# Phero's backfire if person knows about it? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 3, 2008, 8:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-backfire-if-person-knows-about-it/8839 "2008-02-03T08:38:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![FRANCO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e19b73/32.png) [@FRANCO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FRANCO)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 8:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-backfire-if-person-knows-about-it/8839/1 "2008-02-03T08:38:58Z")
yea, it’s Saturday night, decided to just chill at home, gf at her friends IMing me up the ass. Anyway, so I broke the cardinal rule (or some important rule I assume) of not to tell anyone about having Phero’s. When my gf an i got back together, she found my phero’s in my bag. She didn’t care at all, in fact, she wanted to get some because she has a part-time job as a waitress and she read how it can help with tips. But now, iono, it seems like the spark has lost some luster, and the phero’s aren’t working anymore. It still works in the office (story on the later), but it doesn’t seem to work on her anymore. Maybe it’s because we’re settled down again (remember, she was my ex), iono. ---
**Author:** ![Rex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rex/32/660_2.png) [@Rex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rex)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 8:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-backfire-if-person-knows-about-it/8839/2 "2008-02-03T08:45:53Z")
well she is probably aware of the reaction she has to them and consciously puts the reaction out of mind. ---
**Author:** ![FRANCO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e19b73/32.png) [@FRANCO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FRANCO)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 8:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-backfire-if-person-knows-about-it/8839/3 "2008-02-03T08:58:55Z")
i do notice we kiss a lot, and she starts to want to…but if something happens (like an interruption) and we have to post-pone it, she’ll not want it anymore…like wtf just happened, you were hot a few minutes ago ---
**Author:** ![Rex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rex/32/660_2.png) [@Rex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rex)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 9:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-backfire-if-person-knows-about-it/8839/4 "2008-02-03T09:20:42Z")
thats gotta suck, maybe you should mix up your game a bit. ---
**Author:** ![papamoose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/db5fbb/32.png) [@papamoose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/papamoose)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 11:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-backfire-if-person-knows-about-it/8839/5 "2008-02-03T11:44:57Z")
sounds to me like a classic case of ‘will’ getting in the way! If she’s a strong willed girl, demands attention and good with people (she’s a waitress) etc. she may be simply controlling what she was feeling. i suppose the excitement of finding someone attractive ‘because they are’ is far better than finding them attractice because.. well, at the back of your mind, ‘because they are using [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)’. maybe stop using them for a while, rely on yourself and not the pheromones. introduce them again when she begins to realise she’s attracted to you, and not the pheromones, and it’s ok for her. Ben ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 12:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-backfire-if-person-knows-about-it/8839/6 "2008-02-03T12:19:41Z")
Mones make people subconsciously react, You have made her conscious of it. It just like when you make someone aware of biting their nails. They do that without thinking but now you made them consious of it so they will make a effort to try and stop. They go about their day and that conscious thought slowly slips back into there subconscious and they are back to biting there nails again. Give her some time, If she asks if you have them on say no. Try to use different covers so she dosnt recognize the scent. It will slowly start to work again. Tisha