# PheroNewbie from NC **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 26, 2008, 4:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheronewbie-from-nc/11845 "2008-04-26T16:52:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![nikki357](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@nikki357](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nikki357)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2008, 4:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheronewbie-from-nc/11845/1 "2008-04-26T16:52:35Z")
Hi everyone, I’m a 34 yr old female from NC and I am new to [pheromones](https://a314.com/). I recently attended a batchelorette party for a close friend of mine and there was a lady at the party selling various adult products. Included in her line of products were several that were advertised as “sex attractant colognes” containing pheromones. One product was called “pure instinct” and she talked how it works to heighten your partner’s desires, works as a powerful attractant, has aphrodisiac qualities etc. I was very interested, yet skeptical and didn’t purchase the product at the time. I am an open minded, naturally curious person by nature and a researcher by profession so I decided to find out more information about these products. While searching the internet, I originally read about pherlure before I was lucky enough to find this wonderful site. I’ve been in a long term relationship for 7 years, and I’m looking to reignite the spark and enhance the overall attraction as well as heighten the desire. I’m also looking for something to assist with him feeling more comfortable with being open with me. Over the years he’s become more and more open (he was always accustomed to keeping things to himself before I entered his life) and I guess I’m looking to enhance his feelings of being able freely discuss anything with me (for him to feel I’m more approachable). I guess I’m also looking for help to get back to the way things were (ie more deep conversations, intimate feelings, desire, and to really turn his head again). We have 3 children (15, 12, and 2) and of course life can get a bit hectic and we as adults have a tendency to sometimes lose site of one another during the course of any given day. Before our 2 yr old came along, our older children would spend time away every other summer and it was sometimes like we were 18 again. It definitely wouldn’t hurt to get that FIRE and PASSION back again! 🙂 I’m sure I don’t exactly exude sexy confidence at the end of a long hard day. At work I often have to function in a “sales” capacity in an attempt to win new business for my company. With that said, it would definitely help to have assistance with keeping “all eyes on me” when presenting information or delivering a sales pitch, and even drawing people to me. For the most part I’m an outgoing person around people I know. I struggle a bit in environments with people I don’t know and I’m not usually a conversation initiator; however, I function much better when approached by others I don’t know or when others I’m not really familiar with are very open to me. This would also help in situations with my fiancee’s friends that I don’t know very well. Any suggestions for which products might work best for me? I’m very interested in finding out if pheromones will work for me. Thanks and keep up the great work! ---
**Author:** ![runnerxvr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/35a633/32.png) [@runnerxvr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/runnerxvr)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2008, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheronewbie-from-nc/11845/2 "2008-04-26T21:21:56Z")
Hi Nikki357! Welcome to the forum! HEre you’ll meet lots of GREAT people :-)! I’ve read your post, and let me say that probably you’ll receive better advice from the girls of the forum than how I can help… Anyway, I’ve also listened about “pherlure” and “pure instinct”, but I never used them. Anyway, I use much of the Androtics ones and I know that they can work really well. Do you have any idea on which products to buy? After reading what you wrote about, and how you’d like to use them, I think that you could try in TOGO size Instant Sexiness and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), those things should work quite well on you :-). So, wait jsut a bit and the girls will be very happy of helping you on picking what suits you the best :-). I hope this post helped you. See ya Franz ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2008, 9:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheronewbie-from-nc/11845/3 "2008-04-26T21:23:07Z")
Hi nikki! and welcome to the forum, make sure to take a look at the womens stickies there is a wealth of inforamtion that will guide you with your product choices and understanding how pheromones work. I think you will find the products here to be quite fun and could be useful in your situation. Especially if you come in with an open mind and dont use them as a quick fix. Id recomend for adding a spark to take a look at Turn Up The Heat as this can add some good fun to the bedroom. As well to drive him wild and turn your hubby on try some Lust After Me, this one can also add a positive note to an evening. Great ones to use on there own or with the products above are MX135, this is a sort of superstar mix OR check out [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a good solid product for ladies giving an angelina jolie sexy alpha vibe off. Both of these can be great in a work environment and can give you that edge you need. Dependant on your personaltiy these might be perfect for work or maybe MX134 (although I myself prefer MX135, due to my desired response 🙂 ) If you want a product that will help open your man up to deeper discussions take a look at instant honesty. It will be perfect for this. These are just some of the products that I think you will have some fun trying out and seeing others responses to. HAve fun and welcome once more! CC 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2008, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheronewbie-from-nc/11845/4 "2008-04-26T21:25:03Z")
Hello Nikki 🙂 I am glad that you didn’t fell for pherlure, which is not effective according to most member’s report here! A good product to get the passion back is turn up the heat. Also many couples love instant honesty, which can promote trust and better communication. Social products like instant shine is great when you want to be happier and more energitic too. ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2008, 11:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheronewbie-from-nc/11845/5 "2008-04-26T23:48:12Z")
Hi nikki welcome to Pherotalk! Pure Instinct was also one of my first [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) experiences, the scent is nice but the effects were minimal. You are going to LOVE anything you choose from Androtics! ---
**Author:** ![nikki357](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@nikki357](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nikki357)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2008, 12:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheronewbie-from-nc/11845/6 "2008-04-27T00:24:02Z")
Thanks everyone for the warm welcome and helpful tips! I love it here already! 🙂 I can’t wait to try the products. Of course I have additional questions (I can’t stop reading all of the helpful info on this site). Thanks to runnerxvr, cc, mockingbird, and inkling for the initial responses. CC, I read the [Womens Pheromone](https://phera.com/) Guide post and what pheromones can do and what they can’t. Both contain valuable tips and information. Good stuff!!!😃 From what I’ve read so far, I’m interested in trying out the instant sexiness, instant shine, and instant honesty. I’m also excited and anxious I might add to try turn up the heat with a side order of lust after me. The MX134 & MX135 both sound interesting as well. As I continue reading, I can’t help but to wonder how these products smell and if any of you just use these products alone or if you also wear your favorite perfume over them. I usually use body sprays because of their light scents, so I’m wondering if these products could take the place of the body sprays that I use. That would be fantastic because I’d have the scent I desire with the effects I’m looking for.😉 or is it too much to wear another product (body spray or perfume) over the pheromones? I can’t wait to get started and I will definitely post my results. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2008, 2:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheronewbie-from-nc/11845/7 "2008-04-27T02:05:50Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 CC gave some great product advice there and I agree with her. I started out with the smae pheromone as you Pure instinct. It wasnt half bad LOL If you have any questions just ask. We look forward to chatting with you in the ladies section. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours** 😃 Have fun Tisha