# Please help me, i need some genuine helpful advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 18, 2008, 7:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-i-need-some-genuine-helpful-advice/11422 "2008-04-18T19:28:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 5
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Beansmike, welcomr to pherotalk! If you decide to buy from Androtics, be sure to post in the intro section for a gift cert worth 15 USD. Phero wise I see you asking two different questions and finessing the two together may not be easy. For a big guy who may be intimidating [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is a good choice… it’s not so good if your main problem is being seen as “just a friend”. The social pheromones IH IO and Ishine are certainly must haves. Many guys overlook them but women are social animals and anything that helps a guy be seen as a social animal too is awesome. Last are the products that contain androstenone. They will project a more sexual vibe but they also can make you more intimidating. Ammo is a good product to start with. Here are some threads you should read… > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106) > [@Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159): > > Ok. Feel free to correct any errors I may have made. This took forever to write, so I hope you like it. Chapter 1 Alpha Androstenone: In the forum this is commonly referred to as –none or none. It is a hormone produced in men and women’s sweat. (significantly less if women) “Androstenone is the first mammalian pheromone to be identified.” ([http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androstenone](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androstenone)) Androstenone has the ability to cause arousal in women during their ovulation. It also has the ability cause irr… The rest of the men’s sticky’s are really good too. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/please-help-me-i-need-some-genuine-helpful-advice/11422)._