# Penis size **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [July 24, 2009, 8:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903 "2009-07-24T20:20:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![Stud\_Muffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a87d85/32.png) [@Stud\_Muffin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stud_Muffin)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 7:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/82 "2010-05-07T19:47:54Z")
Lol, imagine meeting that bird for a first date! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/83 "2010-05-07T20:35:42Z")
> [@Stud\_Muffin](#): > > Lol, imagine meeting that bird for a first date! She must be all stretched out though ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 9:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/84 "2010-05-07T21:46:11Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > She must be all stretched out though Black hole is a understatement šŸ˜® ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 10:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/85 "2010-05-07T22:15:35Z")
> [@Olfact Amorous](#): > > Black hole is a understatement šŸ˜® At least childbirth wouldnā€™t be too difficult for her, the babies would just kind of fall out when they were ready. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 2:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/86 "2010-05-08T02:39:58Z")
Iā€™m gonna have to be the one to chime in with a little political incorrectness here. Now Iā€™m not saying, or even implying that the women HERE are lying or fudging a little but the blanket statement that penis size is a male only obsession is five kinds of BULLSHIT! I mean even if we eliminate people from similar socio-economic backgrounds and education levels etc. so that itā€™s not a factor. Do you have any clue how often I see attractive, well educated, middle to upper middle class white women dating some guy that looks like a cross between Mike Tyson and Shaq and acts like heā€™s seen one too many rap videoā€™s. It happens a lot, often enough that itā€™s practically a clicheā€™. And you mean to tell me, that ā€œsizeā€ has NOTHING to do with their interest in these guys? Iā€™m supposed to believe itā€™s because they have so much in common and are turned on by the mentally stimulating conversation? ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/87 "2010-05-08T02:48:15Z")
> [@tacitus](#): > > Have been with more women from more backgrounds than I have memory capacityā€¦ EVERY age (including lusty old grannies),women with no kids, one kid, multiple kidsā€¦ non-english speakers, from the darkest licorice black to the palest porcelain white, diminutive sprites to hulking amazons,ā€¦ idiots, mediocrities, geniusesā€¦ society gals to earth mamasā€¦ everything with two x chromosomes, of legal age, and the human genomeā€¦šŸ˜ƒ > > The Lessons Are: > > 1. **Attitude is everything**. > > 2. Attitude is everything. The right attitude is this: you are completely turned on being in this specific reality moment with this specific person. > _You find the expanse of skin before your endlessly fascinating_. You are magnetically drawn to every exquisitely sensitive nerve ending and you instinctively understand the exact pressure and quality of touch to perfectly stimulate that nerve ending. > > 3. You perception of shared social space is everythingā€¦ you are totally ā€œin timeā€ and associated with this moment as it unfolds. _The outside world disappears. This is an absorbing mystical experience_. It has cosmic overtones. You donā€™t permit any interruptions on any level. Thereā€™s nothing to prove. You arenā€™t competing with anybody or anything. Each pussy is the most delicious, magical pussy ever. > > 4. _You educate yourself_. Like by purchasing a few books on the art of massage, sensual and otherwise. You get your massage chops up to pro level. It gets ridiculous. Sodomizing some delirious goddess WHILE giving her the best spinal massage sheā€™s ever had is memorable. Her last boyfriend probably didnā€™t do that for her and sheā€™s too embarrassed to ask. One canā€™t discuss such matters in bible study group. But we all know that Jesus would be chill with itā€¦ > > 5. _The mental space is free_ of hang-ups, neuroses, social judgments, constricted freaky worldviews, tormenting guilt, Calvinistic angst, need for humiliation, need for domination, other f.u. control gamesā€¦ in other words youā€™re free to maximally just be in the momentā€¦ > > 6. a propos of the other thing about learning statesā€¦ _there is a profound subtext of learning_ā€¦ that this encounter with this person carries with it some valuable new knowledge about lifeā€¦ it has meaning. > > Trust me on this, once you get that state of awareness going, **youā€™re almost amnesiac to the penis** ā€¦ itsā€™ an equal, evenly distributed part of a total body-mind process. Why the fuck wont they let me nominate this!!! ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 2:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/88 "2010-05-08T02:58:53Z")
> [@Olfact Amorous](#): > > Black hole is a understatement šŸ˜® lololā€¦ yeah Iā€™d say if physicists are looking for dark matter, start in her vagina. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 3:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/89 "2010-05-08T03:00:51Z")
> [@happytappin](#): > > lololā€¦ > > yeah Iā€™d say if physicists are looking for dark matter, start in her vagina. And I thought **I** was being politically incorrect.šŸ˜® ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 7:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/90 "2010-05-08T07:01:01Z")
Shit, as a musician and performerā€¦without phermones and an average sized dick..Iā€™ve pulled the most beautiful women in the worldā€¦so I say itā€¦dontā€¦maā€¦tter ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 2:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/91 "2010-05-08T14:33:55Z")
Iā€™m not saying that itā€™s a deal breaker to all or even most women. Iā€™ve had plenty of success myself in attracting and keeping women for LTRā€™s but to say with cast in stone certainty that itā€™s a non issue just isnā€™t true. Maybe it matters to some women more than others but it definitely matters. ---
**Author:** ![Stud\_Muffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a87d85/32.png) [@Stud\_Muffin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stud_Muffin)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 2:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/92 "2010-05-08T14:48:19Z")
Nah it donā€™t matter, seriously. Just make sure foreplay is amazingly awesome and you will be, more then fine šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 4:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/93 "2010-05-08T16:12:25Z")
And nevermind about that nasty lady, she is not representative of what women like. Too big is actually WORSE than too small, because it can f\*\*\*ing hurt, and pretty badly too. Better to use skill and love with a little one than to painfully bludgeon her with a big one. Medium is actually the best for most women, so if youā€™re of average size, youā€™re the actually the ā€œbest endowedā€. ā€œWell endowedā€ can refer to how huge it is (bleh) or it can refer to how perfectly and comfortably it fits, and how well it pleases her. ---
**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 10:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/94 "2010-05-08T22:42:10Z")
Huge. Wait what was the question? ---
**Author:** ![tacitus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@tacitus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tacitus)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2010, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/95 "2010-05-08T23:52:43Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > And nevermind about that nasty lady, she is not representative of what women like. Too big is actually WORSE than too small, because it can f\*\*\*ing hurt, and pretty badly too. Better to use skill and love with a little one than to painfully bludgeon her with a big one. HEY! Thatā€™s my mom ! šŸ˜ƒ So she has a unique styleā€¦ donā€™t hold it against her! ---
**Author:** ![Stud\_Muffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a87d85/32.png) [@Stud\_Muffin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stud_Muffin)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2010, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/96 "2010-05-10T18:45:39Z")
I bet your mum is sooooo forward on a first date!! lol. ---
**Author:** ![sassyholiday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sassyholiday/32/2226_2.png) [@sassyholiday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sassyholiday)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2010, 5:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/97 "2010-05-18T05:54:33Z")
> [@djandarial](#): > > LOL nice going dude. > > But on the flip side. > > Ladies may be concerned with Penis size, however the average womanā€™s vaginal cavity is a mere 4 1/2" in lengthā€¦ so anything other than that at times would bump the cervix and then what do you haveā€¦ PAIN. > > Now one of the options should be , ā€œas long as it is over 5ā€ and some good thickness" I agree but Iā€™d like to add that there are times when I can withstand a great deal of pain in that area, and times that I canā€™t. If I canā€™t stand the pain on a certain day, I will ask my bf to be extra careful (which he does a very good job) and it makes me feel like he really cares alot about me which is a total turn on. So ā€œbigā€ wins in either case! lol ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2010, 10:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/98 "2010-05-18T10:01:25Z")
> [@](#): > > Iā€™m gonna have to be the one to chime in with a little political incorrectness here. Now Iā€™m not saying, or even implying that the women HERE are lying or fudging a little but the blanket statement that penis size is a male only obsession is five kinds of BULLSHIT! LOL Ok I am finally going to weigh in on this one. Yes it matters but we dont obsess over it. To small can suck. To big can hurt. Just right is what we like. Now you may ask what is just right ? It depends because we are all built differently. What may be good for Sally can hurt Jane. If you have a small one then its important to learn technique although its advisable to learn good technique anyways for both males and females. Nothing worse and a guy that fumbles around or a women who lays there like a lump on a log. Either way big or small if you learn technique and learn what turns your partner on you to can be a vitual sex god/goddess If you think about it it matters to men whether women are tight or loose as well. There is nothing wrong with this train of thought it is what it is. Thank the goddess for the discovery of the kegel and the kegel master 2000 šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![JAYCEE1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b4bc9f/32.png) [@JAYCEE1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JAYCEE1)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2010, 10:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/99 "2010-05-18T10:29:38Z")
You know you are not stuck with what you were born with. I was pretty skeptical when I first started enlargement exercises. But they really work. They work slowly but they do work. Bigger is better. But in my experience, increases in girth are easier to achieve and have a better effect than increases in length. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2010, 10:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/100 "2010-05-18T10:59:37Z")
> [@JAYCEE1](#): > > You know you are not stuck with what you were born with. > > I was pretty skeptical when I first started enlargement exercises. But they really work. They work slowly but they do work. > > Bigger is better. But in my experience, increases in girth are easier to achieve and have a better effect than increases in length. I dont know of any studies that indicate exercise will increase penile size. It makes sense though since the size of your penis can vary depending on blood flow to the area and exercise can increase blood flow. I think all exercise can benefit your sexual organs. But like the kegal I am sure there are exercises men can perform that help as well. However in reality its not enlarging your penis its just making sure its in top form. Same thing with the kegal. Its not making you smaller its making your vaginal canal in its best natural condition. I do know that those pills they sell and machines people buy dont do anything other then increase penile blood flow. This has been proven in countless studies. Think of it like your nose. Unless you get surgery your nose is your nose. No matter what you do its not going to change its size once your full grown. The skin can get loose on it. you can gain a lot of weight and its appears bigger but its still techhnically the same size. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![tacitus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@tacitus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tacitus)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2010, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903/101 "2010-05-18T14:40:10Z")
Thereā€™s much to be said for _awareness_. Sex is based on awareness. Good sex is. šŸ˜‰ There are cases where meditation practice (at least some attempt to be open to the present instead of comparing with head movies) will give you far better sex than all the fretting about dimensions and performance ever will. Low awareness and self absorbtion are relationship wrecking mind states. If youā€™re going to connect, you have to be aware of what youā€™re connecting withā€¦ [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903.md?page=4) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/penis-size/189903.md?page=6)