# PheroJack Daytime Game Journal **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [July 8, 2011, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherojack-daytime-game-journal/51138 "2011-07-08T21:28:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2011, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherojack-daytime-game-journal/51138/1 "2011-07-08T21:28:55Z")
So.. how are you guys doing šŸ˜ƒ? So this is me PheroJack. Some of you might have seen me around the forum here and there. For some of you that have read my journal, you would know that itā€™s been over a month now that Iā€™ve been reading on ā€œgetting better with girlsā€ material. The reason why I do this is because I think it will be fun to have that area of my life improved, even if just a bit. There are also few other reason why Iā€™m practicing this skill. One of them is that Iā€™ve been in a ā€œrelationshipā€ (canā€™t really say it was your traditional love birds type of thing) with a girl that is fairly attractive and for no apparent reason, she decided to end it. I was getting hurt and played (mind games) the whole time I knew her, so I wanted to have more options. The other reason would be social proof among peers. My social circle isnā€™t really big, so meeting girls through friends rarely happens. Since Iā€™m underage and canā€™t go to bars yet, I will practice meeting women during the daytime. This means any place outside a club, even at 10pm šŸ˜› And of course, you guessed it right, [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) are one of tools Iā€™m going to use to help me in my journey šŸ˜‰ The program Iā€™m following is called ā€œApproach Women 2ā€ by Carlos Xuma. The latter is a known famous ā€œpick-up-artistā€ or ā€œdating coachā€ who has been interviewed several times on TV for his skills. ## Enough with the intro and letā€™s get to the journal šŸ†’ Entry #1 Trigger Emotions What are the feelings that stop me from approaching women or make me loose confidence? Why do I feel them? What other emotions should replace them? - She has a boyfriend. May be the reason I feel that because a lot of hot girls that I know do have boyfriends šŸ˜ƒ? I should feel like every interaction is success. - I would have nothing to say. The reason I feel that because naturally Iā€™m not an outgoing person by nature. Again I should feel like every interaction is success and even a ā€œHi byeā€ approach is an accomplishment. - If I get rejected and see her again, I would have lost my chance. The reason why I feel this is becauseā€¦ I donā€™t actually know šŸ˜› I should feel like Im just practicing and no matter how bad the interaction goes with a girl, there will be always another girl to talk to. - Approaching girls in a non-social venue is not the way to start. The reason why I feel this is because I donā€™t have many options to start with and guys always throw that ā€œmeeting bitches at a clubā€ talk. The feeling I should feel instead is more confidence and a feeling of self-proud because I will be able to prove these guys wrong and girls would rather meet guys during the daytime than say ā€œI met him at a clubā€. - Possibility of getting ignored or embarrassed. the reason why I feel this is I probably get intimidated sometimes by girls and that feeling that I will be awkward. I should yet again feel like every approach that I do is a practice to my skill and there shouldnā€™t be any rush since Iā€™m just ~18 after all šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2011, 5:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherojack-daytime-game-journal/51138/2 "2011-07-10T17:18:53Z")
Entry #2 Mindfulness Watched the second day of the program. Talked about mindfulness and how rejection should be handled. Main topic is still about Approach Anxiety. Exercise was to be with (or stare) at an object for as much time as I can without judging the object. The mind should have ā€œblankā€ thoughts. I managed to do 3 minutes (yesterday) so I will do 6 minutes today. Carlos Xuma is awesome! ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2011, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherojack-daytime-game-journal/51138/3 "2011-07-10T21:44:57Z")
Entry #3 Pain list Avoidance behaviours & Pain List: the dumb behaviours that you think will help you avoid discomfort - Always hanging out for a certain purpose and NOT working on my skill. - Making up excuses in m head (see list above) to NOT approach strangers. Now, I would like to put emphasis that itā€™s only women strangers that I feel that way and certainly NOT men at all. - For every criticism I get about a new thing that I do about myself (style, fashion, etc..), I tend to come off weak in front of others about it and I donā€™t feel like standing on my ground and defending my choice. I should be sure of any choices I make in my life and be ready to defend it.. not because I care about what others think but because itā€™s my natural behaviour to have strong and solid grounds in my beliefs and choices. - Not standing up for myself for things that people tell me at church. Should not give a shit šŸ˜ƒ - Not wanting to meet people from school. For some reason they bring the awkward and bad about me. I should acknowledge more (and Iā€™m actually) that Iā€™m never going to have to deal with these people again in my life for any reason whatsoever. ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [July 17, 2011, 6:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherojack-daytime-game-journal/51138/4 "2011-07-17T06:02:22Z")
Entry #4 So we went out thursday, my brother, mutual friend and I to sarge in a mall. They got blown out trying to approach a 3 set. I told my brother to approach just by himself. He approached 2 set HB7.5 (minimum, sure they were intimidating me ), went direct and he got her number. Sheā€™s 17 and my brother is 15 (looks old though). They are still texting lol. For me, I still chicken out sometimes, I donā€™t know why. Today I approached a 3 set (young asian girls like 6.5-7) and asked when does the mall closes. Good start for me. Hopefully Iā€™ll get the balls to approach direct. ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [July 17, 2011, 6:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherojack-daytime-game-journal/51138/5 "2011-07-17T06:02:42Z")
Entry# 5 PAst few days been goin out with wingmen (my brother and sometimes his wingman too) and lifeā€™s been just TOTAL fun!! even though I havenā€™t approached but my brother is GOING CRAZY!! he is younger than me (15 years old) and he is going direct at girls in the mall. out of 11 approaches, he got 4 SOLID non-falky number and 1 that is flaky. Funny thing is all these girla are like 15-18 and they havenā€™t even asked him about his age, ever. They ask him about what school he goes to though, so might wanna include that here. My brother did a direct approach on a lady that works at a nice store in the mall and they were talking for like 10 minutes no lie. This was hapennin in front of my and my brotherā€™s firends and they were in SHOCK they totally believe itā€™s possible now and itā€™s my turn to take over and be theā€¦ MASTA!! haha just jk just had a blast the past few days! i have now 2 other guys that didnt believe in daygame that are down to practice and just push ourselves out of the comfort zone ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [July 17, 2011, 6:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherojack-daytime-game-journal/51138/6 "2011-07-17T18:23:21Z")
Iā€™ll keep reading this, most of the time I am out is during the day (often by myself) walking around the city at lunchtime - I donā€™t go out in the evenings much. With my usual A314, IS and a sharp casual suit I figured it would be alright for making random chat with people, pretty girls in particular, but the approach anxiety kills me. ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [July 17, 2011, 7:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pherojack-daytime-game-journal/51138/7 "2011-07-17T19:31:45Z")
> [@Fade1](#): > > Iā€™ll keep reading this, most of the time I am out is during the day (often by myself) walking around the city at lunchtime - I donā€™t go out in the evenings much. With my usual A314, IS and a sharp casual suit I figured it would be alright for making random chat with people, pretty girls in particular, but the approach anxiety kills me. same 4 me right now ā˜¹ man i think nothin hurts in making some girlsā€™ day by just sayin hi you are cute šŸ™‚ iā€™ll try my best to get over that quickly cuz i feel like summer is almost over