# Pick up Artist Advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [January 13, 2008, 4:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pick-up-artist-advice/8282 "2008-01-13T16:46:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![00greena](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/00greena/32/2065_2.png) [@00greena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/00greena)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2008, 4:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pick-up-artist-advice/8282/1 "2008-01-13T16:46:55Z")
If your on this forum you will have alredy a foundational understanding of how the human brain works in terms of it bieng a Biochemical Computer. You will have heard many of us saying the its is 90% you and 10% [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) in action. I firmly believe that humans create thier own reality and experience by thier predominant thoughts and feelings by manifestation of these. For example if you believe that the girl across the bar is so hot that you will never have a chance with her because you think that you probably dont fit her desired type. you are right. but the minuite you change your own thoughts to believe that you are great and you deserve anybody no matter how rich or famous, the chemical reactions in your brain will alter. Instead of feeling demotivated and downhearted by lookin at the hot babe, the thought change will trigger a chemical change in your brain. and as soon as your fully on the positive thought train and you have the firm vision of succesfuly attracting the girl. then you will natrualy manifest your thoughts to harmoniously co-exist with your action. This is similar to the law of attraction with the difference of they believe in the teachings of abraham and that the universe is spiritual and causing the law of attraction. when the law of attraction is applied then u actualy will see it working. exept the only reason it is working is because the Secret dvd by Rhonda byrne encourages us to think positivly so that our chemistry changes in order to attract the things we want by manifestation of thoughts. this is very deep but how can we use this to be a Pick up artist. Well you need to yourself on a mental pedestal and be secure that you are the absalutly fantastic and that if anybody rejects me it is thier loss that they cannot experience the joy that i bring. something along those lines will do. you should not be predominatly thinking this as you will probably turn into a big headed person and that is unattractive. its needs to be a background firm belief. I cant tell you what to say or give you cheesy pickup lines but i can promise you that if you apply the above theory to yourself then u will find out that once your fully aware and focused to the task in hand. ideas and convorsation will flow, dont worry about how or when, just know that the ideas of what to say will come to you and trust that they will. tips to set yourself up for some mega pheromone hits. fear of rejection… if you know that you have a slight fear for rejction. then do something to get rid of that predominant thought. go out and set yourself the task of gettin rejected 5 times. by doing that you will realise that rejection doesnt feel that bad and that its completly ok to get rejcted. some women have had a stressful day and your high energy cheery approach does not match her mood so she turns off. could be a whole host of things. get rejected and get used to it until the fear is gone. Hesitation… the moment you connect eye contact with a girl. you will know instantly that she likes you or not, you will get a sneaky suspician.thats your instinct calling to you. and the chances are that it has picked up on some subconcious body language or pheromone. think of that idea as an alarm to go ahead and make your approach. you may wish to see how it goes for half an hour to see if ure suspicion is correct or not. dont hesitate. soon as you get the feeling go for it and say hello. things wil then flow if your in the right frame of mind. if she senses hesitation then that tells her that you are not a strong minded man, posibly not the alpha male. and that cud turn her off. with all that in mind, put on your pheromones and go and get laid you deserve it as your heads probably aching. ---
**Author:** ![chadwick](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/chadwick/32/2129_2.png) [@chadwick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chadwick)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2008, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pick-up-artist-advice/8282/2 "2008-01-14T05:09:53Z")
oogreena, you should change your thoughts to 90% you and 10% her. Have low standards going in, But give High Value with eye contact and a good voice. Walk up and say hi my name is chad and then just start telling a short story. (story tell) that gives her the 10% needed to respond. If needed move on and come back later. go in casual and give value. ---
**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2008, 5:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pick-up-artist-advice/8282/3 "2008-01-14T05:29:29Z")
> [@00greena](#): > > … > > Well you need to yourself on a mental pedestal and be secure that you are the absalutly fantastic and that if anybody rejects me it is thier loss that they cannot experience the joy that i bring. something along those lines will do. you should not be predominatly thinking this as you will probably turn into a big headed person and that is unattractive. its needs to be a background firm belief. > > … You make an interesting point here … have and be secure in accepting that you are absolutely fantastic and that you bring joy – but don’t be over focussed on it that thought, or you may become unattractive (arrogant, self-important, superior, etc.) That’s a very “zen” position: to know, but not to dwell on, your own awe and mystery and joy. I’m a radical pantheist, so as far as I am concerned, I am God. Not just “a god” but God. Truly an awesome thing, absolutely fantastic, and fully capable of joy-enjoying and joy-bringing. Still, that awareness of being divine goes hand in hand with the awareness that you, and you, and you, and he and she … are also God. To paraphrase a cliche: “It’s all God.” So … perhaps you can temper that positive self-awareness by ~also~ realizing that everyone you meet is also absolutely fantastic (even if they are hiding that quality at the moment for some reason) and that they are bringers of joy. After a while, it become “second nature” to feel divine. And instead of worrying about who is awesome or fantastic or joyous … you can put the pheros on and just be aware of the sensation in your balls (if you are a guy) as you walk… 🙄 PS: I am curious to know what sexy awareness girls focus on when they walk … ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2008, 10:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pick-up-artist-advice/8282/4 "2008-01-14T10:15:30Z")
> [@](#): > > PS: I am curious to know what sexy awareness girls focus on when they walk … We are thinking about the sensation in your Balls 😮 LOL J/K I think positive awareness is important in every aspect of life not just the PUA scene. Carry that with you wearever you go and you release that positive energy into the world naturally effecting those around you. That positive energy comes back to you as well and it attracts the positive to you. Emotions, and feelings are contagious in a way. If you walk around feeling fear, rage, self doubt that energy spills over on to all those around you. That is the energy you will receive from others. Just my 2 cents 😉 ---
**Author:** ![00greena](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/00greena/32/2065_2.png) [@00greena](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/00greena)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2008, 10:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pick-up-artist-advice/8282/5 "2008-01-14T10:21:40Z")
yes its go good way to think. just recieved my first androtics stash today. but missed the DHL van so il have to wait til tomoro. lol. ---
**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 4:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pick-up-artist-advice/8282/6 "2008-04-07T16:51:23Z")
is this your idea or what’s the source?