Thanks for the info!
I have a couple of idea that I think would work really well for you.
First, for the work situation, you should consider Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimcay to your conversations, people will feel more comfortable opening up to you and talking about personal things. They will also trust you more.
Instant Honesty will also be helpful at home, because it sounds like you and your wife may have drifted apart, and perhaps a little rebonding is in order.
Another one for use with your wife is Ammo. Ammo will give your confidence and ex appeal a boost and can be worn comfortable in any environment.
These p[roducts also mix well with A314, but make sure you learn each one first before combining them. This post should help:
How to find your sweet spot…
I hope this helps, and let me knopw if you have more questions! 