# Pheromones to get the odds on my sides? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 17, 2013, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-to-get-the-odds-on-my-sides/57882 "2013-01-17T16:39:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![goostin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b5a626/32.png) [@goostin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/goostin)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2013, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-to-get-the-odds-on-my-sides/57882/1 "2013-01-17T16:39:49Z")
Me and my boyfriend (I am gay) of 11 months are currently taking a break and IDK if we’re ever gonna get back together or not. He has my heart and I thought I had his but he is figuring out what he needs.. anyways, we are possibly still meeting up to celebrate our one year anniversary and I was wondering if there were any [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) anybody could suggest to increase the odds of him wanting to work things out. I realize that pheromones obviously won’t fix our problems but if anybody has any suggestions of a product or two that could help me in this case even a little bit, I would appreciate it so much. I’m open to buying pretty much anything at the moment.. Hoping for the best! I love him with my whole heart and more! Thanks for all replies JD ---
**Author:** ![GetTheEdge](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gettheedge/32/1555_2.png) [@GetTheEdge](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GetTheEdge)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2013, 9:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-to-get-the-odds-on-my-sides/57882/2 "2013-01-17T21:14:40Z")
Perhaps [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)? I am no expert but IH may help with bonding and intimacy aspects I always like putting IS in things. For the 1 year anniversary I might suggest 2 sprays IH for bonding and intimacy, and 2 sprays of IS for general feelgood/good mood I assume both of you will already have a good conversation regardless of wearing -mones? ---
**Author:** ![goostin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b5a626/32.png) [@goostin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/goostin)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2013, 12:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-to-get-the-odds-on-my-sides/57882/3 "2013-01-18T00:34:09Z")
> [@GetTheEdge](#): > > Perhaps Instant Honesty? > > I am no expert but IH may help with bonding and intimacy aspects > > I always like putting IS in things. For the 1 year anniversary I might suggest 2 sprays IH for bonding and intimacy, and 2 sprays of IS for general feelgood/good mood > > I assume both of you will already have a good conversation regardless of wearing -mones? Oh yes, we definitely do have a lot of stuff to talk about. Thank you for the suggestion! sounds like a good approach to me! I’ll look into that! ---
**Author:** ![GetTheEdge](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gettheedge/32/1555_2.png) [@GetTheEdge](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GetTheEdge)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2013, 8:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-to-get-the-odds-on-my-sides/57882/4 "2013-01-18T08:07:47Z")
> [@goostin](#): > > Oh yes, we definitely do have a lot of stuff to talk about. Thank you for the suggestion! sounds like a good approach to me! I’ll look into that! Yes I cant imagine anything better for what you have asked for than IH for the intimacy and bonding, + IS so both you and he feel good Since you and him already have plenty of things to talk about, then I’m not going to suggest IO, I was only going to suggest IO for people having trouble talking to eachother and getting the conversation going. I’m glad I dont have to suggest IO because I’m trying to Keep It Simple and keep the mix and recommendation really simple. In terms of sex I hear spraying on some TUTH + [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) when you get to the bedroom is good, it wont hurt adding some IH there too. IS could act as a good buffer and general feel-good compount in addition to the TUTH + P83 as well. So yeah here are some good things for you to look into and evaluate The other question is, since you said you want him to want to be back together with you again, is the question of A314. This is more a question of what your partner is attracted to, and what he feels is the kind of person he wants to settle down with I’m not sure how A314 would work with attracting other males, but I know for women who are attracted / want-to-settle-with High Status Males who have that mix of authority, status, power, dependability etc then there are some interesting Fallout mixes on the forums about mixes based on A314 which after repeated exposure can help promote the fallout effect. I’m no expert on this though so find it hard to advise on specific good mixes, but that could be something you might like to look into as well That said the intimacy and bonding effects of IH should help anyway in this regard with helping bond you guys closer together How old is your boyfriend? Do you know how he’d respond to that high status male / authority figure / respectability etc vibe of A314 ? A314 can make you seem abit older and more respectable / mature / serious too ---
**Author:** ![goostin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b5a626/32.png) [@goostin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/goostin)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2013, 6:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-to-get-the-odds-on-my-sides/57882/5 "2013-01-18T18:03:03Z")
> [@GetTheEdge](#): > > Yes I cant imagine anything better for what you have asked for than IH for the intimacy and bonding, + IS so both you and he feel good > > Since you and him already have plenty of things to talk about, then I’m not going to suggest IO, I was only going to suggest IO for people having trouble talking to eachother and getting the conversation going. I’m glad I dont have to suggest IO because I’m trying to Keep It Simple and keep the mix and recommendation really simple. > > In terms of sex I hear spraying on some TUTH + P83 when you get to the bedroom is good, it wont hurt adding some IH there too. IS could act as a good buffer and general feel-good compount in addition to the TUTH + P83 as well. > > So yeah here are some good things for you to look into and evaluate > > The other question is, since you said you want him to want to be back together with you again, is the question of A314. This is more a question of what your partner is attracted to, and what he feels is the kind of person he wants to settle down with > > I’m not sure how A314 would work with attracting other males, but I know for women who are attracted / want-to-settle-with High Status Males who have that mix of authority, status, power, dependability etc then there are some interesting Fallout mixes on the forums about mixes based on A314 which after repeated exposure can help promote the fallout effect. I’m no expert on this though so find it hard to advise on specific good mixes, but that could be something you might like to look into as well > > That said the intimacy and bonding effects of IH should help anyway in this regard with helping bond you guys closer together > > How old is your boyfriend? > Do you know how he’d respond to that high status male / authority figure / respectability etc vibe of A314 ? A314 can make you seem abit older and more respectable / mature / serious too Thank you so much for all of the advice you’re giving me. Just wondering, do you think it would hurt the effect if I wore IH, IS, TUTH, and [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) all at once? I want him to feel sensual towards me and I want the bonding to all be there too. I don’t know if coming off as high status is going to be a turn on for him or not, he is still a senior in highschool so that might make him feel like we are on two different pages! ---
**Author:** ![GetTheEdge](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gettheedge/32/1555_2.png) [@GetTheEdge](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GetTheEdge)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2013, 9:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-to-get-the-odds-on-my-sides/57882/6 "2013-01-18T21:45:59Z")
> [@goostin](#): > > Thank you so much for all of the advice you’re giving me. Just wondering, do you think it would hurt the effect if I wore IH, IS, TUTH, and P83 all at once? I want him to feel sensual towards me and I want the bonding to all be there too. > I don’t know if coming off as high status is going to be a turn on for him or not, he is still a senior in highschool so that might make him feel like we are on two different pages! hmm yeah the high status attraction thing in guys is no where near as common as it is with women, so really its only if you know your guy likes that kindof thing. Since you’re leaning towards thinking it might make him feel like you are on two different pages then I doubt that high status fallout thing is the mix for him IS + IH + TUTH + [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) is actually a very good combination for specific scenarios. People often use IS and/or IH to buffer the -none containing TUTH. (and P83 for the disinhibition) Do note that as you are twenty one you will need to use less TUTH than someone who is way 48, this is because as we age our natural -none production decreases so an older male does better with slightly more -none sprays whereas at 21 the same amount of sprays can lead to an overdose of -NONE, excessive aggression, ghosting, etc > [@](#): > > do you think it would hurt the effect if I wore [IH](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) , IS, [TUTH](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) , and [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) all at once? I want him to feel sensual towards me … and the bonding Its hard to say specifically how your boyfriend would react to -none as i dont know him, but the typical use of TUTH and androstenone containing products is more for animalistic raunchy type sex TUTH and -none is abit like testosterone, it fuels agression, sexual energy, sexual desire, energy, etc Spraying on some TUTH is abit like spraying on some sexual testosterone. Good for if you explicity are trying to elicit more raunchy sex, but I really dont think its the way to go if you are definitely wanting a session of purely sensual lovemaking At this stage I’m thinking keeping it simple with IS + IH is a good idea, for the intimacy and bonding aspects, and the general feel-good mood of IS, mainly 'cos i’m not expert enough to guarantee the effects of another mix 😉