# Please don't get shocked when read this~ XP **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 7, 2010, 7:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-dont-get-shocked-when-read-this-xp/38414 "2010-05-07T19:59:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![killua](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ce7236/32.png) [@killua](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/killua)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 7:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-dont-get-shocked-when-read-this-xp/38414/1 "2010-05-07T19:59:12Z")
Hello everyone. I not good at writing, so I guess I’ll make a quick introduction about myself. Just call me by my nickname, killua. I am a guy, 20 years old, currently stay in Malaysia. Please don’t be shocked reading my problem details, cause I’m serious here. ^^ Few weeks ago, I was surfing the internet looking for some ways to improve myself, and that’s how I start to learn something about pheromone. I have searched a few sites with very pheromone product, but there’s one thing I’m sure of: there’s no such thing as magic potion that have no adverse effect. I am well aware of a real pheromone that will works wonder only when a right combination of ratio were use, and a wrong combination can end up either too strong, or have no effect at all, that’s why I have choose to sign up at this site to learn more, and hope it can help me change my life even more. I use to live indoor all days playing games and sleeping before this, but now I am a college student, I realize that how much is socializing important to any of us. I have made a serious decision to make certain changes about myself, but some of my bad habits are hard to break. So now here’s my problem: Ø I am kind of anti-social (not really, but don’t really go outdoor often if nothing important). Ø I sometimes hate to talk ( but I always think a lot, but not telling out what am I thinking, even funny stuff) Ø I have a very bad past, bad memory. Sometimes when I just get the mood to talk, I will think back about some of my sad memory, and always end up setting a barrier with the surrounding again. In other words, any minutes I will screw up any conversation. Ø I always appear too strong, violent, and cold in front of some people. Actually, it’s not true. I think because of my eye brown make me looks serious or maybe because of I learn martial arts or maybe both, make me looks even worse ==”. But actually, I am a gentle guy inside me. I know myself more than anyone, and my friend who I share about myself a lot with say so too. Ø I am not that confidence when it comes to presentation. I had overcome it by a lot through practice recently, but I don’t think it’s till enough. In martial arts however, I know that I’m sure that my ability is above average, but always refuse to fight, or maybe afraid of hurting my team mate. Ø I have a look better than average (best feature: Eyes), and have better fashion taste than most guys around me. Obviously, I appear strong and cold most of the time (that’s not cold actually, is cool and smart, to Asians only I guess. Hahaha). I know there’re some girls interested with me when the first time they meet me (obvious sign of interest ^.~), but they always too shy to get to me ==”. Well, it’s not all their fault, because me, myself is not a talkative person, I really can’t get myself to entertain them. I always end up “ignoring” them, causing them disappointed, or screw out my chance when me myself is interested with them. Ø I always being blur about what people or the lecturer is talking about, hard to focus on study and always asking annoying question about what’s other people talking. Well, sorry for the long introduction, but I guess anyone seeing this can understand how serious am I toward solving my problems. I am still working hard to solve this, but I really do hope if pheromone can help me solve some of these problems so I can hasten my “self-upgrading” process. So far, I have read some of the product of this site, and the comment left by some expert member, but I don’t really know what works for “MY” situation. I have plan to try out “Alpha A314” to boost my confidence, "Instant Openness” and “Instant Honesty” to help in communication problems, “Instant Shine” to make people around me happy without saying much and improve my focus, and finally maybe some “Turn Up The Heat” to get the girl who interested with me and I’m interested to her as well to make a move. I have the plan, however I’m not expert and I don’t know how to combine them, and what ratio would suite me. I hope some expert out here could help me out with some advices, even if it’s just a small piece of advice; I’ll appreciate it a lot. ^^ ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-dont-get-shocked-when-read-this-xp/38414/2 "2010-05-07T20:29:06Z")
Hi Killua and welcome to the forum! I would recommend ammo first as it is the best stand alone product for attracting girls. This phero will give you attraction, confidence, respect and approachability. I think the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) would be really good for you. They will help you to stop looking inwards and self analysing situations and just going with the flow. Rather than A314 which is a difficult phero to get a handle on I would recommend IG which will give you the respect and confidence but with a more cool, laid back vibe to it. All these pheros come in to go bottles which are cheaper than the 30ml regular bottles and along with your $25 GC you are good to go. Pheromones are not magic potions but they will give you a shove in the right direction. The best of luck and please report back in the mens section to let us know how you got on. Best regards Mackie ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-dont-get-shocked-when-read-this-xp/38414/3 "2010-05-07T20:52:16Z")
Hey, I highly agree with mackie. This would definitely suit you well. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 9:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-dont-get-shocked-when-read-this-xp/38414/4 "2010-05-07T21:13:56Z")
Hello Killua Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Well I am glad you decided to get out there and mingle in life. There is nothing wrong with being quiet, playing videos and staying in as long as you balance it with going out meeting people and other hobbies. Balance is key in everything in life not just martial arts. 😉 Your product choices are pretty good. Ishine IO and IH are all perfect to increase socialization. A314 may be a little tough for you if your shy. You have to initiate with this one more. I suggest IG when its back in stock. If you do get A314 you want to use a higher ratio of socials with it. So if you use 1 drop of A314 use 2 to 3 sprays of IO to buffer it a bit. When you first get your products try each one out by itself first so you can find the dose that works best for you. Then you can layer more confidently. > [@](#): > > I sometimes hate to talk That’s something you will have to work on. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) wont make you like to talk. They can make it a little easier though. > [@](#): > > I have a very bad past, bad memory. Sometimes when I just get the mood to talk, I will think back about some of my sad memory, and always end up setting a barrier with the surrounding again. In other words, any minutes I will screw up any conversation We all have sad memories. The trick is when you find your self thinking about them to switch your thinking. Stop and tell yourself thats done and over. Think about things that make you happy now. List them off right in your head. Now is the only thing you have control over. > [@](#): > > I always appear too strong, violent, and cold in front of some people. It just takes conscious thought. Smile more. Smile at people for no reason at all. Go for a walk and practice it. After a while it will just come natural. Ishine will help with this to. > [@](#): > > I always being blur about what people or the lecturer is talking about, hard to focus on study and always asking annoying question about what’s other people talking. Learn to meditate. This should come easy to you because of your martial arts background. There is a lot of free info on meditation online. This will help improve your focus more. You should also look into the art of reading and projecting body language. You can find info on the Internet for this as well. This will help your confidence and ability to interact socially as well. Dont worry your on your way to a new and improved Killua. I look forward to chatting with you in the forum and if you need help with the products just ask. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2010, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-dont-get-shocked-when-read-this-xp/38414/5 "2010-05-10T23:13:22Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.