# Penguins, ordeurves, danse et conversation **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 19, 2009, 4:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256 "2009-02-19T04:01:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 4:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/1 "2009-02-19T04:01:21Z")
little french up there… lol _cough_ umm yep got a report in this post somewhere 😛 this was due last week lol ok so this was last sunday, big event in NYC, alot of people there… most i didnt know, thought it was a good time to give A314 an official testing out, classical dancing… gala event M **I** X A314: 3 drops IG: 2 sprays IO: 2 sprays Location: big place… multi story gala hall thing… massive… big grand staircase with fancy stuff… dance floor… impressive place Results: ok, so this was an after party for a concert, there were cocktails and little waiters with h’ordeurves (think thats rite) anyway, the whole thing was black tie… so i had my good ol’ tux on… which u always get comments when u wear a tux… am i wrong? so i just had small chat with some older folk for a while… while i downed a champagne flute or 2 ⭕cool: hehe, so much for carding at these parties loll then i found a group of people about my age… really not alot of young women around i noticed, but i found this group here… and i wandered over and recognized someone i knew in it and addressed them, and everyone turned to me and then at my friend there and had the expression like “ahh, you know this guys… wow your awesome” lol its a really uplifting feeling. the conversations then continued amongst us. i found a pretty blond chick (bout 20 or 21) and we chatted, then i noticed a little flock of chicks she was talking with before kinda floated over and once again… the focus was on my, and who i was… alittle more attention than i expected, but none the less i went along with it. so i continued conversation with the women…then one suggested we dance… not a bad i idea… i came prepared…lol (i had spent a week re-learning ballroom dancing from a dancing friend of mine iv known for a while) so i went out pretty confident, with the blond girl… i turned to her and she whispers “i dont know how to dance like this” i cracked a joke bout grinding… lol then told her not to wory… just follow wat i did, i would lead. which went really well and after a few minutes she felt really good and confident… which lead to girl after girl… obviously this one girl had said how easy it was to follow and most of the other girls enjoyed it as well. after complements and exclamations i returned to chatting… there was a fair bit of flirting involved, prolly brought on by me 🙄… which i had no problem with, but alot of the chat stayed with business and was very professional and formal… which surprised me. i soon found more and more younger girls which i was glad to see… after a few more dances with some more girls, i went over and sat down with some older guys, who really included me in there conversations, encouraging my opinion on things i really wouldnt have had much say in… interesting.. overall, i noticed a much more mature vibe sort of self… and i think i kinda let go of my regular easygoing sort of party attitude and adopted more of a mature business like face… i kinda let my self go in a way, letting the a314 act the character it was playing with in me, but not really noticing the change it was making at the time… i generally dont do more than 1 drop of A314, unless im instigating businesslike relations for some occasion… first time iv tried it in this sort of environment… and for the most part i found it interesting and i think its a great first impressions maker. ok… now im gonna need to buy some sort of ergonomic keyboard to keep my fingers from falling off… lol that was longer than most of my term papers 😛 bond ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 4:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/2 "2009-02-19T04:13:26Z")
Nice report, Mr. Bond. I would expect nothing less … Reps. ---
**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 4:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/3 "2009-02-19T04:24:46Z")
thx boss… yea know… im surprised to hear from u… i thought u were there? i heard there was a big deal bout a guy who was surrounded by women and in an attempt to flee was tramped and suffocated by the lips of all those women… i must be confusing u with someone else… my mistake 😉 bond ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/4 "2009-02-19T10:19:02Z")
Not me. The Mrs. is quite adept at steering me away from any woman who shows a little too much interest … lol. ---
**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 4:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/5 "2009-02-19T16:32:29Z")
now now hank… be thankful ur not dead like the poor chap at the party… those wives can be helpful occasionally 😉 bond ---
**Author:** ![Disconnected](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3be4f8/32.png) [@Disconnected](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Disconnected)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 5:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/6 "2009-02-19T17:16:42Z")
Wow, really nice report Bond. I really want to experiment with instant gentleman, because in my mind that what seemed to stand out the most out of your new found maturity 😛 But extremely well done. It was very detailed 🙂 Keep those reports coming 😃 Way to go, Marc~ 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 10:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/7 "2009-02-19T22:23:03Z")
> [@bond007](#): > > _ **i found a pretty blond chick** _ Oh, was she lost? 🙄 > [@](#): > > \*and we chatted, **then i noticed a little flock of chicks she was talking with** _before kinda floated over and once again… the focus was on my, and who i was… **then one suggested we dance** … not a bad i idea… **i came prepared** …lol_ You know I love a man who’s fast on his feet and knows where he’s going. > [@](#): > > _so **i went out pretty confident, with the blond** _ _ **girl…** _ \ ***which lead to girl after girl** … \* > > (_ **i had spent a week re-learning ballroom dancing from a dancing friend of mine iv known for a while** _) Awww, I’m so glad all those private lessons didn’t go to waste! 😃 In fact, _you’re the only one_ who _hasn’t_ stepped on my toes! 😉 > [@](#): > > _ **overall, i noticed a much more mature vibe sort of self…** and i think i kinda let go of my regular easygoing sort of party attitude and adopted more of a mature business like face… **i kinda let my self go in a way, letting the a314 act the character it was playing with in me, but not really noticing the change it was making at the time…** _ You already have a mature air, without [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). So, you really weren’t letting them lead. You were going with the flow, that’s different than just letting it _take_ you, hence you didn’t “notice” the change. Someone who isn’t like that to begin with would notice a pull in an unfamiliar/uncomfortable direction…not so with you, baby. You’re smooth as silk. > [@](#): > > \*after a few more dances with some more girls, **i went over and sat down with some older guys, who really included me in there conversations, encouraging my opinion on things i really wouldnt have had much say in** … interesting.. \* > > \*i generally dont do more than 1 drop of A314, unless im instigating businesslike relations for some occasion… first time iv tried it in this sort of environment… and **for the most part i found it interesting and i think its a great first impressions maker.** Pheromones aren’t good for much without _you_ to back 'em up. 🙂 > [@](#): > > ok… _ **now im gonna need to buy some sort of ergonomic keyboard to keep my fingers from falling off** _… lol that was longer than most of my term papers 😛 While you’re at it you might wanna get a new pair of dancing shoes, too, looks like you may need 'em. 😛 Great report, bond, reps. Bella _XOXOX_ ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/8 "2009-02-20T01:44:12Z")
> [@](#): > > …and little waiters with h’ordeurves… They hired midgets??😮 Seriously, great report, sounds like you handled yourself well. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 3:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/9 "2009-02-20T03:53:07Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > They hired midgets?? 😮 LOL. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![magicj76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magicj76/32/1858_2.png) [@magicj76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magicj76)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 1:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/10 "2009-02-20T13:47:42Z")
Mmmm… was the French for the French romantic lover image or for the food ? 🙂 Anyway, it’s pretty obvious you’re a gentleman, with the clichés about french stuff that many French people don’t have ! Unfortunately… Dancing well is a big advantage, it shows how a man can move and lead a woman into a physical activity they both share. It shows if a man is worth a woman’s trust to let him lead her. they thought you were attractive, and the dancing was surely the big challenge, which you made with perfection. No doubt they enjoyed it. It’s exactly the kind of post some of us (or at least me) would like to sincerely post. Chapeau bas, Monsieur ! ---
**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2009, 5:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/11 "2009-02-21T17:31:40Z")
> [@](#): > > Awww, I’m so glad all those private lessons didn’t go to waste! In fact, you’re the only one who hasn’t stepped on my toes! how could i? u were clinging to me… ur feet didnt even touch the ground 😛 😉 > [@](#): > > They hired midgets?? th big trays they carry just make them look small 😉 lol Thx magic for your compliments, its not very often i get a chance to go to these parties… only reason i got to go was cuz little asset was playing the piano at the new times center… that was great anyway, your rite… alot of people over look dancing as a sign of maturity and depth… when i told my dance friend i had learned ballroom dancing when i was 5 she was really impressed and said the loss of ballroom dancing in young people is a real shame… she only knows like 3 guys who know any steps… i remember in school everyone had to take this dancing course… and we had to dance with girls 😮 it was traumatic… but now i can appreciate it bond ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2009, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penguins-ordeurves-danse-et-conversation/26256/12 "2009-03-18T16:41:13Z")
Knowing a little ballroom and having the confidence to pull it out outside of the dance class is HUGE for impressing the ladies… The “Hustle” and the guts to just walk up to any girl and pull her over for a dance compensated for a complete lack of any _community style_ PUA skills back when I was single.