# Pheros got me kicked out of yoga class

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-got-me-kicked-out-of-yoga-class/20108>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [September 23, 2008, 8:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-got-me-kicked-out-of-yoga-class/20108 "2008-09-23T08:00:00Z")\
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**Author:** ![Warren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/97f17d/32.png) [@Warren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warren)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheros-got-me-kicked-out-of-yoga-class/20108/42 "2008-09-28T20:02:57Z")

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> [@kSage](#):
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> I expected the reactions to be from the students on either side of me, not from the teacher who circulates around the room.
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> And there’s this thing that happens when you get angry: you stop listening. I was angry about her hiding from me, so when she told me to back off and give her space, I didn’t hear it in time to stop myself from complaining. I should have just shut up and left right then. In my head what was going on was that she was being ridiculous, lost in some fantasy of miscommunication…

From what you are saying, I suspect – and I’m feeling kinda foolish this didn’t dawn on me before – that she was NOT reacting to your pheros… But that YOU, kSage, were reacting to your pheros and the self effects on your own attitude were what _she_ was primarily reacting to. Tater seems to think most pheromones work this way. It makes a lot sense considering the day you stayed the farthest from her (but then confronted her) was the day you got booted.

> [@kSage](#):
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> I still feel, though, that we ought to have been playing by rules where that merits a warning before escalating to expulsion.

Definitely agreed. You have my sympathy.

> [@kSage](#):
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> All of this is in marked contrast to my phero experiments in improv class, where pretty much everyone had a good time… You’ve got to know your target.

I came late for a massage appointment. This was a massage therapist who works out of a yoga studio. I assumed she’d be happy to get an hour’s pay (plus the normal tip) for a half hour’s work. Traffic happens in the big city. It wasn’t her fault and I was happy to pay for the full hour, but this woman would never schedule me again! I’d been seeing her for years and I thought we got along fine. This incident had nothing to do with pheromones, but these people can be so sensitive!

> [@P87 - The Brain Clutter Cleaner](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p87-the-brain-clutter-cleaner/19709/14):
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> Dang how do you folks afford it? I had to take out a payday loan for my first order yesterday.

After you’ve been wearing your A314 for a while, maybe your boss will give you a good raise. You’ll seem so much more inportant!

Oh and Tisha, when your husband and son are around, you stay away from me, okay…

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