z")
I have no idea I gotta check the office, it’s gotta be there if not then I’m turning my storage inside out ---
**Author:** ![RisenAlpha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/54ee81/32.png) [@RisenAlpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RisenAlpha)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/173 "2010-09-25T02:14:33Z")
That sucks bro. Would love to read your tests on those. I have the nol test pack as well as project UF. Trying to decide what I should test first and how thorough I should be. I want to give a good report. I have tested p130 twice now but I haven’t reported. I have gotten some weird swings with it. Once was with wife in bed and things were all fun and silly then she asked me why I was sticking my chest out and I did a 180 and completely lost interest!!! She had to talk me back into it. The second test was with 1 drop of a314, ammo, IS, and CTTM2. I had some weird giddiness all day and butterflies in my stomach. I felt like I had fallen into new love and had no clue why. I had a great work day with coworkers, but they were much more likely to crack jokes on me then normally with A314. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 2:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/174 "2010-09-25T02:28:24Z")
> [@JosieWilder](#): > > That sucks bro. Would love to read your tests on those. I have the nol test pack as well as project UF. Trying to decide what I should test first and how thorough I should be. I want to give a good report. > > I have tested p130 twice now but I haven’t reported. I have gotten some weird swings with it. Once was with wife in bed and things were all fun and silly then she asked me why I was sticking my chest out and I did a 180 and completely lost interest!!! She had to talk me back into it. The second test was with 1 drop of a314, ammo, IS, and CTTM2. I had some weird giddiness all day and butterflies in my stomach. I felt like I had fallen into new love and had no clue why. I had a great work day with coworkers, but they were much more likely to crack jokes on me then normally with A314. It’s definitely got a fun vibe to it. I just can’t pinpoint anything about it yet. The more you test, the more you’ll find out about it too. I’m on a mission to find this damn test pack now lol ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 4:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/175 "2010-09-25T04:32:23Z")
After going back to my usual test mixes P83/86/93/75, I noticed that it works a heck of a lot better for me than any of the UF mixes and better than anything high Androstenone based. [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/) is the only thing that really does work well for me. I think something too sexual and too in your face just doesn’t go well with me. Maybe I just don’t give off the whole sexual person look, but I hate it when it meshes with my image, and just ruins interactions. I’m starting to realize that I have more of the mysterious look about me at first and when you get to know me, you’ll see how fun and a good guy I really am. I’ve been friend zoned more times than I can count, and I’ve also had women come up to me and told me that they were attracted to me in the first place but was too scared to say anything about it. Now I do hook up with some pretty high quality women, I just don’t have the quantity that most of my friends have. It’s an ongoing joke with my group of friends that I’m just the friend material and I don’t know how to take it to the next level. I disagree, I just have certain standards that have to be met. For me I need some sort of connection to do anything with, I can’t just go an sleep with someone just because I’m drunk and its there, there has to be attraction and a connection. To top it off with women who like me, my perception sucks when it comes to pinpointing and I know that’s something I have to work on. Something my best friend told me tonight struck me. “Every girl that meets you, loves you” and that kinda got me thinking in a way that hmm, I wonder what could it be that I haven’t triggered any sexual or attraction component with them, and why are they just friends. Then it got me to thinking what was I using, pheromone wise, to complement my personality. Why is it that the pheromones can’t break the door down initially, but once they open it just a crack, it’s like a flood comes in. So I began analyzing what I was doing and what I was wearing to see what was going on. A314 has been the core of my mixes, and with the aura that it provides, I seriously think that more women are attracted to me than I think. Secondly, it might be that I’m viewed as Mr. Right, but not Mr. Right now. I began looking into things that would support this theory, and all the women who’s ever asked me why I was still single, were the ones looking for a LTR and was done with the BS of playing around and random dating. The ones who were out to just have fun, I wasn’t attracting. It became my goal to learn some PUA stuff. Radman helped me out with some and I’ll probably be calling up Steve for some advice to get me started. I’m not going to change who I am, but I am going to try and do things that are out of my comfort zone in regards to learning some new “tactics”. You know if I do find someone for a LTR great, if not, then no biggie, but at least I learned and discovered something new. This leads me to my second point on my progression with A314. I’ve been a constant user of A314 and I’ve outlined some of the positive changes that’s happening in my life right now. I keep learning new things about myself and progressing forward, it’s really a great product to help augment positive life changes. Back to my story that I just mentioned, back then, I would have been all depressed and self-loathing that I can’t find anyone, or that no one likes me. But now things have changed, I know now that just because it’s not coming doesn’t mean that it never will. We got into this conversation because my group of friends are slowly starting to get into relationships. I’m really happy for them and some of them have found what I believe, true love. Some I don’t think would last, but some can go a lifetime. I know now in myself that whoever she is, she’s gotta meet some criteria, I"m not saying exclusively looks, because that will fade, but personality that I can really truly get along with. I was willing to try a cross country relationship with this one person, who I really clicked with, but unfortunately that didn’t work. It sucked for a little, but I moved on, I knew that I wasn’t going to deal with that behavior and lack of respect for someone’s time. We were courteous to each other and things ended pretty amicably. Man was that a sharp contrast to how my last relationship ended. I remembered my immaturity and just overall lack of self worth, it wasn’t pretty and I cringe to this day looking back on how I was ever like that. I look for the best because I give the best. Finding my own worth and respect took a long time, and I’m so happy I found it because I can get rid of any nagging doubt that was ever there. I never thought I would say that I’m content of being single and it’s really no big deal and it hit me tonight how true that was. Always moving forward and never looking back. ---
**Author:** ![bestintel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bestintel/32/1883_2.png) [@bestintel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bestintel)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 10:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/176 "2010-09-25T10:26:04Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > After going back to my usual test mixes P83/86/93/75, I noticed that it works a heck of a lot better for me than any of the UF mixes and better than anything high Androstenone based. Instant Jerk is the only thing that really does work well for me. I think something too sexual and too in your face just doesn’t go well with me. Maybe I just don’t give off the whole sexual person look, but I hate it when it meshes with my image, and just ruins interactions. I’m starting to realize that I have more of the mysterious look about me at first and when you get to know me, you’ll see how fun and a good guy I really am. > > I’ve been friend zoned more times than I can count, and I’ve also had women come up to me and told me that they were attracted to me in the first place but was too scared to say anything about it. Now I do hook up with some pretty high quality women, I just don’t have the quantity that most of my friends have. It’s an ongoing joke with my group of friends that I’m just the friend material and I don’t know how to take it to the next level. I disagree, I just have certain standards that have to be met. For me I need some sort of connection to do anything with, I can’t just go an sleep with someone just because I’m drunk and its there, there has to be attraction and a connection. To top it off with women who like me, my perception sucks when it comes to pinpointing and I know that’s something I have to work on. > > Something my best friend told me tonight struck me. “Every girl that meets you, loves you” and that kinda got me thinking in a way that hmm, I wonder what could it be that I haven’t triggered any sexual or attraction component with them, and why are they just friends. Then it got me to thinking what was I using, pheromone wise, to complement my personality. Why is it that the pheromones can’t break the door down initially, but once they open it just a crack, it’s like a flood comes in. So I began analyzing what I was doing and what I was wearing to see what was going on. A314 has been the core of my mixes, and with the aura that it provides, I seriously think that more women are attracted to me than I think. Secondly, it might be that I’m viewed as Mr. Right, but not Mr. Right now. I began looking into things that would support this theory, and all the women who’s ever asked me why I was still single, were the ones looking for a LTR and was done with the BS of playing around and random dating. The ones who were out to just have fun, I wasn’t attracting. > > It became my goal to learn some PUA stuff. Radman helped me out with some and I’ll probably be calling up Steve for some advice to get me started. I’m not going to change who I am, but I am going to try and do things that are out of my comfort zone in regards to learning some new “tactics”. You know if I do find someone for a LTR great, if not, then no biggie, but at least I learned and discovered something new. This leads me to my second point on my progression with A314. > > I’ve been a constant user of A314 and I’ve outlined some of the positive changes that’s happening in my life right now. I keep learning new things about myself and progressing forward, it’s really a great product to help augment positive life changes. Back to my story that I just mentioned, back then, I would have been all depressed and self-loathing that I can’t find anyone, or that no one likes me. But now things have changed, I know now that just because it’s not coming doesn’t mean that it never will. We got into this conversation because my group of friends are slowly starting to get into relationships. I’m really happy for them and some of them have found what I believe, true love. Some I don’t think would last, but some can go a lifetime. I know now in myself that whoever she is, she’s gotta meet some criteria, I"m not saying exclusively looks, because that will fade, but personality that I can really truly get along with. I was willing to try a cross country relationship with this one person, who I really clicked with, but unfortunately that didn’t work. It sucked for a little, but I moved on, I knew that I wasn’t going to deal with that behavior and lack of respect for someone’s time. We were courteous to each other and things ended pretty amicably. Man was that a sharp contrast to how my last relationship ended. I remembered my immaturity and just overall lack of self worth, it wasn’t pretty and I cringe to this day looking back on how I was ever like that. I look for the best because I give the best. Finding my own worth and respect took a long time, and I’m so happy I found it because I can get rid of any nagging doubt that was ever there. I never thought I would say that I’m content of being single and it’s really no big deal and it hit me tonight how true that was. > > Always moving forward and never looking back. I don’t know about you but I would rather hook up with a few 8-10’s women than a bunch of 5-6’s. I mean on scale of 1-10 on looks and the overall person you are dating. I have always believed that Quality of the woman is much more important than the Quantity of women you hook up with. I wouldn’t worry about man you will find a kick ass girl and your bud’s will be chasing tail until one day no one will be there for them to bang and you will be happy with a hottie all your own. If your looking for a hottie I suggest book stores most of the girls in there are good quality and they can actually read so you know that they have some sort of intelligence. Like Ron white said “you can fix stupid.”🙂 ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 4:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/177 "2010-09-25T16:46:09Z")
All I’m saying is that The truth will set you freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/178 "2010-09-25T19:51:44Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > I’m like hitting a dry spell for IOI’s or I’m just noticing anything. > > I might just take off from mones completely for going out for a week or so to kinda reset myself. > > It does get frustrating at times. > > But more proof on how valuable A314 is. Instead of getting down on myself, I’m just being more positive about things and looking at it as a phase and not something as permanent. > > Getting shot down multiple times sucks, but I know it happens even to the best of us. Things with women fell apart with me lately, but quite frankly I thought I would be down about it more. I know I was down for a little about things not working out, but a couple of days and it was gone. > > I’m just going to try and keep myself upbeat. I know it’s a snowball effect if I get down on myself. The changing season historically has just given me the “winter blues” effect, it could be that too. Also this is the first time I can remember that it’s been light on the effects. Hey man, I know what you mean on the decrease of IOI’s. I’m just not noticing anything much with mx297. All typical IOIs that could be my own making and not enhanced. No DIHL, no verbal outbursts LOL nothing that stands out. I went back to my standard work mix the other day and it felt kinda good to be ME again. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 7:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/179 "2010-09-25T19:53:39Z")
> [@thegentleman](#): > > Hey man, I know what you mean on the decrease of IOI’s. I’m just not noticing anything much with mx297. All typical IOIs that could be my own making and not enhanced. No DIHL, no verbal outbursts LOL nothing that stands out. > > I went back to my standard work mix the other day and it felt kinda good to be ME again. Oh yeah I know how it is. The night and day results that I get with the ones I tailored to myself are top notch. Even though UF has a lot of potential, it’ll be harder to replace my social mixes that work extremely well for me. ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 7:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/180 "2010-09-25T19:56:26Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > After going back to my usual test mixes P83/86/93/75, I noticed that it works a heck of a lot better for me than any of the UF mixes and better than anything high Androstenone based. Instant Jerk is the only thing that really does work well for me. I think something too sexual and too in your face just doesn’t go well with me. Maybe I just don’t give off the whole sexual person look, but I hate it when it meshes with my image, and just ruins interactions. I’m starting to realize that I have more of the mysterious look about me at first and when you get to know me, you’ll see how fun and a good guy I really am. > > I’ve been friend zoned more times than I can count, and I’ve also had women come up to me and told me that they were attracted to me in the first place but was too scared to say anything about it. Now I do hook up with some pretty high quality women, I just don’t have the quantity that most of my friends have. It’s an ongoing joke with my group of friends that I’m just the friend material and I don’t know how to take it to the next level. I disagree, I just have certain standards that have to be met. For me I need some sort of connection to do anything with, I can’t just go an sleep with someone just because I’m drunk and its there, there has to be attraction and a connection. To top it off with women who like me, my perception sucks when it comes to pinpointing and I know that’s something I have to work on. > > Something my best friend told me tonight struck me. “Every girl that meets you, loves you” and that kinda got me thinking in a way that hmm, I wonder what could it be that I haven’t triggered any sexual or attraction component with them, and why are they just friends. Then it got me to thinking what was I using, pheromone wise, to complement my personality. Why is it that the pheromones can’t break the door down initially, but once they open it just a crack, it’s like a flood comes in. So I began analyzing what I was doing and what I was wearing to see what was going on. A314 has been the core of my mixes, and with the aura that it provides, I seriously think that more women are attracted to me than I think. Secondly, it might be that I’m viewed as Mr. Right, but not Mr. Right now. I began looking into things that would support this theory, and all the women who’s ever asked me why I was still single, were the ones looking for a LTR and was done with the BS of playing around and random dating. The ones who were out to just have fun, I wasn’t attracting. > > It became my goal to learn some PUA stuff. Radman helped me out with some and I’ll probably be calling up Steve for some advice to get me started. I’m not going to change who I am, but I am going to try and do things that are out of my comfort zone in regards to learning some new “tactics”. You know if I do find someone for a LTR great, if not, then no biggie, but at least I learned and discovered something new. This leads me to my second point on my progression with A314. > > I’ve been a constant user of A314 and I’ve outlined some of the positive changes that’s happening in my life right now. I keep learning new things about myself and progressing forward, it’s really a great product to help augment positive life changes. Back to my story that I just mentioned, back then, I would have been all depressed and self-loathing that I can’t find anyone, or that no one likes me. But now things have changed, I know now that just because it’s not coming doesn’t mean that it never will. We got into this conversation because my group of friends are slowly starting to get into relationships. I’m really happy for them and some of them have found what I believe, true love. Some I don’t think would last, but some can go a lifetime. I know now in myself that whoever she is, she’s gotta meet some criteria, I"m not saying exclusively looks, because that will fade, but personality that I can really truly get along with. I was willing to try a cross country relationship with this one person, who I really clicked with, but unfortunately that didn’t work. It sucked for a little, but I moved on, I knew that I wasn’t going to deal with that behavior and lack of respect for someone’s time. We were courteous to each other and things ended pretty amicably. Man was that a sharp contrast to how my last relationship ended. I remembered my immaturity and just overall lack of self worth, it wasn’t pretty and I cringe to this day looking back on how I was ever like that. I look for the best because I give the best. Finding my own worth and respect took a long time, and I’m so happy I found it because I can get rid of any nagging doubt that was ever there. I never thought I would say that I’m content of being single and it’s really no big deal and it hit me tonight how true that was. > > Always moving forward and never looking back. Dude you sound like me. I’m the cuddly bear at work, in fact they call me “Care Bear.” All the women love me…LOVE ME!!! But most don’t wanna fuck me. Not that is all I was looking for, but yeah I’ve been friend zoned 9x’s out of 10 throughout my life and it just plain sucks. I’ve been told “You’re just so nice,” so many times that it just makes me wanna puke a little in my mouth when I hear the word nice. This is one of the reasons I turned to pheromones. I’ve got my girl, but I want options so I don’t feel like I"m stuck or settling and having to give up so much of my power due to a feeling of lack. The PUA stuff helps, but I just don’t get out and do it enough because of my relationship, I should just go out and do number closes all night long on the weekends when shes working nights and toss them before I come home…LOL ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2010, 7:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913/181 "2010-09-25T19:58:55Z")
> [@thegentleman](#): > > Dude you sound like me. I’m the cuddly bear at work, in fact they call me “Care Bear.” All the women love me…LOVE ME!!! But most don’t wanna fuck me. Not that is all I was looking for, but yeah I’ve been friend zoned 9x’s out of 10 throughout my life and it just plain sucks. > > I’ve been told “You’re just so nice,” so many times that it just makes me wanna puke a little in my mouth when I hear the word nice. > > This is one of the reasons I turned to pheromones. I’ve got my girl, but I want options so I don’t feel like I"m stuck or settling and having to give up so much of my power due to a feeling of lack. > > The PUA stuff helps, but I just don’t get out and do it enough because of my relationship, I should just go out and do number closes all night long on the weekends when shes working nights and toss them before I come home…LOL I picked up mystery’s book, The game, pickup 101 I’ll probably start reading into in when I get some free time this weekend. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913.md?page=8) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p51mustangs-journal/38913.md?page=10)