# Playing the Pickup Game **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [August 28, 2010, 12:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168 "2010-08-28T00:51:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![azlawyer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/azlawyer/32/1571_2.png) [@azlawyer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/azlawyer)\ **Post date:** [August 28, 2010, 12:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/1 "2010-08-28T00:51:18Z")
Hey So I’m pretty new here and everyone’s been great welcoming me in. I don’t really have much experience with the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) yet, but I think there are a few tips that should go noticed. Especially for the younger guys. - Don’t drink! You drink and you impair your game. It’s a rough world out there, you need to be at your best to get the breast 😉 (couldn’t think of anything else that rhymed with best, haha) - Be confident! You are you, there are things that you may want to change and can. But you need to be confident in who you are. - Don’t be scared of rejection. This one was the biggest hurdle for me and still is. Just got to grow some cojones and go in with no regrets. - Have a wingman. This isn’t really a set in stone rule, but it generally helps when you do. I do mean man in wingman. Not one of your friends who is a girl! - Probably the most important thing is LISTEN to her when she’s talking!! I can’t emphasize this enough, there are so many times that I see a guy just blanking out on a girl. Now some guys can get away with this and I say more power to you. But for those of us who actually have to try to get a date you need to follow that rule. - Don’t overtalk her. What I mean is make it so that she is doing most of the talking. Talk about something that interests her. Not about that video game you bought last week or that awesome muscle car show coming up. (note: those topics may be appropriate for some girls) - edited: Pickup girls on days other than friday and saturday night. It makes it easier since you don’t have as much competition because most women are being hit on during those times of the week. I’m sure there are a ton more things that I forgot to mention. Well hope this helps out. Happy hunting! ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [August 28, 2010, 1:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/2 "2010-08-28T01:10:47Z")
That was amazing from you, but where is the Pheromones in this Topic? :S I was hopping to read anything that you experienced from Mones.. ---
**Author:** ![azlawyer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/azlawyer/32/1571_2.png) [@azlawyer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/azlawyer)\ **Post date:** [August 28, 2010, 1:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/3 "2010-08-28T01:18:28Z")
> [@PheroJack](#): > > That was amazing from you, but where is the Pheromones in this Topic? :S > > I was hopping to read anything that you experienced from Mones.. Being that I haven’t really nailed a consistent hit ratio, I’ll leave that up in the air. As most people know mones will only get you so far and you have to do the rest. I just figured a small simple tip for the rest of the stuff might be helpful. Especially for the younger less experienced guys. ---
**Author:** ![zizzazzzzz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/8edcca/32.png) [@zizzazzzzz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zizzazzzzz)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 12:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/4 "2010-09-03T00:49:58Z")
> [@azlawyer](#): > > Hey > It’s a rough world out there, you need to be at your best to get the breast 😉 (couldn’t think of anything else that rhymed with best, haha) LOL! Love it! I’m gonna use that when dudes ask me for advice 🙂 I appreciate this post. I’ve been blanked out plenty of times and usually end up asking questions about what I just said to confirm that someone’s listening. I really hate repeating myself! If the other person isn’t listening and it’s obvious I just stop talking and wait til they figure it out… which usually ends in a very deliberate awkward silence. You don’t want to be that guy! ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 1:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/5 "2010-09-03T01:00:14Z")
I’m sorry but…what? ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/6 "2010-09-03T04:05:28Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > I’m sorry but…what? I think your range of emotions were along the lines of this… 😕🙄 ---
**Author:** ![SKing](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8c91f0/32.png) [@SKing](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SKing)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 6:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/7 "2010-09-04T06:01:19Z")
Pretty solid advice, I can vouch for it 🙂. Let me know if you have any other tips. ---
**Author:** ![Vivid\_Boy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vivid_boy/32/2225_2.png) [@Vivid\_Boy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vivid_Boy)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2010, 10:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/8 "2010-09-05T22:27:13Z")
smile, dont be boring but at the same time dont be too over done or you look fake ---
**Author:** ![Misein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Misein](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Misein)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2010, 2:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/9 "2010-09-08T02:21:33Z")
> [@azlawyer](#): > > Hey > > So I’m pretty new here and everyone’s been great welcoming me in. I don’t really have much experience with the pheromones yet, but I think there are **a few tips that should go noticed. Especially for the younger guys.** > > - Don’t drink! You drink and you impair your game. It’s a rough world out there, you need to be at your best to get the breast 😉 (couldn’t think of anything else that rhymed with best, haha) > - Be confident! You are you, there are things that you may want to change and can. But you need to be confident in who you are. > - Don’t be scared of rejection. This one was the biggest hurdle for me and still is. Just got to grow some cojones and go in with no regrets. > - Have a wingman. This isn’t really a set in stone rule, but it generally helps when you do. I do mean man in wingman. Not one of your friends who is a girl! > - Probably the most important thing is LISTEN to her when she’s talking!! I can’t emphasize this enough, there are so many times that I see a guy just blanking out on a girl. Now some guys can get away with this and I say more power to you. But for those of us who actually have to try to get a date you need to follow that rule. > - Don’t overtalk her. What I mean is make it so that she is doing most of the talking. Talk about something that interests her. Not about that video game you bought last week or that awesome muscle car show coming up. (note: those topics may be appropriate for some girls) > - edited: Pickup girls on days other than friday and saturday night. It makes it easier since you don’t have as much competition because most women are being hit on during those times of the week. > > I’m sure there are a ton more things that I forgot to mention. Well hope this helps out. Happy hunting! I understand you mean well, but you don’t exactly look like the eldest of the wise men…😃 ---
**Author:** ![azlawyer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/azlawyer/32/1571_2.png) [@azlawyer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/azlawyer)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2010, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/10 "2010-09-08T05:09:44Z")
> [@Misein](#): > > I understand you mean well, but you don’t exactly look like the eldest of the wise men…😃 Yes, I know. People think I’m 16 but I’m not. And this is meant for those in their teens and 20’s for most women (their targets) who are in their teens and 20’s. In most cases, advice from older men tend to be outdated. But, I’ll say that there are some older guys out their that have kept their game up to the level of being able to pick up younger (20’s) women. In brief, the pickup game for different age groups tend to be in correlation to the mone reaction with different age groups. So a guy in their 40’s who’s game is tailored towards women in their 30’s and 40’s isn’t the best (not saying you guys don’t have “good” advice) source for information for guys in their teens and 20’s. Take it how you want to take it. But, please if you don’t have something to offer other than criticism of how I look and assume how wise I am don’t say anything. (side note: saying and assuming things like that is slightly offensive especially to those who do have experiences and tips that they want to share with others.) ---
**Author:** ![Misein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Misein](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Misein)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2010, 10:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/playing-the-pickup-game/41168/11 "2010-09-08T10:56:48Z")
I’m sorry if I offended you. It was just a note.