# Please help me become a believer!!!! - my second attempt **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [December 28, 2009, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-become-a-believer-my-second-attempt/35124 "2009-12-28T18:28:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 2
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-become-a-believer-my-second-attempt/35124/2 "2009-12-28T22:38:29Z")
Hello Floyd Welcome Back. Seems like you made the common mistake new people make. You tried to run before you learned to walk… so to speak. You really should get to know each product well before moving on to the next one or before layering them. This means trying them in all different environments, in different application spots and at different dosages. You also need to watch for hits from people you may not be targeting. Lots of times your so focused on effecting a certain person or type of person you totally miss hits your getting from elsewhere. Keep notes and suddenly behavior patterns become clear. One other thing to know before you begin again is what [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) can do and what they cant do. Read this… [What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) So many people have such high expectations from all the hype they read they tend to fail to see the pheromone working. I am not saying this is what happened in your case but we might as well cover all the bases now. > [@](#): > > . Give out a really impressive effect at work. I would like to get in front of really type A people and be able to impress them. Overall looking for a significant success in my career - I’m thinking A314 - I used it but haven’t been able to really gauge much difference. I do think A314 could get me a lot of success in this goal of mine but not sure if I should use it with something else and how I should be using it. > [@](#): > > . Get a big boost in job intereviews - I plan to start interviewing for a middle management role (a project manager or VP) - as I go through the job process, I would love to have something with me that will give me the extra boost and impress the people interviewing me. Maybe A314 is the right phero for this job too? A314 is great for work if your looking to increase respect and success. You do need to give it some time though. If you already are good at your job and garner some respect from your coworkers it may be a little harder to see right away. Keep using it. What kind of job do you have ? Do you already hold a high position in the company compared to your peers ? Just basic details you dont have to tell me where. As long as you back A314 with your actions success will come easier. You have to work with the signature just like the natural Alpha would. So when those interviews come. Look them right in the eye and show them what you got and let the A314 enhance their impression of you. > [@](#): > > 1. I want to be able to start making lots of friends and socialize - in other words, I want to try out pheros that give me an enormous confidence to approach, talk and meet with people without fear. I would love to go to all the parties and other events I get invited to Pheromones can help your confidence levels a little but usually this doesn’t occur until you notice them working. They do have some self effects for some users but they are mainly for signaling others. Confidence is something that comes from the subconscious mind. Confident people do not think about being confident they just are. Your focusing on your fear in your conscious mind and people listen to there conscious mind whether its right or wrong. IO will help you and others open up and feel more comfortable but it wont make you unafraid. You have to just do it and as you do the confidence builds. You can practice on improving your confidence. Start by talking with people who the outcome matters little to you. This way if they blow you off which most people usually dont it wont matter. Once you get going and the person is exposed to your IO you will see a change and suddenly they get more chatty. Ishine is another one that’s good to get for social situations. Its charismatic warm uplifting and brings a feeling of well being health and vitality that attractive to others. People like to hang with people that make them feel at ease and happy. > [@](#): > > 1. I want to be able to become really approachable and almost irresistible to girls - I see so many women on a daily basis just going when I am going about my business - on the streets, the cafe, the bookstore etc. And I would love to be able to get the confidence to go talk to them and know that I will have a good chance of getting somewhere. > Really all I am looking for to push me is a eye contact or a smile from the pretty girls that I see and given the confidence that a phero would provide, I would approach them. There is no pheromone that will make you irresistible to every girl. Pheromones are just part of overall attraction. Its when all the aspects of attraction come together that you become irresistible to a person. That means Pheromonal, Visual, intellectual. and emotional. Pheromones will help with the first and last but they cant change the middle two. AMMO is your best bet. I think the problem is your looking to the pheromone to give you confidence and that needs to come from you. When you see them look at you smile and wink. Give them a reason to approach. Your not the only one out there who is scared. > [@](#): > > 1. Overall success in job, business and money - I would like to be more successful in my job and in business and make a lot more money than I am making right now - I plan to attend conferences, networking mixers etc. and I hope I can find mones that will help me get the best out of these events. I am talking plain events [meetup.com](http://meetup.com) events to more important ones like business networking events and conferences. Covered this in number 1 but I would add that IH is good to use with A314 when your going one on one with a client. IO or Ishine when your at a mixer. > [@](#): > > 1. Self Effects - something that will keep me in the positive mood, give me tremendous confidence, give me energy and keep me engaged with life and the world around me every single day - something that will help bring the true potential out from me. As I mentioned pheromones are for sending signals about you to others. They are a tool to help you improve and enhance yourself but there not the only tool you should use. Practicing being more outgoing will improve confidence. Learning to read body language which is another way we all communicate subconsciously with each other helps. This way you will more easily see when someone is interested and also be able to use your own body language to convey what you want about yourself. There are alot of free sites online about body language. I am not going to suggest any of the putative or mixes just yet. You need to get the most effective products (the consumer products) working for you first. I wish I could tell you pheromones could do it all for you but I would be lying and no service to you really. You can do this. Even the most confident person faces fear. The only difference is we take the challenge despite the fear and if we fall down we get right back up and do it again. 😉 Oh and if you need more tips on building confidence just ask. There are some things you can do as long as your willing to take action. Tisha --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-become-a-believer-my-second-attempt/35124)._